k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 Happy new year all..but life seems to be already darkened..plz help me..Quite long but plz read thro..I really have no one to help me I got married few months before. It was an arranged marriage. Before my marriage, we used to speak but i wd feel that my guy was not intimate with me..But things have changed now..both of us love each other so much..My DH is such an adorable person and really takes care of me so well. Even b4 marr he kept speaking about few of his friends who r girls. I did not care much. Two weeks after my marr i accidentally saw his emails sent to a girl xx both b4 and after marr(he logged in his gmail and left outside..asking me to shutdown the sys). Thro the chats and mails I clearly understood that he has a crush on that girl(he has sent mails to her even during our HM..with all miss u and cant wait to see u nd such stuff) I have spoken my heart to him explaining how much it hurts when he does something like that. 1. I cried so much nd told him , how he might feel if i speak with a guy like that after engagement or marr he said, she was a gr8 friend and that she does nt have ny one(she had a boy friend even b4 she knows my hus)..nd he wd slowly stop it I AGREED 1 month later 2. Through an another incident i got to know that she knows our daily updates.....again cried..again promises..again I AGREED 1 month later 3. Went to his office once, xx called him so many times(not knowing that I was thr) and he had explanations for that..again crying..again promises.. I AGREED 4. Now i got to check his mobile bill which shows that every day he called the girl 2-3 or even 5 times on some days..infact he calls me ly so many times..i am just getting so frustrated..i am feeling so lonely and frustrated..coz he never keeps up his promises..i know everyone here ll understand the pain..I have told him 100 times that a girl can bare nything expect sharing her husband..he doesnt understand..Its nothing more than talking and its ly friendship, understood. But 5 times a day from his side alone..may she calls 3 times..She depends on him even for very small things..All this has driven me crazy. I dont really care abt girls being his friends..I worried coz i know his "affection" for her. Now again promises..this time he pleaded me soooo much..i said OK. I just feel like killing myself..I am such a cheerful person, lost all charm and sitting like a dumb. I am dying from inside. I am so collapsed. I am not able to eat, sleep and I am trembling. The reason is that he has never respected me and he had never bothered to cut her relationship..What can I do..I am in tears even while typing this.. PLEASE HELP ME..PLZ ADVICE UNLUCKYDUCKLING
kidmakers Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 bongu le.. abbayilaku inko ammayi close friends ga unte veella problem endho.. okko saari g lo kaalthundhi.. adhi possessive ness aa artham kaadhu.. anumaanam aa artham kaadhu.
tom bhayya Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 [img]http://i51.tinypic.com/1z1e2hw.gif[/img]
k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Author Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1330456844' post='1301460837'] bongu le.. abbayilaku inko ammayi close friends ga unte veella problem endho.. okko saari g lo kaalthundhi.. adhi possessive ness aa artham kaadhu.. anumaanam aa artham kaadhu. [/quote]inka edaina examples ivvu kiddu....... nuvvu ilanti vatilo chaaaaaaaala s3xperienced kada
Anta Assamey Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 I will support the girl ikkada.... Girls will feel that , as they are possesive and she feel she should be first preference not someone else .... Vadu kuda daily update ivvadam tappu enta friend aina....
k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Author Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='GalaxyOwner' timestamp='1330456955' post='1301460846'] sodhi gallu sodhi gola [/quote]evvarini annav baa.... mammalni aa ?? leka aa estorylo unna characters aa ??
kidmakers Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='k2s' timestamp='1330457282' post='1301460876'] inka edaina examples ivvu kiddu....... nuvvu ilanti vatilo chaaaaaaaala s3xperienced kada [/quote] naa breakup kuda same issue vallane..
k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Author Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='Brahmanandam©' timestamp='1330457304' post='1301460878'] I will support the girl ikkada.... Girls will feel that , as they are possesive and she feel she should be first preference not someone else .... Vadu kuda daily update ivvadam tappu enta friend aina.... [/quote]
Bhayya Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 Anduke India pillalani cheskoku daddy,... Ikkadollu ayite ardam chesukuntaru.... India pillalani testhe, girls ni chooshina tappe....
k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Author Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1330457347' post='1301460882'] naa breakup kuda same issue vallane.. [/quote]tell us more yaa
Spartan Posted February 28, 2012 Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1330457347' post='1301460882'] naa breakup kuda same issue vallane.. [/quote] [img]http://i45.tinypic.com/dh7gv5.jpg[/img]
k2s Posted February 28, 2012 Author Report Posted February 28, 2012 [quote name='subba rav' timestamp='1330457365' post='1301460884'] Anduke India pillalani cheskoku daddy,... Ikkadollu ayite ardam chesukuntaru.... India pillalani testhe, girls ni chooshina tappe.... [/quote]not agreed........ india girls ayitey tappu antaru.....antey........ kani ikkada ammailu ayitey adey tappu vaallu chestharu
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