rapchik Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]Hi,[/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]My situation is in terrible state... I got married aroung 1.5 years ago... Until last month we were really happily married couple.. and I was really proud of my wife and I used to consider myself very lucky guy to find such a good wife... I usedto care for her like my daughter... I always tried to give her best life , and always tried to full fill her wishesh... how costly it could be, I never used to think twice before spending for her...[/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]Mine was arrange marriage thru materominal site, and I was very choosy about girls... to be honest, I never touched a girl.. before marriage I always wanted to be honest to my wife and never thought of any girl in my life apart from my wife.. I always had fear that I might not get a gud wife ( with clean background)... but was happy to see that my wife had a clen background... Until I found some messages in my inbox from my wifes ex-lover.... [/size][/font] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW15ylcYuxI/AAAAAAAABNo/gweEHj6gM5Q/brahmi-1.gif[/img][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] [/font][/color] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]yes, I was disheartende to know that my wife had an affair with a guy for 2 years... and she had sex with him for couple of times... I couldnt believe the messages from her boyfriend... only after asking my wife she confessed that she had an affair for 2 years and she used to consider him as his husband... only because of her parents she married me...[/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]But she did confessed that she is totally devoted to me and not be in touch with guy since last 3 years.... [/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]Before marriage, 100 times I tried to ask her to tell me if she has any relationship in the past ..cos I wanted to make every thing clear before getting into a trust releationship called marriage... but she never spoke to me about this... I made everything clear from my side... and wanted her to be honest with me before starting a new life... only after looking into messages and speaking to her I came to knw abt her affair....[/size][/font] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn94/RAJANBOSS/pokkr6i.gif[/img][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] [/font][/color] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]to be honest, I felt like commiting suicide... as I was cheated and my sentiments were broken... but thought I will be able to forget her past... but whenever I see any movies , serials ( romantic scenns) , I always see my wife with her boyfriend... I am not been albe to forget this... and daily I am using bad words , trying to trotcher my wife... I knw she is totally mine now... but not been able to forget her past.. as even after asking many time I was not made aware of the facts before marriage....[/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]My life is like , we cannot live without each other and we cant live together.... not sure wht to do and hw to handle this situuation... it been almost 2 months since I came to know that fact of her affair... not been able to forget and I am not talking to her..... I have lost my job due to the shock which I hav got... [/size][/font] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] [/font][/color] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]Daily she cries, and she confesses that she did a mistake in her life and wanted to forget that by loving me... to be honest we really loved each other so much.. and had spent our "Golden" part of our life for 1.5 years... but life is really hell since last 2 months.. not been able to concentrate on any thing.... [/size][/font] [font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=5]PLEASE ADVISE WHAT DO I do now...........[/size][/font] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-hWGSASGA2qc/TrIKlqm-A2I/AAAAAAAAFHI/LemXbCxuooE/s150/Mahi-16.gif[/img][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] [/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vikkas Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 adjust ayipo. ledha divorce ledha daanini sampi nuvvu sachipo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tom bhayya Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img][img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img][img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anta Assamey Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 Veediki aa Pakkane vunna Ladies forum lo thread chadavamanu... Veedi pellam chala better anipistundi.... [img]http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn94/RAJANBOSS/pokkr6i.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 5, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='Vikkas' timestamp='1330969451' post='1301481355'] adjust ayipo. ledha divorce ledha daanini sampi nuvvu sachipo. [/quote] [img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW15ylcYuxI/AAAAAAAABNo/gweEHj6gM5Q/brahmi-1.gif[/img] intha violent answer aaa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angreez Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 mundhu velli oka manchi doctor ki supettukomanaley,vaadu inka 1980's laney unnadu........should change according to society...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vikkas Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1330969727' post='1301481374'] [img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW15ylcYuxI/AAAAAAAABNo/gweEHj6gM5Q/brahmi-1.gif[/img] intha violent answer aaa [/quote] mari inka vere option em undi. she betrayed him. so adjust avvali ledha vadileyyali. revenge thokka anukunte sampeyali Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angreez Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='Brahmanandam©' timestamp='1330969689' post='1301481371'] Veediki aa Pakkane vunna Ladies forum lo thread chadavamanu... Veedi pellam chala better anipistundi.... [img]http://i302.photobucket.com/albums/nn94/RAJANBOSS/pokkr6i.gif[/img] [/quote] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img][/size][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img][/size][/font][/color] mama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anta Assamey Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='angreez' timestamp='1330969832' post='1301481383'] mundhu velli oka manchi doctor ki supettukomanaley,vaadu inka 1980's laney unnadu........should change according to society...... [/quote] Vaadi badha pilla podukunanduku kadu..... Veediki aa vishayam cheppananduke.... [img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vikkas Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='angreez' timestamp='1330969832' post='1301481383'] mundhu velli oka manchi doctor ki supettukomanaley,vaadu inka 1980's laney unnadu........should change according to society...... [/quote] partially agreed. kaani vaadu pelliki mundey daanini chaala sarlu adigadanta kada. ippudu kooda adhi cheppaledhu. daani ex message valla telisindi. after 2 years pani gattukoni daani ex veediki email cheyyalsina avasaram em undhi. something fishy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 5, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='Vikkas' timestamp='1330969923' post='1301481392'] partially agreed. kaani vaadu pelliki mundey daanini chaala sarlu adigadanta kada. ippudu kooda adhi cheppaledhu. daani ex message valla telisindi. after 2 years pani gattukoni daani ex veediki email cheyyalsina avasaram em undhi. something fishy [/quote] [quote name='angreez' timestamp='1330969832' post='1301481383'] mundhu velli oka manchi doctor ki supettukomanaley,vaadu inka 1980's laney unnadu........should change according to society...... [/quote] Doctor kalavaa...of course it might be right but...u can say that he is living in 2012 not in 1980 where affair is common in this generation... Who will say genuinely that i have slept with someone before marriage...Its impossible....Evadu chepadu...chepthe pellilu kavvu....ayina sariga unadavu...U cant expect u r wife or u r hubby saying truth before marriage but u should trust each other after marriage and keep past behind u... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angreez Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='Brahmanandam©' timestamp='1330969918' post='1301481391'] Vaadi badha pilla podukunanduku kadu..... Veediki aa vishayam cheppananduke.... [img]http://i42.tinypic.com/mk92cp.gif[/img] [/quote] [quote name='Vikkas' timestamp='1330969923' post='1301481392'] partially agreed. kaani vaadu pelliki mundey daanini chaala sarlu adigadanta kada. ippudu kooda adhi cheppaledhu. daani ex message valla telisindi. after 2 years pani gattukoni daani ex veediki email cheyyalsina avasaram em undhi. something fishy [/quote] anumanam penu bhutham mama.....adhi veeniki chaala undhi......andhukey doctor supettukoni antunna...... antha manchodu aithey,pellam cell phn lo donga lekka mesgs chudadam ndhuku..........ainaa mundhu dhorsaani ni analey,msg delete cheyakunda inka alaney unchukunnandhuku........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 5, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='angreez' timestamp='1330970220' post='1301481414'] anumanam penu bhutham mama.....adhi veeniki chaala undhi......andhukey doctor supettukoni antunna...... antha manchodu aithey,pellam cell phn lo donga lekka mesgs chudadam ndhuku..........ainaa mundhu dhorsaani ni analey,msg delete cheyakunda inka alaney unchukunnandhuku........ [/quote] [color=#282828][font=arial, helvetica, sans-serif][size=5]"Until I found some messages in my inbox from my wifes ex-lover.".. Bhayya ee point miss ayavu..vadi INbox loki vachayi anta...vadi ex - lover nuchi[/size][/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angreez Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 @reddygaru yeah miss ainaa........ kaani pelli chupulla ala adigina ventney,veedu narrow minded ani vadhileyalsindhi...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anta Assamey Posted March 5, 2012 Report Share Posted March 5, 2012 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1330970341' post='1301481421'] [color=#282828][font=arial, helvetica, sans-serif][size=5]"Until I found some messages in my inbox from my wifes ex-lover.".. Bhayya ee point miss ayavu..vadi INbox loki vachayi anta...vadi ex - lover nuchi[/size][/font][/color] [/quote] Aite aa Ex lover gadu eey edo plan vesi vuntadu kapuram lo chichu pedadamu ani.... Aina ee tingari pillaki brain leda vadi phone lo nunchi msg chestunda,..... [img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW15ylcYuxI/AAAAAAAABNo/gweEHj6gM5Q/brahmi-1.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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