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[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332135886' post='1301531927']

the girl has the courage to go for divorce looking at her parents support...since u r saying that the parents are traditional value oriented people...and they care for prestige,,why not ask her parents to call their daughter and counsel her saying they wont support her if she comes back for divorce and that she is on her own....

in this case...[color=#ff0000][size=4]the girls parents have to CONVEY A MESSAGE TO THE GIRL[/size][/color] ..that her husband is her ONLY FUTURE and not them....only then the girl will start thinking in the other direction..else..she wud always think she has a luxury of walking out of marriage with minimal bruises .

if there are any of the girls friends....try to talk to them and ask their help in convincing the girl into an amicable fashion..explain to her the NIGHT MARES of divorce and that she would be branded as an outcast etc. find out who is the person she listens to ..or likes the most and convey the message through them...looks like the girl is head strong...and will not tolerate FORCED messages. So better give it to her slowly and gently rather than trying to PUSH IT HARD.
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Naadi kooda adey hope baa. I am praying to the god that somebody (parents or somebody) explain it to her that life is not a karan johar's film where shahrukh comes, sings duets and makes her laugh always.

The problem is she has lot of expectations with life, wants everything over the top. Needs 200% attention. Anything less than that is not acceptable.

Thats why both families are in a mess. Nobody wants divorce or bad name. But whether the girl will understand everything and compramise with life??? thats the challenge...

India ki velthunnaru next week. Choodali em avvuthado.

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baa facebook account undemo baa atu side.. chala varaku recent time most of the opproblems are with facebook loo undey old friends..

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[quote name='golmaal govindam' timestamp='1332136216' post='1301531937']

Naadi kooda adey hope baa. I am praying to the god that somebody (parents or somebody) explain it to her that life is not a karan johar's film where shahrukh comes, sings duets and makes her laugh always.

The problem is she has lot of expectations with life, wants everything over the top. Needs 200% attention. Anything less than that is not acceptable.

Thats why both families are in a mess. Nobody wants divorce or bad name. But whether the girl will understand everything and compramise with life??? thats the challenge...

[b]India ki velthunnaru next week. Choodali em avvuthado.
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India ki velthe maatram...assam ee....girls parents saddi cheppakunda..inka alaage gumbhanam gaa kurchuni...inko pakka..ammayi emo..in-laws dagagraki vellakunda...vallani maatlau anatam..porpaatuna..leda hubby ni anatam..leeni poni complaints cheyyatam..veetanniti valla..ISSUES inkaa COMPLEX avutaayi....

alaa kaakunda..GIRLS parents kocnham mature ayitey ...they can calm donw the thigns..but looking at the way things are going..i dont think the girls Parents can HANDLE the situation well. their failure is bound to impact the couple.

eedi emayina...atleast INDIA lo ayina..MARRIAGE COUNSELING ki velthe better...US situations ki akakda counsleing saripotundi ani nammakam gaa cheppalenu kaani..but alteast BASE ayina sarigag set cheste..ikkadaiki vachaka ...they can go to US marriage counsleing and set righta few thigns .....the GIRL definitely needs a SECOND OPINION...by someone sensible...

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[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1332136453' post='1301531949']
baa facebook account undemo baa atu side.. chala varaku recent time most of the opproblems are with facebook loo undey old friends..
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_*hiDe _*hiDe _*hiDe

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[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1332136453' post='1301531949']
baa facebook account undemo baa atu side.. chala varaku recent time most of the opproblems are with facebook loo undey old friends..
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agreed....

@golmaal govindam : ee tondarlo....facebook lo status update lu hate message li pettukovaddu ani cheppu iddariki...

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[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332136629' post='1301531964']

agreed....

@golmaal govindam : ee tondarlo....facebook lo status update lu hate message li pettukovaddu ani cheppu iddariki...
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sure baa...
situation antha varaku raaledu. Very image conscious people (both causin and wife..)
but anyways warning aithey istha...

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enni kashtalochayi baa.. ilanti case lu ekkuvayipoyinayi ee madhya..

aa ammayi evari maataki aithe respect isthundo vallu chepthene ee matter settle avuthundhi..

vallevaro twaraga eemetho maatladela paristhuthulu shape up avvali ani korukuntunna..

love ayina marriage ayina oka relationship strong ga vundatam lo ammayi di chaala keelaka pathra.. hope she understands that

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baa inak ekkucva details vaddu ley baa.. mutual friends lo evarain chusthey details too many vellipothey bad aipohavu.. e forunm meeda kaanu chala mandi ki undi

so better to keep more details in PMs,.,.

Poolarangadu baa sepinattu seeyi , kaavalantey call sesi maatladu ..

rather than putting any more details about them here.. we already had discussed abou ttheir parents in too manydetails..











hope u go my point.. will talk tomorrow..

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[quote name='mba' timestamp='1332136917' post='1301531981']
enni kashtalochayi baa.. ilanti case lu ekkuvayipoyinayi ee madhya..

aa ammayi evari maataki aithe respect isthundo vallu chepthene ee matter settle avuthundhi..

vallevaro twaraga eemetho maatladela paristhuthulu shape up avvali ani korukuntunna..

love ayina marriage ayina oka relationship strong ga vundatam lo ammayi di chaala keelaka pathra.. hope she understands that
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thankyou for understanding baa...

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[quote name='mba' timestamp='1332136917' post='1301531981']
enni kashtalochayi baa.. ilanti case lu ekkuvayipoyinayi ee madhya..

[b][size=6]aa ammayi evari maataki aithe respect isthundo vallu chepthene ee matter settle avuthundhi..[/size][/b]

vallevaro twaraga eemetho maatladela paristhuthulu shape up avvali ani korukuntunna..

love ayina marriage ayina oka relationship strong ga vundatam lo ammayi di chaala keelaka pathra.. hope she understands that
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DB ki ramandama..... [img]http://i55.tinypic.com/o6go3k.jpg[/img]


amma nanala maate vinadanta...inka janalani em lekka chestadi...

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[quote name='golmaal govindam' timestamp='1332135345' post='1301531903']
Ledu baa.. lets not judge anybody's character here. Girl and family, everyone are good people. Just problem with anger management.
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sry to say this baa.. i dont feel so.. girls parents are to be blamed here... only they can solve this..but nee last post lo single girla ani pamper chesaaru.. she is still feeling so..[img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/-S05zyo2iZok/TfwrHo0HCZI/AAAAAAAAC4I/jYSxYFGZ93g/brahmi-8.gif[/img]

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[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1332137152' post='1301531994']
DB ki ramandama..... [img]http://i55.tinypic.com/o6go3k.jpg[/img]


amma nanala maate vinadanta...inka janalani em lekka chestadi...
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ooruko baa.. 23-25 vachaka amma nanna la maatlau vinaka poyina.. life lo vallani baaga impress chesina inspire chesina valla maatalu vine chance vundhi.

amma nanna chepthe.. geneartion gap vallaki em avuthundho ikkada telidu ani kotti paarese chance vundhi..
nenu chaala mandini chusanu ilaanti vallani...
so dont under estimate my statement.. please..


mana db naa lol... sad ga uvnna ra baabu antene.. sachipo ani cheppe rakaalu.. ikkadiki vasthe inkem laa mataash..

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[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1332137152' post='1301531994']


DB ki ramandama..... [img]http://i55.tinypic.com/o6go3k.jpg[/img]


amma nanala maate vinadanta...inka janalani em lekka chestadi...
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cheppalem...chaala mandi untaaru alaanti rakaalu...parents chepte ekkaadu..friends /strangers chepte baaga ekkutundi.

INDUS LADIES forum motham adee baapathu....

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[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332135886' post='1301531927']

the girl has the courage to go for divorce looking at her parents support...since u r saying that the parents are traditional value oriented people...and they care for prestige,,why not ask her parents to call their daughter and counsel her saying they wont support her if she comes back for divorce and that she is on her own....

in this case...the girls parents have to CONVEY A MESSAGE TO THE GIRL ..that her husband is her ONLY FUTURE and not them....only then the girl will start thinking in the other direction..else..she wud always think she has a luxury of walking out of marriage with minimal bruises .

if there are any of the girls friends....try to talk to them and ask their help in convincing the girl into an amicable fashion..explain to her the NIGHT MARES of divorce and that she would be branded as an outcast etc. find out who is the person she listens to ..or likes the most and convey the message through them...looks like the girl is head strong...and will not tolerate FORCED messages. So better give it to her slowly and gently rather than trying to PUSH IT HARD.
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agreed

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[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332137402' post='1301532013']

cheppalem...chaala mandi untaaru alaanti rakaalu...parents chepte ekkaadu..friends /strangers chepte baaga ekkutundi.

INDUS LADIES forum motham adee baapathu....
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[img]http://img530.imageshack.us/img530/6233/venkyyeah.gif[/img] agree...uncle vese postlu chsute ardham avutadi...ranganna..oka suggestion...

Pelli seskovalante...ammai lo elanti lakshanalu undale....form ur exferience....seppava....ante evari priorities reqs valalvi untai..

koncham mana style lo seppu....keeping me in mind...

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