Spartan Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='ChandraBhai' timestamp='1332137630' post='1301532026'] Ensure your wife knows driving [/quote] [img]http://i39.tinypic.com/2w4wepz.gif[/img]
POOLA RANGADU Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1332137516' post='1301532022'] [img]http://img530.imageshack.us/img530/6233/venkyyeah.gif[/img] agree...uncle vese postlu chsute ardham avutadi...ranganna..oka suggestion... Pelli seskovalante...ammai lo elanti lakshanalu undale....form ur exferience....seppava....ante evari priorities reqs valalvi untai.. koncham mana style lo seppu....keeping me in mind... [/quote] mana DB lo SENIOR mmber vi...ee thread lu disco lu...personal case reference lu...choosi ippatikee neeku oka IDEA vachesi untundi . marriage aneedi ONCE in a LIFE TIME INCIDENT (supposed to be)..so ..andariki CHAALA..HOPES/DREAMS and EXPECTATIONS untaayi.....u r a pretty cool guy and easy going one as far as i know...prastutam...unna scenario lo ayitey...NRI abbayi la ki Ammayi dorakatam ee ekkuva type ayipoyindi....neeku buddhi gaa..Job ..manchi salary, car ..personality anni unnayi kaabatti...u should have a fairer advantage...but other factors like FAMILY BACKDROP/NETWORK OF PEOPLE/CASTE/REGION etc come into picture too. US lo unna ammayi ayitey better anukuntunna neeku..dat way..above EXTRA factors cant play so much important role as compared to ur PERSONAL PROFILE..that way u can njoy life. India nundi vache vallaki ADJUST avvatam kashtam avtundi ikkada mentalities ki...so ikkada MS chesina ammayilu/ABCD lu ayina parvaledu....ani naa uddesam..endukante..vaallu...INDIA vellataaniki ishtapadaru kaabatti..their preference is to adjust according to situations here...also..partying ki alavaatu padi untaaru already...so it is not a cultural shock to them....nuvvu taagavu ani cheppavu ga appaatlo.. anyway...eedi emayinaa...ammayi past edayina...affair lu unna...inkemunna,,(pillalu lekunda..abortion lu avvakunda unte chaalu). ..ammayi elantidi ayina..Once u have decided to go for it...u will have to make up ur mind mentally...to be READY TO CHANGE FOR HER...marriage is about HER initially....SLOWLY..when the relation cements..u can talk about both of ur choices( u two).
Spartan Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332138059' post='1301532052'] mana DB lo SENIOR mmber vi...ee thread lu disco lu...personal case reference lu...choosi ippatikee neeku oka IDEA vachesi untundi . marriage aneedi ONCE in a LIFE TIME INCIDENT (supposed to be)..so ..andariki CHAALA..HOPES/DREAMS and EXPECTATIONS untaayi.....u r a pretty cool guy and easy going one as far as i know...prastutam...unna scenario lo ayitey...NRI abbayi la ki Ammayi dorakatam ee ekkuva type ayipoyindi....neeku buddhi gaa..Job ..manchi salary, car ..personality anni unnayi kaabatti...u should have a fairer advantage...but other factors like FAMILY BACKDROP/NETWORK OF PEOPLE/CASTE/REGION etc come into picture too. [b][size=6]US lo unna ammayi ayitey better anukuntunna neeku...[/size][/b].that way u can njoy life. India nundi vache vallaki ADJUST avvatam kashtam avtundi ikkada mentalities ki...so ikkada MS chesina ammayilu/ABCD lu ayina parvaledu....ani naa uddesam..endukante..vaallu...INDIA vellataaniki ishtapadaru kaabatti..their preference is to adjust according to situations here...also..partying ki alavaatu padi untaaru already...so it is not a cultural shock to them....nuvvu taagavu ani cheppavu ga appaatlo.. anyway...eedi emayinaa...ammayi past edayina...affair lu unna...inkemunna,,(pillalu lekunda..abortion lu avvakunda unte chaalu). ..ammayi elantidi ayina..Once u have decided to go for it...u will have to make up ur mind mentally...to be READY TO CHANGE FOR HER...marriage is about HER initially....SLOWLY..when the relation cements..u can talk about both of ur choices( u two). [/quote] [img]http://s5.tinypic.com/1zzgs3b_th.jpg[/img] innalu adi vaddanukunna ne....tappantava....
POOLA RANGADU Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1332138154' post='1301532056'] [img]http://s5.tinypic.com/1zzgs3b_th.jpg[/img] innalu adi vaddanukunna ne....tappantava.... [/quote] tappu ani ananu....enduaknte...it varies from person to person. neeku already evarayina ammayi mind lo unte...OK...EQUATION set ayipotey...ekkada ammayi ayina fine. ala kaadu...inka parents looking for arranged marriage ante....then u have choices...veelayitey aa CALIF lo ammayi ayitey mariii manchidi ....haayiga iddaru akkade..chatta pattalu vesukuni tirgochu... India nundi vache ammayilu...home sick ani..cultural shock ani...inadjustability ani...visa issues ani. job/work place harrasments ani....raka rakaalu ....ga undochu problems...kondaru ammayilu get on avutaru..kondaru time teesukuntaaru...inkondaru asala..avvaleeru...so risk undi. ayinaa neeku cheppe anthati vallamaa cheppu
Spartan Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332138400' post='1301532068'] tappu ani ananu....enduaknte...it varies from person to person. neeku already evarayina ammayi mind lo unte...OK...EQUATION set ayipotey...ekkada ammayi ayina fine. ala kaadu...inka parents looking for arranged marriage ante....then u have choices...veelayitey aa CALIF lo ammayi ayitey mariii manchidi ....haayiga iddaru akkade..chatta pattalu vesukuni tirgochu... India nundi vache ammayilu...home sick ani..cultural shock ani...inadjustability ani...visa issues ani. job/work place harrasments ani....raka rakaalu ....ga undochu problems...kondaru ammayilu get on avutaru..kondaru time teesukuntaaru...inkondaru asala..avvaleeru...so risk undi. ayinaa neeku cheppe anthati vallamaa cheppu [/quote] 1: Ammailu mind lo undi vellipoyaru.....malli reconsider cheyadaniki try cheste..valla mundu kanipiste ne Cheppichu kodtaru... <hiding> 2: Arranged marriage ani emi force ledu...green signal already..chuda mante chustam...leda neeku evaraina anchite..cheppu..no ani cheppamu..but will surely consider annaru..na meda nammakam undi..so not an issue.. 3: Work chesina ammai vaddnukuntunna India lo....ammai aite..... inka last stmt....meeranta unte ne kada..ma lanti vallu bratikedi..me life experience mundu mementa..seppu.....
pavan_613 Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1332138665' post='1301532078'] 1: Ammailu mind lo undi vellipoyaru.....malli reconsider cheyadaniki try cheste..valla mundu kanipiste ne Cheppichu kodtaru... <hiding> 2: Arranged marriage ani emi force ledu...green signal already..chuda mante chustam...leda neeku evaraina anchite..cheppu..no ani cheppamu..but will surely consider annaru..na meda nammakam undi..so not an issue.. 3: Work chesina ammai vaddnukuntunna India lo....ammai aite..... inka last stmt....meeranta unte ne kada..ma lanti vallu bratikedi..me life experience mundu mementa..seppu..... [/quote] [quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332138400' post='1301532068'] tappu ani ananu....enduaknte...it varies from person to person. neeku already evarayina ammayi mind lo unte...OK...EQUATION set ayipotey...ekkada ammayi ayina fine. ala kaadu...inka parents looking for arranged marriage ante....then u have choices...veelayitey aa CALIF lo ammayi ayitey mariii manchidi ....haayiga iddaru akkade..chatta pattalu vesukuni tirgochu... India nundi vache ammayilu...home sick ani..cultural shock ani...inadjustability ani...visa issues ani. job/work place harrasments ani....raka rakaalu ....ga undochu problems...kondaru ammayilu get on avutaru..kondaru time teesukuntaaru...inkondaru asala..avvaleeru...so risk undi. ayinaa neeku cheppe anthati vallamaa cheppu [/quote] [quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1332138059' post='1301532052'] mana DB lo SENIOR mmber vi...ee thread lu disco lu...personal case reference lu...choosi ippatikee neeku oka IDEA vachesi untundi . marriage aneedi ONCE in a LIFE TIME INCIDENT (supposed to be)..so ..andariki CHAALA..HOPES/DREAMS and EXPECTATIONS untaayi.....u r a pretty cool guy and easy going one as far as i know...prastutam...unna scenario lo ayitey...NRI abbayi la ki Ammayi dorakatam ee ekkuva type ayipoyindi....neeku buddhi gaa..Job ..manchi salary, car ..personality anni unnayi kaabatti...u should have a fairer advantage...but other factors like FAMILY BACKDROP/NETWORK OF PEOPLE/CASTE/REGION etc come into picture too. US lo unna ammayi ayitey better anukuntunna neeku..dat way..above EXTRA factors cant play so much important role as compared to ur PERSONAL PROFILE..that way u can njoy life. India nundi vache vallaki ADJUST avvatam kashtam avtundi ikkada mentalities ki...so ikkada MS chesina ammayilu/ABCD lu ayina parvaledu....ani naa uddesam..endukante..vaallu...INDIA vellataaniki ishtapadaru kaabatti..their preference is to adjust according to situations here...also..partying ki alavaatu padi untaaru already...so it is not a cultural shock to them....nuvvu taagavu ani cheppavu ga appaatlo.. anyway...eedi emayinaa...ammayi past edayina...affair lu unna...inkemunna,,(pillalu lekunda..abortion lu avvakunda unte chaalu). ..ammayi elantidi ayina..Once u have decided to go for it...u will have to make up ur mind mentally...to be READY TO CHANGE FOR HER...marriage is about HER initially....SLOWLY..when the relation cements..u can talk about both of ur choices( u two). [/quote]
k2s Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='golmaal govindam' timestamp='1332133462' post='1301531840'] Hullo all DBians, Maa extended family lo oka recent problem vachindi. Maa cousin brother okathanu is going through bad phase in marriage. Short ga backgroud estory chepputha: Cousin emo H1 meeda US lo working since some years. Last year pelli ayyindi. Wife tho US lo living since then. Kaani wife H4, so no work and lonliness walla chaala frustrated. So valla relationships chaala affect ayyindi. Roju yedo oka godava, fightings, quarels etc etc. There is no root cause of the problem. Just personality differences and adjustment problems. This has taken toll on both, causin not able to concentrate on job. Wife not happy at all with her life. Vallu india velli divorce kosam proceed avvudam anukuntunnaru. We are normal middle working class traditional people, divorce anedi chaala pedda avumaanam laantidi. Its very making my cousin very depressed. He is concerned about both his future as well his wife's future. So I want to know, melo evraina valla families lo divorce lanti cases face chesara. Ee rojullo (nowadays), mana telugu society lo divorcee people nee ela treat chestunnaru (for both men and women). Malli vere pelli chesukoni happy ga vunde avakaashalu vunnaya... I feel very upset about my cousin Anyone has any suggestions please let me know... [/quote]
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 Khalee ga undakunda aame kuda job chesthe prob emanna solve avthademo try cheyandi
dreamgirl Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 Ilaanti ammayila ki pelli endhuku chesthaarooo..Jeevithaalu naashanam cheyyadaaniki thappa..!! India lo pelli anagaane adhedho movie lo chuusinattu ga antha colourfull anukuntaaru..parents, pillalki pelli ante enty..elaanti problems vasthaayi..probs vasthe ela solve chesukovaali..Ivanni pillala tho open gaa maatlaadaali..I agree ee ammayi ki kotha place ki vachindhi, so probs avuthndhi and guy has to take care of it..but alaa ani how long?? She has to adjust one or the other day..This problem can only be solved..If girl is ready to take initiative and improve the situ..It needs 2 hands to clap..!! On the other hand, Pelli last yr ayyindhi kaabatti and it's arranged, takes atleast couple of years to get to know each other and be compatible.. It's very good idea for the couple to go for counselling and I guess time will solve the problem and never think of divorce in such a short time..!! dg..
kiddu bhai Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1332161540' post='1301532416'] Ilaanti ammayila ki pelli endhuku chesthaarooo..Jeevithaalu naashanam cheyyadaaniki thappa..!! India lo pelli anagaane adhedho movie lo chuusinattu ga antha colourfull anukuntaaru..parents, pillalki pelli ante enty..elaanti problems vasthaayi..probs vasthe ela solve chesukovaali..Ivanni pillala tho open gaa maatlaadaali..I agree ee ammayi ki kotha place ki vachindhi, so probs avuthndhi and guy has to take care of it..but alaa ani how long?? She has to adjust one or the other day..This problem can only be solved..If girl is ready to take initiative and improve the situ..It needs 2 hands to clap..!! dg.. [/quote] nuvvelli aa pilla tho oka saari maatladi ra po aunty.. thikka kudaraali daaniki..
dreamgirl Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='kiddu bhai' timestamp='1332161638' post='1301532417'] nuvvelli aa pilla tho oka saari maatladi ra po aunty.. thikka kudaraali daaniki.. [/quote] address please dg..
kiddu bhai Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1332161692' post='1301532419'] address please dg.. [/quote] nee address, photo oka 2 copies, passport and visa scan, phone number, 3 months bank statements, email id PM please.. pori ni pampistha nee diggaraki..
dreamgirl Posted March 19, 2012 Report Posted March 19, 2012 [quote name='kiddu bhai' timestamp='1332161763' post='1301532420'] nee address, photo oka 2 copies, passport and visa scan, phone number, email id PM please.. pori ni pampistha nee diggaraki.. [/quote] Inni iche badhulu address cheppu..nene velthaa aa ammayi dhaagaariki dg..
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