Estory - 1 : Hubby Tho Not Talking

[k2s]

I totally stopped talking to my husband.i dont have any feelings towards anyone anymore.I am married for 4 yrs,have 2.5 yr old baby girl and working full time .
Before my marriage i used to be a bubbly girl ,thats what my friends used to ,mine was an arranged marriage,i could sense that my husband was reserved even before marriage but somehow things did not matter.Soon after marriage i realised that he was just opposite of me.All he required in his life was the dosas his mother makes for morning,lunch at hotel ,dosas again at night.He would get up late at 9 am,talk with his mother about his relatives ,his sisters ,then he would leave to office ,when he comes back in the evening he has dinner with his mother talks the same story abt his relatives and sisters ,then watch TV till he is tired would then go to sleep.Days and months passed by but he was the same.He was also not interested in sex,all the time it was me who initiated.He would say that he is tired asd sleep the next second.
Initially i used to fight with him no use he simply does not care or understand.He was totally planless about our future.

He does no help at home, I would d the cooking at morning and as soon as i come back from office would make dinner and be the last person to eat.I would do all the shopping for home ,all the time even on weekends my husband would either be sleeping or watching TV .His mom would literally feed him and would also ask me to do teh same.Even during dinner he would sit in the hall watching TV and i would have to serve dosas or chappati on his plate as he finishes one after another,because he does not like to stack and would only prefer eating hot.my MIl would also ask me to do more ,would not even care to ask if im ok ,tired back from office and so on............Even to have this baby i fought ,even went to the point of suicide because my in-laws started to see astrology and started to put pressure.even during my pregnancy he did not even care to even accompany me to the hospital,if he comes it would be because i created a big drama and cried.Once when i was 7months pregnant i went in the morning to give for the fasting sugar test,the test lasted for more than 2 hours because the new person in the lab was not efficient enough to get my veins to insert the needle.I had also not taken my mobile.Even after i came back after 2 hours my husband was still sleeping inspite of my MIL telling him to go and check about me.I joined office when my baby was 3 months completed due to the pressure of my MIL.my husband had no word against his mother.

Things changed a bit after my daughter grew.He is good to my child but is the same towards me.As my child is growing i sensed my MIl was not good at talking care of my baby.talking over phone with relatives had more priority than looking after my child.She always had problems to sort for one or the other relative.She did and still does not understand my child's needs.whe she feels hungry she feed's my child.she does not keep my child neat and tidy.only when im at home my daughter has something to eat,once i leave home there is no one to take care of her,my MIL will not even try to feed my child,she will ask the child to eat ,naturally the child is playfull ,so my MIL says ive tried she doesnt eat and she will leave the baby to starve,all the time she is on phone chatting with her relatives and 2 daughters who also live in the same city.recently my child developed urinary infections to that level that infection had gone till the kidneys,the left kidney has more infections.my baby would make urine in the place where she is playing or standing,my MIL would cover it with the same dirty old cloth,she would not even take the baby and wash after she has urinated.all the time i go back home from office my baby would be either not dressed or very poorly dressed and my MIL would be watching serials or talking over phone.what ever i cooked for my baby would be in the dust bin.If i ask my MIL she would say that my baby doesnt eat,but if im feeding her she eats so well ,im so angry at my MIL for leaving my child starving.My baby always had cold ,diarrhea,skin infections what not.

Recently my child developed urinary infections to that level that infection had gone till the kidneys,the left kidney has more infections.So i had left my baby at my mother's place in another city.Inspite of my parents talking care of my baby so well,giving nutritious food at the right time ,giving her proper bath,teaching her to use the bathroom........my husband tells bad about them when he does not admit his behaviour or his parents lazy behaviour towards the child.Till date my husband has not even feed a single spoon of food to my child,he does not even come to the doctor and if he comes it is due to the drama i create.During the last fight 4 days before he hit me. i totally stopped talking to him.I know it does not matter to him because he does not need me in anyway,his mother was there and is there for him.that is all he needs in life.I have no hunger,no interest in job,i am like a corpse ,i started to enjoy crying,enjoy the pain of hunger,when my stomach growls inside im am smiling,as a last try im posting here ,i just dont know what to do

[tom bhayya]

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[tom bhayya]

[img]http://www.manadb.com/Smileys/default/Brahmi.gif[/img] story antey siri vuntaavu ga line lo

[peru_edaite_enti]

mogudiki vonta penta cut chesi....aade dariki vottadu

[psycopk]

family motham baddakam tho kottukuntunaru… aunty tappa… too bad...

[Sastrygaru]

Amma kodukulaki.. baaga.. balupu ekkuvunnattundhi.. [img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vBtBKcbCa-0/T4Q_SD26aMI/AAAAAAAADMw/QQVUmdhj0wE/s1600/Ali-GIF.gif[/img]

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[siri_vennela]

[k2s]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1336168975' post='1301740649']
family motham baddakam tho kottukuntunaru… aunty tappa… too bad...
[/quote]emaina helf cheyyochu kada

[mtkr]

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[Spartan]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1336168975' post='1301740649']
family motham baddakam tho kottukuntunaru… aunty tappa… too bad...
[/quote]
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[siri_vennela]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1336168836' post='1301740641']
[img]http://www.manadb.com/Smileys/default/Brahmi.gif[/img] story antey siri vuntaavu ga line lo
[/quote]

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[psycopk]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1336169033' post='1301740658']
emaina helf cheyyochu kada
[/quote] nenu busy kada.. calling citi

[k2s]

[quote name='siri_vennela' timestamp='1336169125' post='1301740664']

chusesava [img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-Ggik71_RWe4/TwKNGVqVd2I/AAAAAAAAF0A/34naL-ztPaQ/s150/Mahi.gif[/img]
[/quote]

[psycopk]

[quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1336168993' post='1301740652']
Amma kodukulaki.. baaga.. balupu ekkuvunnattundhi.. [img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vBtBKcbCa-0/T4Q_SD26aMI/AAAAAAAADMw/QQVUmdhj0wE/s1600/Ali-GIF.gif[/img]
[/quote] nuvvu lawyer la oka side ee think chestunav… amma kodukulu em cheptaro kuda vinu… lol