Estory - 1 : Confused Fafa

[k2s]

Hi all,

I had to discuss this with you all. I somehow feel I have some hidden problem inside of me and I don't know what it is. If you've read my previous posts, I have mentioned a lot about these fights that I and DH have. They are mostly very petty to hear but coz they involve parents most of the time the fights blow out to huge ones. Today after a scene (DH was going to talk on Skype with his parents and I was tired so went into the bedroom for a nap, his parents asked him about me and he came in after 10mins and woke me up saying his parents were asking him about me, I was in middle of sleep, recapped all suggestions give here so instead of getting angry, changed outfit and sat there spoke few lines and bid ) I somehow got really angry as to why he invariably gives calls of his parents or bro even when I am busy, like middle of cooking or sleeping or something else. Couldn't control but get angry and asked him, he was like I dint know you were sleeping, it's just 10mins so thought you were still awake but I say atleast when he saw me he shouldn't have woken me up. He dint prolong the discussion and kept mum for a long time to whatever I said, I got even more angry started crying, shouting basically hysterical. Then after i cooled down, I went and told him coolly he was like ' look at your behavior, how you behave, speak etc, if my IL asked for me I wudve spoken even if I were sleeping (I wouldn't have woken him up in first place) etc etc' I am bugged as to why he takes anything his parents say as a compulsion and at the same time I feel I shouldn't have reacted the way I have. Usually I feel here people support the other person but really am I wrong here. How to handle such situations and mainly my DH. I see we fight over these which become huge fights almost every week. And am I having a problem with the way I became hysterical coz he was mum (last time he hit me so did not want any prolonged arguments) I am plain fed up of fighting and posting my problems here. We love our parents so much, sometimes I think that's the problem. Can you tell me your perspective on this?


Thanks for listening.

[Darling999]

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[k2s]

[Darling999]

Thu Denemma...idemanna Business Meeting aah Distrub cheyyakapotaaniki..pellamey kada..Lestey em poyindi deeni Sommu..US ki vachi baaga balsindi deeniki..

[k2s]

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[Darling999]

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[Gachibowli_Diwakar]

malli boku sithraala ni yeerukosthunnaava vuncle [img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-UGmhztuZaXc/T1gM1iOmGJI/AAAAAAAAGLs/TDcNNTEqAs0/s150/Brahmi-4.gif[/img]

[dalapathi]

DH antey full form endho ippati varaku cheppaledhu[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]

[dalapathi]

[quote name='dalapathi' timestamp='1337113600' post='1301803158']
DH antey full form endho ippati varaku cheppaledhu[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]
[/quote]
Dear husband aah[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='DARLING...' timestamp='1337113548' post='1301803149']

[/quote]
[quote name='Silence..Please' timestamp='1337113569' post='1301803153']
malli boku sithraala ni yeerukosthunnaava vuncle
[/quote][img]http://i1249.photobucket.com/albums/hh517/twinklebt/Brahmis/33.gif[/img] anthey

[k2s]

[quote name='dalapathi' timestamp='1337113629' post='1301803166']
Dear husband aah[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]
[/quote]avunu baa

[dalapathi]

Intha chinan problem aah........K2s post antey inkedho kompalu munigey issue anukuni chadhivinaa.........[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='dalapathi' timestamp='1337113839' post='1301803201']
Intha chinan problem aah........K2s post antey inkedho kompalu munigey issue anukuni chadhivinaa.........[img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-Gf4c4A8QPh4/T26UM-v9ZzI/AAAAAAAAGPo/D1hT2KHh0pk/s128/Brahmi.gif[/img]
[/quote]manaki avi chinnavey.....ammailaki peddavi kada

[dalapathi]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1337113819' post='1301803199']
avunu baa
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ooh..........ok[img]http://184.168.115.63/Smileys/default/b6dop1_th.jpg[/img][img]http://184.168.115.63/Smileys/default/b6dop1_th.jpg[/img][img]http://184.168.115.63/Smileys/default/b6dop1_th.jpg[/img]

[dalapathi]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1337113901' post='1301803211']
manaki avi chinnavey.....ammailaki peddavi kada
[/quote]
athanu emie maatladaledhu antey manchodey ayyuntaadu........itla chinan chinan issues ki sardukupovaali......inkemi chestaaru