Estory - 1 : Fafa Nasaaa

[k2s]

Hello,

I want to share some things with you all.. im fine even if you guys give me negative replies cos atleast i feel like im talking to some person in this world.. i cant keep all these with me i dono i guess ill go mad..

I feel like killing myself.. y im going through all these.. sometimes i wonder am i that bad that god is making me to go through tough life through out my life..

what happened is, after all you ladies replied to my previous post i thought im over reacting or imgaining too much abt this and i just thought will leave to god let what ever happen and i tried to take out that thought from my head..

but yesterday my IL's went out of station only me, DH and his brother was at home.. and my MIL is very particular abt cleanliness and stuff like that so i had to finish all the cleaning, pooja, coooking for morning and afternoon
(cos my dh was at home) and leave to office.. and as usual i did everything and left to office.. and unfortunately food what i prepared for bf was not good.. was not very bad but eatable.. but DH made a big fuss of it and called my mom and told what u have taught her she doesnt know anything and all.. my mom called me started crying y u r doing like this, y u r hurting us and all..

i felt soooo bad.. even after doing 100 things.. one thing went wrong and he couldnt adjust for that single day.. and no body acutually understand im traveeling 50 kms a day and doing alll the work at home (without maid and no washing machine) still thr are people who say im not a good wife or a DIL still how much i shld do..

since morning i was crying and evening i came home DH was fine he was talking to me properly n all and i felt very bad if he had problem with me he has to tell me y mom mom??

i still tried to convince myself and i prepared dinner and i had small doubt so i thought ill check in google and i opened his laptop[b] to my shock thr was 2 mails from one lady (i know her that she is my DH's ex colleague) one had a chain mails from which i understood that DH called her home today - my question is y he has to call her home when nobody is in home and second mail was from her saying she was busy today and cant home she is ok to come tomor (i.e today)..[/b]

I asked him abt this he denied that he didnt get a mail frist.. then he agreed he got mail but he said you dono y i called her home.. i asked tell me y.. he didnt answer for that..

since then he is not talking to me.. and he is making me guilty as if i did some mistake...

ladies you tell me what should i do?????? im going mad thinking all these.. and this is not the first time i have noticed many such things.. like flirting with girls and hiding it from me n all.. but i thought guys are like that and when they become serious after marriage they will stop.. but i guess i was wrong..

[mtkr]

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[ToughGuy]

ante fafa tippu minimum ..kaani husband ekkuva chesadu

[Sastrygaru]

paadu jeevitham yavvanam.. muudu nalla muchattagee gaaa... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

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[k2s]

[quote name='!!!! FeRRo !!!!' timestamp='1338494185' post='1301889999']
ante fafa tippu minimum ..kaani husband ekkuva chesadu
[/quote]adey fafa reply idi


thanks for reply, if it happens once i can understand what you are saying... but what if it happens again n again what should i do?

I never fight or accuse him y he talks to that girl or this girl.. he has enough number of girl frnds.. and i dont suspect him simply with out a reason.. even yesterday i casually asked abt the mail.. but when he denied to answer is when i felt im missing something every time..

i never restrict him from doing anything in his life.. instead he does.. he is one who restricts me from everything dont go thr, y u r like this, dont eat like this, dont talk to ur frnds, dont meet ur frnds etc etc.. i know one cannot control others life so i never do that... and he is very dominating when talking to him casually only is big mistake and cant even think of fighting or accusing..

and one thing i strongly believe is a wife can know any changes in the husbands body.. i can see it.. i just dont suspect him like that.. y would i do that.. even i need a happy and peaceful marriage.. i dont cook up things.. until i see it..

[k2s]

[quote name='vokatonumberkurrodu' timestamp='1338494309' post='1301890010']
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[/quote]endi aa fafa ni atta kaugilichikuntava ?

[rapchik]

[img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-ux6UiZkZOaQ/T7UzwDXHbZI/AAAAAAAAGeA/BY_osPDS4-Q/s150/Brahmi-1.gif[/img] papa tension lo undhi...koncham prasatham ga alochisthye ardham chesukovachu....valla ayana deniki ramandoo...ee pilla elayana untadhi akdha...so manamu anukune dhanikyi ayithye kadhu....so cool ga think chesi set chesuko manali...

[k2s]

[quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1338494290' post='1301890007']
paadu jeevitham yavvanam.. muudu nalla muchattagee gaaa... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]
[/quote]fafa reply ...


thanks for reply.. what do i ask him.. i get scared.. he is not telling any thing.. he thinks that i checked his mail that is big mistake he stops me thr only.. cant even ask any question..

he doesnt answer anything.. he doesnt answer straightly to any questions.. he tries to find mistake in me and fights on that but main topic will never be considered..

if i ask more he will say u have no rights to ask me.. he will say get lost or just leave me.. he knows i cant leave cos of my parents... sometimes i feel he is taking advantage of that..

im frustrated.. i cant take it any more.. i feel helpless

[k2s]

[quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1338494367' post='1301890018']
[img]http://lh5.ggpht.com/-ux6UiZkZOaQ/T7UzwDXHbZI/AAAAAAAAGeA/BY_osPDS4-Q/s150/Brahmi-1.gif[/img] papa tension lo undhi...koncham prasatham ga alochisthye ardham chesukovachu....valla ayana deniki ramandoo...ee pilla elayana untadhi akdha...so manamu anukune dhanikyi ayithye kadhu....so cool ga think chesi set chesuko manali...
[/quote]ee fafa ki inko fafa reply :

I smell something fishy here. If everything was OK, he would have have given some reasoning/explanation about why he called hr. Except, he stopped talking altogether. That makes me suspect that he was caught suddenly and could not think of a lie. If it was, I would have fought about this issue no matter what. Even if you wants to be in this relationship, you have to send a strong point across that this behavior would not be tolerated. If he feels he can dominate or fool you, trust me he will go on doing it.

I agree with other posters, he called your mom, its time you throw a tantrum. If you try to keep a perfect image, you are just hurting yourself. I completely believe in a woman's intution. If you feel something is wrong and husband is your suspicious, there is a good chance there is something going on. I have found it to be true with myself and my mom. Pay heed to your inuttion.

Stop pulling all the weight around the house. You are a wife, DIL and not a maid. Hire some maids and get some time to relax yourself. One of the things I feel is that when you are spending so much time working, cleaning and in other household chores when exactly o you have time for your husband. Do not give him a chance to find it somewhere else.

[Sastrygaru]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1338494398' post='1301890020']
fafa reply ...


thanks for reply.. what do i ask him.. i get scared.. he is not telling any thing.. he thinks that i checked his mail that is big mistake he stops me thr only.. cant even ask any question..

he doesnt answer anything.. he doesnt answer straightly to any questions.. he tries to find mistake in me and fights on that but main topic will never be considered..

if i ask more he will say u have no rights to ask me.. he will say get lost or just leave me.. he knows i cant leave cos of my parents... sometimes i feel he is taking advantage of that..

im frustrated.. i cant take it any more.. i feel helpless
[/quote]

Emundhi.. Intlo Illalu.. Vantintlo friyuraalu.. ee ammaiyiki.. elagoo namam pettestaaadu... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

[psycopk]

etlanti stories nundi elanti stories ki vachav uncle..

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1338494353' post='1301890016']
endi aa fafa ni atta kaugilichikuntava ?
[/quote]

oodarpu antaru...edusthe adhe cheyyali kada....

aa faafa ni oka fani cheyyamanu...secret webcam pettamanu...red handed ga dorikite vidaakulu ichey manu...

[dotnetrockz]

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[ToughGuy]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1338494321' post='1301890012']
adey fafa reply idi


thanks for reply, if it happens once i can understand what you are saying... but what if it happens again n again what should i do?

I never fight or accuse him y he talks to that girl or this girl.. he has enough number of girl frnds.. and i dont suspect him simply with out a reason.. even yesterday i casually asked abt the mail.. but when he denied to answer is when i felt im missing something every time..

i never restrict him from doing anything in his life.. instead he does.. he is one who restricts me from everything dont go thr, y u r like this, dont eat like this, dont talk to ur frnds, dont meet ur frnds etc etc.. i know one cannot control others life so i never do that... and he is very dominating when talking to him casually only is big mistake and cant even think of fighting or accusing..

and one thing i strongly believe is a wife can know any changes in the husbands body.. i can see it.. i just dont suspect him like that.. y would i do that.. even i need a happy and peaceful marriage.. i dont cook up things.. until i see it..
[/quote]

pakka lo vunnappude magallu vinedi ... appudu longa theesukovali .. appude Dh tho matladi convince chesukovali