IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 I know a person who has plans for suicide due to relationship problem with her boy friend. She is my best friend and i always tell her and console her but nothing seems to work. sometimes she is so crazy that she says that suicide is the only solution to her pain and that she cannot live in that pain as he is really rude and is not even ready to communicate and solve. I am really scared that she will really try to commit suicide. How should i deal with it though i know i cannot really stop her. I had taken her to counselling too but nothing worked she is really awesome and such a nice person and i don't want her to take hasty decisions like that as i love her though i know she will never love me back. Please help!!
Diras Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 take her to a new place..... asalu matter enti poorthi gaaa cheppu...
clinton Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 let her be involved in some work like reading auto biography,positive thinking. one best way is to be engaged with her for longer time.....so that she dont get a thought of suicide.............be with her till she manages the suicidal tendency.........dont leave her alone,as tat gives more chance of getting closure to negative thoughts..........
fair_pal Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 those kinda bastards don't deserve love, poor girl
IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Author Report Posted June 11, 2012 mana ching ching mama story lo ammayi na friend and that guy is also like ching ching mama and story is very identical except that they have live in relationship. em cheyalo ardham kavatledu. she is working and involves in all activities but still end of the day same back to square one she calls and cries and says suicide tappa there is no solution 1
clinton Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 first ikkada nuvvu cheyyalsindi entante...aadni tappinchaali....nuvu emi anu konante oka crooked salaha cheputha..........follow avuthaava.........
IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Author Report Posted June 11, 2012 nakaite a ching ching mama story atanu chupiyalani undi mama.. em cheyalo teledu..she is my best friend and i love her and i am scared that i will listen that she is expired. Every morning lechi 7 ki call chesta to equire if she is okay and nene office lo drop and pick up kuda chestunna from last week as she sometimes drives like crazy while crying on phone. i observed it many times. vadini chitakabadalani undi but ultimately solution kada kavali
IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Author Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='clinton' timestamp='1339385526' post='1301947584'] first ikkada nuvvu cheyyalsindi entante...aadni tappinchaali....nuvu emi anu konante oka crooked salaha cheputha..........follow avuthaava......... [/quote] cheppu mama...i will try to follow
kiladi bullodu Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 Tell about her parents, their pain and efforts ........ speak about her mother & brother ......... manchi cinemalu chupinchu hate story chupinchu ammaillu ila undali ani cheapu(bava idhi workout avthundho leadho teliyadhu)
clinton Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='IHateLove' timestamp='1339385580' post='1301947588'] cheppu mama...i will try to follow [/quote] elagu best friend and u love her antunnavu ga......why loose a good girl to a bastard ?....u tell her about your love.....and let her be with you.....give all the support she needs.........even if it is to attack that bastard if necessary......
IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Author Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='kiladi bullodu' timestamp='1339385671' post='1301947593'] Tell about her parents, their pain and efforts ........ speak about her mother & brother ......... manchi cinemalu chupinchu hate story chupinchu ammaillu ila undali ani cheapu(bava idhi workout avthundho leadho teliyadhu) [/quote] she loves him like crazy and tanaku enta cheppina situations valla ala unnadu manchivadu inko ammayi to em tiragatledu kada nenu batakalenu without him his silence is killing me antundi. she has no support from parents as they feel he is a rogue and they want her to get married forgetting that guy but tana pain ki they are scared to even talk about marriage. they and cry saying please take care of her. India ki vellu anna kuda she will not go .i once bought ticket and sudden ge tesukoni velli ticket ichanu chinchesi i wont go ani she came back yelling at me. SInce every one knew about her love in india she doesn't want to go and face anyone till her problem gets solved or else she will die here only antundi
kiladi bullodu Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='IHateLove' timestamp='1339385916' post='1301947607'] she loves him like crazy and tanaku enta cheppina situations valla ala unnadu manchivadu inko ammayi to em tiragatledu kada nenu batakalenu without him his silence is killing me antundi. she has no support from parents as they feel he is a rogue and they want her to get married forgetting that guy but tana pain ki they are scared to even talk about marriage. they and cry saying please take care of her. India ki vellu anna kuda she will not go .i once bought ticket and sudden ge tesukoni velli ticket ichanu chinchesi i wont go ani she came back yelling at me. SInce every one knew about her love in india she doesn't want to go and face anyone till her problem gets solved or else she will die here only antundi [/quote] Wat abt the guy vadu enduku vadi lesadu neeku emina telusa?
Pichekkistha Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 Suicide chesukuney mentality vunnavaallani kashtam baa aapadam. Maa frnd okanni 3 times save chesaru. But 4th time attempt chesadu and he won. Vaallu addam lanti vaallu. Ee raayi miss ayithe repu inkoka raayi thagulthundi. Mandulu konukkovadaaniki oka 100rs kooda leka mana desam lo chaala mandi chanipotunnaru. Chaavu mundu anni problems chinnavey ani cheppi choodu. Veelaithey Chanipoyina vaalla kosam yedchey vallani choopinchu. Idhi definite ga work avvali.
summit Posted June 11, 2012 Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='IHateLove' timestamp='1339384639' post='1301947568'] I know a person who has plans for suicide due to relationship problem with her boy friend. She is my best friend and i always tell her and console her but nothing seems to work. sometimes she is so crazy that she says that suicide is the only solution to her pain and that she cannot live in that pain as he is really rude and is not even ready to communicate and solve. I am really scared that she will really try to commit suicide. How should i deal with it though i know i cannot really stop her. I had taken her to counselling too but nothing worked she is really awesome and such a nice person and i don't want her to take hasty decisions like that as i love her though i know she will never love me back. Please help!! [/quote] Baa call their parents asap and involve them. They will know her better and will be able to help her before its too late....dont try to solve it by urself.....ani nenu feel ayya...
IHateLove Posted June 11, 2012 Author Report Posted June 11, 2012 [quote name='clinton' timestamp='1339385869' post='1301947605'] elagu best friend and u love her antunnavu ga......why loose a good girl to a bastard ?....u tell her about your love.....and let her be with you.....give all the support she needs.........even if it is to attack that bastard if necessary...... [/quote] i will be so lucky if she ready to marry me and she even know i love her and she says i know u love me anduke i am telling my pain as u will have capacity to understand just friend ayite asalu i wont disturb u or your life with my pressure but i can't give back love though u listen to me take care of me with love. Nenu support tesukuntunna ani if u want lvoe from me take it easy asalu i wont be in touch with you antundi.
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