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[MeMyself]

[b]EDIT 8:[/b] Below is not Hate story... it is the frustatin of boy who lost the comapny of a nice girl in person and at the same time offended in his own situation.. share cheskotame tappa emi cheyaleni paristhithi..

[b]EDIT 2:[/b] Below is not a repost but recap continued by my exploitation from girl family

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]idi andariki vunde problem eh.... konni rojula mundala... anaga september.. hayiga na pani nenu sekuntunte.. ma mammaya vaalu vala pillani seskomani propose vachindhi..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]nenemo.. naaku pelli endhi.. 2 years aagi seskunta ani seppina.. valla ammayni vaalu adagale..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]valla pedda ammayi ni seskomannaru.. peddammayidhi naadhi almost same age only 1 year diff...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]so no seppina.. sinna ammayi ni ok anna...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]pedda ammiy ki chala kashtapadithe sambandham dorikindhi.. she looks cute and white.. but valaki tagga sambandham dorakale.. chivariki oka sambandham kudirindhi..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]ippud story starts... malli falshback ki velthe like last septmeber... ee la na proposal vachinaltu.. valla sinna ammayiki telsindhi..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]tanu nannu adigindhi.. nannu seskomani proposal vachinda ani ??[/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]nenu yes annanu....[/font][/color]


[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]naaku doubt aa ammayi oppukuntundha ani....[/font][/color]


[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]a ammayi 2 days baga alochinchi oppukundhi nannu pelli seskotaniki...[/font][/color]


[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]she is earning good salary 6lakh per anum in india...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]and 1 month tarvata seppina nuvvu usa ki ravali ani .. ravali kada .. vastanu andhi.. but masters sesthe neeku manchidhi masters ki ra annanu...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]naaku chadive opika ledhu... gre toefel navalla kaadu andhi...[/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]brathimalithe oppukundhi..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]but still nenu masters ki ranu ani goadvaa..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]after few days of going to gether... naaku bayam avutundhi usa ki ravatam.. nenu ninnu seskonu andhi..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]after few days... nenu ninnu seskovali kada... ma mummy dady ki neekivvali ani malli.. back to track seskunta ani....[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]adhe time lo gre toefel preparation start.. after few days naku gre toefel mastu unteresting ga vundhi.. tappakunda rasthanu andhi...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]eelopu intiki velthe.. vala amma garu aka ma atta garu anindhi anta.. akka ki pelli kudrindhi after too much struggle neeku ala kashtapadlsina pani ledhu .. already neeku set ayyadu kada (nenu) ani ante... chinna ammayi replied nenu 100% ok analedhu.. nenu descion revert cheskovachu... or else bava.. means nenu kdua revert cheyochu ani anindhi anta... malli huge confusion....[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]konni rojulu baga clsoe ga move ayyam.. malli nenu bava ni cheskovatam enti yukh.. i cant feel a intimate relationship with you ani seppindhi ... too much mental torture .. oka vidamga .. chinna chinna reasons ki kuda no cheppedhi.. malli yes cheppesedhi...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]for example.. oka sari horoscope lo naaku chedu jaruguthundhi ani rasadu anta evado gutle gaadu.. nenu annanu .. just to soothe her.. horoscope lo anni rastaru.. seriosu ga teeskoku ani..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]she felt bad and hanged the call after few minutes called me again and told that who are u to talk against my interest and say htat horoscopes are not true ani ?? :-o[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]she said.. our itnerest dont match..we better end up relationship ani :-/ simple single reason..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]tharvatha ... nenu oka babu or papa chalu ante..she told two kavalsindhe.. i d ont want my kid to be alone ani chinna argument.. i agreed with her.. but hse took tht too as major. ivi konni matrame... i mean naaku gurthunnavi.. almost nenu edhi cheppina reverse eh [/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]konni matram same descion.. but vatini matram she wont take positive...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]she is hi5 posh girl.... but very nice too... never been comited.. but she told who all she had crush... asalu secretes emi vunchukoduuuuuu ..anni chepindhi papam..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]so my question is.... [/font][/color][b]do boy and girl need to have common interests to get marreid [/b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]??? [/font][/color][b]asalu manmemanna great monarchs ma.. to have standard qualities ??[/b]

[color=#FF0000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][b]Finally for the last 2 months she havent had a chat with me but i greeted her on sankranthi and once when she udpated her profile pic..[/b][/font][/color]

[color=#FF0000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]na badha enti ante... she told final big NOOO to relationship.. but her parents callme and say my daughter is preapring well for gre and toefel... she is workign hard on it ani... they stil speak as if we are commited.....[/font][/color]

[color=#0000FF][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]her sister ..i mean pedda ammayi... told me that .. her parents tried to convince her to ocme here... this is later story... but she told that .. i will go to usa ..and finsh masters.. and start think wether to marry him or not after 2 years ante..[/font][/color]

[color=#000000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]well ofcourse i am sure that after elder daughter marraige they wil reveal some officail desciosion but... my dad was soo upset with this kind of attitude.. nadem vundhi tokkalodhi.. ammaylu gurinchi manaki kotta emi kadu kada.. papam my dad nenante sanaaaaaaaaaa ishtam.. nenu feel ayyanemo nani chala feel ayyadu... [/font][/color]

[color=#008000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]y this kolvari di [/font][/color]

[color=#A52A2A][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]Ps: i have good respect for that girl.. but i still dont understand why this kolavari di.. what runs in her mind [/font][/color]

[color=#0000FF][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]Girls I am not trying to offend someone.. i am just asking .. what u expect from a boy to make feel he can succesfully make a girl feel intimate and happy with him ??? I clearly one stragne thing i falied to understand... when she said.. i cant get a feeling of that intimate.. as we moved along since u r my bava ani ?? :'([/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] [/font][/color]



[b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]UPDATES:[/font][/color][/b]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]Recently ma parents marraige ki velthe valla parents asalu recive cheskoledu anta.... ravatame meeru car teskoni pelli kodukuni atu itu tippandi annaru anta....[/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]papam tipparu ma fatehr... memu sampradaya badadm ga mettelu bangaramu pettamu.. but they didnt kept clothes for my parents in return but they did kept for some one to her cousins who are their business partners.. sonta family anna ku pettaledhu [/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]and her elder daughter didnt talk to my parents at all.. like she was posing to talk .. but younger daughter recieved them with very much warmth etc etc..[/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]she is a good girl ......(i am talking about swathi young girl.. (name changed)) .....[/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]so i am frustated .. though i gave up those deall.. they are continuing to bother me with their adamant nature.... i am just wirting this here to relaease my frustation on how attitude can be soo disturbing...... i feel sad.. and i dont want to take any revenge or anything on them.. they will learn their own lesson one day..[/font][/color]
b[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]ut yes i want to show them that i can get better girl than their own daughter and show them that they are reall loosers not me..[/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]at the same time i am tensed since i dont want to go india as i am afraid of stamping and also since i had left with only option of marrying in usa.. how few girls will agree for that other than if it is love marriage... no one right.. so thats the near fear wether if i can get good match or not... thats the [/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif] only problem now...[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]i look handsome enough to get a good girl.. i mean.. after looking at the facebook wall with the posts of marraige pics... i wil say i will defenetly get a better person then her (swathi).... and i dont have any hatred towards her(swathi).. we both chat freely and frinedly.. but i stil maintain the gap.. now slowly gradulaly iam reducing my talk with them since it is good to maintian distance from people who are hazaradous.....[/font][/color]


[b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]EDIT 1: [/font][/color][/b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]naaku aa ammayi pina hopes pakkana pedithe.. tanu na kaalla meeda padi pelli chesko anna nenu cheskonu..[/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]in her eyes i am just gopi manchi abbayi.. shee need a a guy who is sporty and flirts... ofcourse i am sporty too... but i dont show it off.. like those a$$ holes .. who flirt in their IT office with girl sitting next to them 24 by 7... idiots take situation advanatage very badly.......[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]nenu india lo vundunte eepatiki 6 mandhinain padeyochu adhi pedda pani kaadu./// but why u should bother ones life just becasue u ahve talent... manamemi play boys kaadu kada.. adhi west life ki abguntundhi.. for us just go for date say hi..and be clsoe if u can go further anthe kaani.. girl freind ga teeskoni vallani tiipukoni vadileyatam.. ala edo goppa ga sadincham ani samtrutphji padipoyi.. adnamga vunde prathi ammayini flirt cheyatam talent emo kani.. but girl should understand that [/font][/color][color=#FF0000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=5]calm guys are not dumb..... [/size][/font][/color]

[b][color=#000000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=5]EDIT 3: [/size][/font][/color][/b][color=#000000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=5]I dont have[u][i] [size=4]inclined intentions on girls....[/size][/i][/u][/size][/font][/color]
[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]nenu aa sense tho antamledhu.. i have no intentions to trap girls.. adhe rasanu.... i mean to say that.. i too have tendancy to be attractive talkative and cheerful..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]since she compares me regualrly to her colleagues whome she says very attractive and flirty ani... she is just deciding me with out even spending time face to face.... andukani nenu emi takkvua kaadu ani chebutunnanu..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][b]EDIT 4:[/b] You guys are awesome in response....[/font][/color]

For those who believe I am turning immature while complaining my relatives as immature please read below

i dont compare others marriage .... and their looks .. i always compare others with my career and my certifications and my progress ethically

i have to carry that intention of show man or outlook guy only for one reason to satisfy my future wife ego... yes my furture life partner... future lo ma attha vallu vala family nannu na wife ni oridanry pair ante nenu eppatilage mamulga teeskuntanu... but na wife papam sudden ga udset avutundhi kada.. ilanti vallu vunnaru ani....

nenu oka post lo mention chesanu we men are there to satisfy ego but that ego is not oneself(his own) but must be of a other girl... we men are take it easy type...

[b]EdIT 5:[/b] swathi is now not at all interested to marry me... if you guys are thinking she still likes me.. she gave hopes away 3 months ago.. at the same time...

she informed her parenst she will marry some body elese they show .. but not me.. becasue she says.. it is yuckky to marry one own cousin.....

and above all that she is earning 60 thousand per month with expense of 8 thousands maximum.. so she is having her dream life and dream job...


[b]here bring s the irritating thing [/b]why her parents didnt inform me a while ago when she is not interested ?? i could have looked someone else and could have happily married before my h1b thing etc etc... they are too adamant and negligent that they dont care our feelings that we will feel bad if htey decline adding to that they not even feeling for that.. instead they call every time and boast that they are acquriing new properties blah blah blah..

papam ma parents ivemi naaku chepparu.. ma close realtives chebutaru.. like how they treated humiliatingly our family ani.. so antha badesendhi naaku ... and also i can see the down feeling in my parents voice when i talk about them.. htey just dont want to hurt me...

[b]EDIT 6:[/b] Swathi dont comapre me with others.. but she do mention me at times that i m not like something.. and at other times she mentinos that others are geeky and impresses her..

she is a very gem of a intelligent.. she reads one mind like newspaper.. it is good to be with a perosn like her.. and see how smart human beings are at reading ones mind

[b]EDIT 7:[/b] [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]nenu chala takkuva alchistunanu.. alochincedhi okkate.. they should shut their mouth.. anthe ....[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]it is like buring flames under your ass... you can only get rid of them by not tlaking and avoiding them... we avoided them for a while.. but they came by themselves to offer their girl and let us down..[/font][/color]


[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]they did simillar kind of insult 20 years ago.. when i was young boy to my parents.. i sitll remember it... i just pardoned them and accepted their marraige deal..[/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]malli avamaninche sariki .. i have to lost little peace of mind... jsut trying to show some flash back in this post.. [/font][/color]

[PMREDDY19]

first visa matter : plan to go for Canada. .if u really need to go to India..

secondly ammayiki Ms cheyyamani cheppindi nuvvey kabbati first let her come here and let her

Inka If she don't have any one on her emind other than you after an yr..

she may consider you.. But you need to be more relaxed and you need to keep going out.. and try to keep less focus on her.

[cinema pichodu]

nee story vinte badhesindi mama...but last lo nuvvu cheppindi correct...better maintain gap and try to reduce ur talks as much as u can...if she accepts everything is happy...ATB

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

GP

[MeMyself]

[quote name='cinema pichodu' timestamp='1339685168' post='1301966915']
nee story vinte badhesindi mama...but last lo nuvvu cheppindi correct...better maintain gap and try to reduce ur talks as much as u can...if she accepts everything is happy...ATB
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naaku aa ammayi pina hopes pakkana pedithe.. tanu na kaalla meeda padi pelli chesko anna nenu cheskonu..
in her eyes i am just gopi manchi abbayi.. shee need a a guy who is sporty and flirts... ofcourse i am sporty too... but i dont show it off.. like those a$$ holes .. who flirt in their IT office with girl sitting next to them 24 by 7... idiots take situation advanatage very badly.......

nenu india lo vundunte eepatiki 6 mandhinain padeyochu adhi pedda pani kaadu./// but why u should bother ones life just becasue u ahve talent... manamemi play boys kaadu kada.. adhi west life ki abguntundhi.. for us just go for date say hi..and be clsoe if u can go further anthe kaani.. girl freind ga teeskoni vallani tiipukoni vadileyatam.. ala edo goppa ga sadincham ani samtrutphji padipoyi.. adnamga vunde prathi ammayini flirt cheyatam talent emo kani.. but girl should understand that [color=#ff0000][size=5]calm guys are not dumb..... [/size][/color]

[150bryant]

idhi long ago repost kadha...

[cinema pichodu]

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naaku aa ammayi pina hopes pakkana pedithe.. tanu na kaalla meeda padi pelli chesko anna nenu cheskonu..
in her eyes i am just gopi manchi abbayi.. shee need a a guy who is sporty and flirts... ofcourse i am sporty too... but i dont show it off.. like those a$$ holes .. who flirt in their IT office with girl sitting next to them 24 by 7... idiots take situation advanatage very badly.......

nenu india lo vundunte eepatiki 6 mandhinain padeyochu adhi pedda pani kaadu./// but why u should bother ones life just becasue u ahve talent... manamemi play boys kaadu kada.. adhi west life ki abguntundhi.. for us just go for date say hi..and be clsoe if u can go further anthe kaani.. girl freind ga teeskoni vallani tiipukoni vadileyatam.. ala edo goppa ga sadincham ani samtrutphji padipoyi.. adnamga vunde prathi ammayini flirt cheyatam talent emo kani.. but girl should understand that [color=#ff0000][size=5]calm guys are not dumb..... [/size][/color]
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[MeMyself]

[quote name='jamajacha' timestamp='1339686708' post='1301967017']
idhi long ago repost kadha...
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repsot kadu bhayya update ani kinda pettanu chudu

[150bryant]

ok calm untey dumb ani ...young ga unappdu...andharu decide chestharu..
calm ga undatam veru...dumb ga undatam veru..
matter untey...streelu automatic ga vastaaru...ala raani pakshaana...dumb ani decide avochu.
easy ga padeyochu...pichalite naaku..avi evi antunaav antey..ammaila patla nee drukpadham manchi ga ledhu kaaka.
vallu emi..evari kantey vallaki padiporu kadhaa
jarantha marchkoo...infact antha easy antunav kadha padeyatam..please oka porini padesi chudu...telusthadi..asal level edundhoo..

back to basics...Visa thing...edhaina possibility untey chusko..to set tht thing right...else india ammaini ikkadki pilpichkoni ikkada cheskovadam anedhi kastamey...not close to reality

[Yuva Nataratna]

aa ammai ni pelli chesukunte life long neeku kastale adi matram sure ga cheppagalanu neeku......so take a strong decision that you will not bother abt her anymore and concentrate on other things of ur life...... I think that ur ID "MeMyself" also speaks abt the frustration that was caused to you by her........

[veerudu]

[Vikkas]

bhayya em anukoku. chadivaka naaku kaligina feeling chepthunna.
aa ammayi/valla parents chaala immature.


vallatho paatu nuvvu kooda inka immature ganey behave chesthunav.
facebook lo vere valla pelli pics choosi neeku manchi sambadham vasthundi ani fix avvadam endi bhayya. y the hell ur comparing ur self with others. compare ur self to ur friends in career, not in marriages.
eppudaithey nee marriage life(would be) ni pakka vallatho compare chesukuntavo, trust mee nee jeevitham sankanakipothadi


india lo untey ee paatiki 6 members ni padesevaadini. what kind of statement is this.


and lastly. india pothey stamping prob. so ikkadey pelli chesukodaniki try chestha. so whats ur priority. stamping issues ivi anni kakamma kaburlu. neeku nijamga india lo pelli chesukovali ani untey, u can find 100 ways. canada vellu stamping ki

[chiru_tiru]

[quote name='Vikkas' timestamp='1339687910' post='1301967089']
bhayya em anukoku. chadivaka naaku kaligina feeling chepthunna.
aa ammayi/valla parents chaala immature.


vallatho paatu nuvvu kooda inka immature ganey behave chesthunav.
facebook lo vere valla pelli pics choosi neeku manchi sambadham vasthundi ani fix avvadam endi bhayya. y the hell ur comparing ur self with others. compare ur self to ur friends in career, not in marriages.
[b]eppudaithey nee marriage life(would be) ni pakka vallatho compare chesukuntavo, trust mee nee jeevitham sankanakipothadi[/b]


india lo untey ee paatiki 6 members ni padesevaadini. what kind of statement is this.


and lastly. india pothey stamping prob. so ikkadey pelli chesukodaniki try chestha. so whats ur priority. stamping issues ivi anni kakamma kaburlu. neeku nijamga india lo pelli chesukovali ani untey, u can find 100 ways. canada vellu stamping ki
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Good one....

actually not only marriage...in any thing if you compare with others.....mental peace karuvaipoddi...

[Vikkas]

[quote name='chiru_tiru' timestamp='1339688369' post='1301967159']


Good one....

actually not only marriage...in any thing if you compare with others.....mental peace karuvaipoddi...
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migitha vaati tho compare chesukuntey picha li8 bhayya. kastapadithey achieve cheyyochu

[taadu.....bongaram]

Better to move ON. ame anni chesi ikkadiki vachina future lo torture again. Anni vere vaallato compare cheste daily intlone narakam.