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[Aamayakudu]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Hi,[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My parents, My DH parents and also my DH are forcing for kids. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]It' been three years we got married(came to US) and it's been 2years i'm working in Us(QA-Testing). [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My husband came to US in 2006(almost completed 6 years).[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My age is 26 and my DH's age 33. As he crossed 30, he is worried about kids. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]We are financially ok and We are returning to india this october as we dont want stay in US.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I like kids but i dont want them now. "All are saying it is good to have kids at younger age".[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]But i'm feeling like, i will loose all my enjoyment(want to visit so many places and want to do so many adventures(fun)).[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]The same feeling i had before marrige-my parents forced me for marriage- But i'm happy now. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I love the life i'm having now and i dont want to disturb it. But when i'm thinking about kids/DH-i'm so much worried.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]And after returning india, i want to change my platform to 'develoment from QA'-lot of hardwork need for it.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Today also the same topic(Kids) came and i told my DH after returning to india we will plan for kids.(he is not happy).[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Please suggest and share your experiences.[/size][/font][/color]

[Aamayakudu]

30 years ki pelli chesukunte eela untundhi ..

[Idly Vishwanatham]

Anduke nenu 26-27 ki chesukuni, 3 yrs enjoy chesi, 30 ki pilla/pillodu putte la plan chesukuntunna[img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TYEAQVV5ALI/AAAAAAAABWs/4DgxpnVdD_0/brahmi.gif[/img]

[manaandhra38]

All your opinions and feelings are excellent.

If dont go into other details... if you wont gain weight after marriage no problem you have delay kids more 2, 3 years... If you are feeling gaining weight after marriage ... better have kids as soon as possible...

This is the reason why all say after marriage kids as soon as possible and second parents feel responsibility towards thier rest of life and remain bonded forever...

[baa]

DH ante

[psycopk]

[quote name='baa' timestamp='1342127436' post='1302123021']
DH ante
[/quote]Dear husband...

[chicago]

[quote name='Aamayakudu' timestamp='1342127237' post='1302123006']
30 years ki pelli chesukunte eela untundhi ..
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[juvenile]

[quote name='Idly Vishwanatham' timestamp='1342127378' post='1302123016']
Anduke nenu 26-27 ki chesukuni, 3 yrs enjoy chesi, 30 ki pilla/pillodu putte la plan chesukuntunna[img]http://lh4.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TYEAQVV5ALI/AAAAAAAABWs/4DgxpnVdD_0/brahmi.gif[/img]
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[Aamayakudu]

[quote name='baa' timestamp='1342127436' post='1302123021']
DH ante
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Dear husband ani anukunta baa ...
naaku telidu

[psycopk]

33 ki inka pillalu leka pote uncle age dati potundi... its right time to have kids.. nuvvu inka ilane force cheste uncle house-2 plan chestadu inka nee istam

[soulmate]

[quote name='baa' timestamp='1342127436' post='1302123021']
DH ante
[/quote]Dear Husband

[Idly Vishwanatham]

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[soulmate]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1342127552' post='1302123040']
33 ki inka pillalu leka pote uncle age dati potundi... its right time to have kids.. nuvvu inka ilane force cheste uncle house-2 plan chestadu inka nee istam
[/quote]papam aa ammai 26 ee kada baaa.. letha vayasu..

[baa]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1342127502' post='1302123029']
Dear husband...
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[quote name='Aamayakudu' timestamp='1342127528' post='1302123036']

Dear husband ani anukunta baa ...
naaku telidu
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[quote name='soulmate' timestamp='1342127577' post='1302123043']
Dear Husband
[/quote]dear husband enti chandalanga husband anachuga

[Guest]

Nenu exact opposite vaallani chaalamandini choosa..husband doesn't want kids soon but wife does. Age yekkuva..thakkuva anedi pakkana pedithe, 30 daggara cheskunte 1 or 2 year max manchiga enjoy chesi plan cheskuntaaru..inka tondaraga cheskunte inkaa yekkuva time enjoy cheyochu...pelliki munde anni discuss cheskunte saripoddi