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Hi friends,

Just got off speaking with my mother in india and after feeling terribly sandwiched between relations...I am asking for your help.

My mother works in india (the only way to keep her busy after my fathers death). I am an only child living far away. I do not work right now and financially dependent on my husband. He thinks he is doing a favor on me by feeding me. Anyway, since my mother is alone, I try to invite her every year for two months to stay with me. Immediately after she leaves, inlaws come over to make my life totally miserable.

This time, my husband took my mother out to show a place 3 hrs away from where we live. Thinks he did a big favor for her as well. During a small argument, infront of his parents he started out saying nasty things like "earn a dime then invite your mom over", "i fed your mom free food", "took her out to roam", "my parents did not go anywhere". He then to satisfy his parents totally escalated the situation to a new level by asking us to get out of the house at midnight. I had to take my 5 yr old and live in a friends house. He never once checked on us and told me, he is filing for divorce.

Well that he never did but offered to move out of the house to enable us to move in. My mother worried where he is, tried to call him on his cell phone and he told her the same nasty things to which she vowed she will never come here ever. When he left, he was absconding for 2 days and I was suggested by my friends to remove some money from our joint account, incase he would never show up and the bills would be my part of the responsibility. So i did in fear of insecurity, and he called my mother and accused HER of "stealing" his money. I have told him I will return every penny i removed from his account, if he would apologize to my mother. He never did, I have never returned the money.

His parents are not on talking terms with me. He is not on talking terms with my mom. it pains pains pains me. We share no marital relation as well. Just try to be amicable for the sake of our son. Thats it. I have heard things like "he turns off the lights so he doesnt have to see me during sex", "he thinks i am fat", "he thinks i look ugly".

His mother added fuel to the fire by calling me dark, laden with stretch marks, abnormal girl, ugly hair, short heighted. I would have forgotten her words if my husband wouldnt echo the same to me each day.

Problem is, my mother forces me to share all my friends phone numbers so she can call them during an emergency since she wont call my husband. what should i do? I stay depressed due to this all day and now my staying sad and depressed is reflecting on my little boy. we go out less, we stay home...i hate it. I wish i would just dissappear.

what can i do tell me? should i return his money and force him to talk to my mom to make her happy? should i leave this fake marriage and go to india for good? i am beyond confused. guide me plz

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leave this freaking bast@rd n go to india where u can live good with ur son

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[quote name='manmadhan' timestamp='1342212777' post='1302129441']
leave this freaking bast@rd n go to india where u can live good with ur son
[/quote]u MCP

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vadu teda ani telisi... mee mom ni 2months every year enduku pilavatam... nuvve velli undalsindi india lo... look out for job and keep yourselfs occupied... your husband will get back in around 5-10years... (he dosent have any other option... )

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[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1342212972' post='1302129471']
vadu teda ani telisi... mee mom ni 2months every year enduku pilavatam... nuvve velli undalsindi india lo... look out for job and keep yourselfs occupied... your husband will get back in around 5-10years... [color=#a52a2a](he dosent have any other option... )[/color]
[/quote]adi ela ?

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1342213099' post='1302129494']
adi ela ?
[/quote]
adi ante..

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[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1342213131' post='1302129499']
adi ante..
[/quote]
:o
ee vadu matram manishi kadaaa.... vadu inko petta ni vethukuntadu

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1342212834' post='1302129451']
u MCP
[/quote]
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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1342213274' post='1302129532']
:o
ee vadu matram manishi kadaaa.... vadu inko petta ni vethukuntadu
[/quote]
daniki oka peda theory undi le.. ippudu chepe opika ledu... nenu chepinde final mark my words..

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[quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1342213419' post='1302129569']
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[/quote][img]http://i.imgur.com/kjV81.gif[/img] ey eyra suthav eyra [img]http://i.imgur.com/kjV81.gif[/img]

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[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1342213443' post='1302129577']
daniki oka peda theory undi le.. ippudu chepe opika ledu... nenu chepinde final mark my words..
[/quote][img]http://i39.tinypic.com/s4v28y.gif[/img]

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So sad
go for a vacation to India.
at least he may know your importance in your absence

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[quote name='siri_vennela' timestamp='1342218044' post='1302130399']
Job vethukunte podhi emo aa torture lekunda :3D_Smiles:
[/quote]mari vethikivvu

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