My Husband Never Wants To Do It? (Intercourse)

[NaaRaja]

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[indent]hi, first of all i would like to say that thanks for creating this forums. i have always been a silent reader, i had a few problems so i decided to ask here.

mine was an arranged marriage, my parents showed me his pictures and i immediately said yes, he was just so handsome and hot [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/hide.gif[/img]
my parents were laughing at me and then we said yes to his family.
our parents talked about future and all etc...

then finally my parents and his parents set us up to meet at a coffee shop.
i met him, he was just so handsome, i started blushing and he was laughing at me. we talked a lot, i really liked him![img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/thumbsup.gif[/img]

our parents allowed us to meet every once in a while, like once every week or something. we quickly became good friends and were about to be married as well.

one thing i must say is that, he was very popular and out going at his university, a levels college, and o levels school as well. so he has like a ton of friends :/ and he also has a lot of old female friends and i get jealous easily if he tells me his old stories or anything... :/

a few times he would text me or and say that he cant meet up with me this week as he has plans with his friends about a reunion or something. i was like ok sure u enjoy yourself because after marriage u are trapped [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/rotfl.gif[/img]he started laughing [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif[/img]

finally we got married and all that, the first night i was expecting him to make the move, but he said that he wants to take things slow and does not want to do 'it'. i appreciated his thoughts and said i felt the same way. even though i didn't really feel the same way and i expected to do it..

we went out a lot and had a lot of fun and then after like 2 months we finally did it for the first time..
after that we did it a few days later too.
then he kind of toned it down? he does it barely once a week now days.. and sometimes he can go weeks on without even asking me for it.
i feel shy asking him for it.. and he just doesn't want to do it. i mean DH should make the first move right?? and he doesn't do anything about it.

it bothers me a lot, i feel like its because of his friends and all that. [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/icon_spin.gif[/img]
i am not saying that he is a good husband, hes the perfect husband. he always takes my side against my mil and says that shes new let her adjust and all that. i love him. and he also showers me with gifts.. hes very romantic and takes me out a lot.. he does the smallest things to make me happy.. but he at night just falls asleep everytime..

what do u think i should do about it? should i ask him whats wrong? i feel very awkward and shy to ask such question. can any one help me out please :[
i mean, the last time we did it was 2 weeks ago. [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/icon_redface.gif[/img] and i have my needs too, but he just doesn't make the first move....

oh and one more thing, even though we do it very less frequently, every time we do it, he makes sure that i enjoy it the most. and he cares about my feeling a lot more than himself.. :s[/indent][/size][/font][/color]

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[quote name='NaaRaja' timestamp='1342576795' post='1302153205']
[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3]even though i didn't really feel the same way and i expected to do it..[/size][/font][/color]
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note this point ur honour..... first night rooju ammailaki sex cheyyalane untadi anamata......

[powerstar02]

first time after 2 months aa...

[wonderkid]

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[bujjulu]

idhi aa forum lo nundi lepi ikkada vesaru?

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[NaaRaja]

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starting and ending aa html font tags endi mastaru....
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[pikki]

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[biddu]

i am 100 % sure , you'r husband having a girl out there with whoom he does intercourse everyday . Because that's the reason why he fell asleep as soon as he comed to home. No boy will sleep soon when his wife is sleeping with him in his bed

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[quote name='biddu' timestamp='1342582187' post='1302153569']
i am 100 % sure , you'r husband having a girl out there with whoom he does intercourse everyday . Because that's the reason why he fell asleep as soon as he comed to home. No boy will sleep soon when his wife is sleeping with him in his bed
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[pikki]

[quote name='biddu' timestamp='1342582187' post='1302153569']
i am 100 % sure , you'r husband having a girl out there with whoom he does intercourse everyday . Because that's the reason why he fell asleep as soon as he comed to home. No boy will sleep soon when his wife is sleeping with him in his bed
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