Estory - 1 : Fafa Nasaaa

[k2s]

Hi all

I live with DH and 4yr old DD outside India. We are settled here. Ours was a love marriage which was agreed by both set of parents, my family didnt have a problem from the beginning, my MIL had problems like she wanted a girl from her city and stuff.. which was later sorted out and convinced by DH. DH is the only kid. they visit us every year and stays for a few months. A lot of fights/misunderstandings happens between me and DH during this time but somehow we adjust and overcome this. He is scared of his mom and i have accepted and learned to lived with that after 7 years of married life. He takes good care of DD and is good to my parents too. He never stopped me from sending them gifts or money whenever i wanted. We lived with PILs for 2 years in India aftr marriage and had minor issues, nothing major. We shifted abroad because of his career. I worked for sometime, soon i got pregnant and delivered here. my parents came for 2 months to help me and he was good to them. Later PILs came and made my life hell. My FIL is a gem of a person but scared of MIL. he considers me as his own daughter. I was made to do every work in house and she took care of baby. I was not breast feeding bcos of baby's allergy to milk, so she made use of tht and kept baby with her all the time. i still cry when i think abt tht now. she is a totally different person when my DH is around. Anyway i kept quiet, didnt complain to anyone. They visit us every year and same drama happens. I personally doesnt like to work till my girl starts proper school. but my MIL makes fun of me telling that i am lazy and i dont have any income, i dont contribute to family and all. all this in a taunting way, not in front of my DH. she was a working woman and dies for money even now. so as soon as my DD turned 2yrs i started working and put her in childcare. I manage house with zero help from DH. We used to have a wonderful relation but now since last 2 years its strained because of all parents visits/ stress at home. We started having fights often and hardly become intimate. i have lost interest in that completely. whenever i think about my MIL visits, i dread. dont know what tension she is going to create in next trip. now my DH doesnt believe me if i say something about MIL. he concludes that i dont like them so I have problems with them. Its not true. I get stressed and am not smart enough to be manipulative like her. i work full time.

Now my problem is that my husband is close to one his colleagues, a lady, my age, we know her family personally, she has a kid whom she left in India with PILS as she is working full time here. my husband is very close to her and he knows that i dont like her that much. still he is close, picks and drops her home everyday and have lunch together and all. i started checking his mobile and i noticed that he is deleting all call records. i confronted and ugly fight happened and he admitted that he deleted because he knew that i didnt like her. it happened twice and still he is in touch with her. he said he wont stop that friendship just because i dont like her. its only friendship and I am sure about that. so recently he is all against me, whatever i do is wrong, regarding parents, home, work all. I am completely shattered with all these problems. i cant still overcome that DH hid a friendship from me when he knew that i dint like tht lady. maybe he got emotional support from her, my PILs were here and frequent fights between us as every year. that s when he got close to her. now my ILs have gone back, still am stressed out about all these. One day i called up that lady infront of hubby and asked her not to go with my DH. she said OK. still my DH is giving her lifts and everything is same, he is telling she is only a friend , nothing wrong in that.
I am losing my mind over all ths. our once a year india trip is also coming! dont know what to do. he comes home late and zero help at home. I take care of everything. blames me for everything now. What should i do?
In btw, I have never answered back my inlaws. Never complained about anything to them. was always nice and smiling in front of them. I am not highly qualified and a have a low paying job. I cant commit to long working hours as my dd is in childcare.

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

Vuuuuuuuuuu ... next next

[Anta Assamey]

We Need a replacement of this Story

[k2s]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1343670117' post='1302225352']
We Need a replacement of this Story
[/quote][list]
[*][url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/user/11095-brahmi/"][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/profile/photo-thumb-11095.gif?_r=1343234688[/img][/url][url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/user/11095-brahmi/"] [/url]
[/list]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1343670138' post='1302225355']
[list]
[*][url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/user/11095-brahmi/"][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/profile/photo-thumb-11095.gif?_r=1343234688[/img][/url][url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/user/11095-brahmi/"] [/url]
[/list]
[/quote]


NIjamganey idi Nuvu storylu veyatam modalu pettina kottalo vesavu ee story

[psycopk]

hm... with time you will get used to it..

[k2s]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1343670181' post='1302225359']
NIjamganey idi Nuvu storylu veyatam modalu pettina kottalo vesavu ee story
[/quote]
[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1343670187' post='1302225361']
hm... with time you will get used to it..
[/quote][img]http://i53.tinypic.com/1zdwtqv.gif[/img]

[rapchik]

[img]http://img683.imageshack.us/img683/1029/veerabhadrarao.gif[/img] enni sarulu vesthava