Estory 1...chapathi Kosam Mogudi Moham Meda Spit Chese Penta Moham Di

[I hate caste......]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Hello frnz,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]This is regarding my friend's married life. He is in a total mess now and I really want some urgent suggestions to sort out his problems. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He is my school friend. He loved a gal in college and married her a year back (6 years love). Both are doctors earning decent money. They belonged to the same caste, and even then after many fights with both their parents only they could marry. My friend lost his dad at a very young age. He is very much attached to his mom. I would not say that he is a mama's boy. Infact he is very independant, and his mother is also an extremely lovely lady. I have known her from school days, and I know her well. I was introduced to his wife (then girl friend) during their courtship period and she seemed a very nice girl and friendly.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]All problems started after their marriage. His wife became very insecure and possesive of him, and also started throwing terrible tantrums based on silly fights she picks with his mom. One example he told me was, his mom wanted to cook rice instead of chapathi for him one night. But she wanted to make chapathi. His mom replied since he had chapathi already in the morning, it would be better to cook rice in the night. For this, she had fought with him until early morning 3, claiming she had no respect in his house and wanna move out. I agree she may have felt hurt, but I don't think its so serious to fight till morning? He says she does so many immature stuff during such fights, like spitting on him, removing her mangalsutra, and once she even when to the extent of drinking poison. She was hospitalized and was saved.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Now she says she does not want his mom to be with them and that she has to move out. He is the only son and his mom does not have any other relatives. And my friend is very angry with his wife for making his life hell. He loves his mom so much and does not want to send her away. I spoke to his mom recently. She did not tell me anything about this but she sounded so depressed. My friend says his mom is always crying seeing his son's life. It seems his mom also told his wife once that she would change herself if there was anything his wife does not like in her. God! She is such a lovely lady. I have always told her that her DIL will be so lucky to get her as a MIL. Can't believe she has got such a DIL.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My friend is also a very nice guy. He was such a lively guy, but the last time I spoke to him, there was no soul in his voice. He sounds suicidal. He never told me any of this until yesterday. I knew from his voice that he was facing some issues. I forced him to tell me everything, but never expected this. I really want him to be happy. I had no advice for him except to try counselling along with his wife. Any suggestion frnz? Pls give any idea! I just want them both to be happy.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]If there are any details missing, please ask me. I would clarify. Thanks!!![/size][/font][/color]

[k2s]

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[Yuva Nataratna]

ilanti vallaki man handling ee better......lekapothe maata vinaru.....inka vinakapothe divorce icchi daridram vadhilinchukovatame...

[I hate caste......]

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[psycopk]

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[tom bhayya]

[quote name='Yuva Nataratna' timestamp='1344450198' post='1302277404']
[b]ilanti vallaki man handling ee better[/b]......lekapothe maata vinaru.....inka vinakapothe divorce icchi daridram vadhilinchukovatame...
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never ever do that baa...

[Yuva Nataratna]

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never ever do that baa...
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u.s lo kastam emo kada koncham......

[tom bhayya]

[quote name='Yuva Nataratna' timestamp='1344450292' post='1302277416']

u.s lo kastam emo kada koncham......
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us aa india ani kaadhu... no man handling adhi kuda oka ammayini.. antha chiraaku anipisthey just move out bayataki poyi bar lo kurcho anthey.... na varaku aithey naa character ki adhi oka macha laantidhi ...

[vikuba]

ammai mana amma ayya lani ...thiditey..
pempakam ila undhi ..andhkey ila ayaru..
mee babu emaatram sampaadinchaaru...deenikey inthanaa..lanti maatal antey?
nenaitey manchi boothul tho plus..kanipinchani police bootu debbal esey talent undhi..adhey chestha[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1344450412' post='1302277435']
us aa india ani kaadhu... no man handling adhi kuda oka ammayini.. antha chiraaku anipisthey just move out bayataki poyi bar lo kurcho anthey.... na varaku aithey naa character ki adhi oka macha laantidhi ...
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[Yuva Nataratna]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1344450412' post='1302277435']
us aa india ani kaadhu... no man handling adhi kuda oka ammayini.. antha chiraaku anipisthey just move out bayataki poyi bar lo kurcho anthey.... na varaku aithey naa character ki adhi oka macha laantidhi ...
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ante adi moham meeda vummesina kooda manam bayatiki poyi bar lo kurchovala..... love marriages lo ide main problem ego, first nunchi iddaram samaaname ani fix avutharu,inka tarvata worst sequences untay daani valla....

[pandemkodi]

2RU AADALLU OKA KOMPALO VUNDALERU ....

[Anta Assamey]

[SUYODHANAA]

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ammai mana amma ayya lani ...thiditey..
pempakam ila undhi ..andhkey ila ayaru..
mee babu emaatram sampaadinchaaru...deenikey inthanaa..lanti maatal antey?
nenaitey manchi boothul tho plus..kanipinchani police bootu debbal esey talent undhi..adhey chestha
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