Estory - 2 : Over-Analysis

[Spartan]

[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img] nenu subway veli vasta....meeru carry on...

[psycopk]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1345144594' post='1302320972']
Mari nee gurinchi DB aada prajanikam anta la pogudutunte ante antaru kada Chitti.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

Idigo Proof ..
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bra baga hurt aainatu unnadu.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[Anta Assamey]

Nenu veltunanu Work chesukovali....

P.S --> I am Busy PsycoPK

[Spartan]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345144866' post='1302321020']
bra baga hurt aainatu unnadu.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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same feeling.. [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[Sastrygaru]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1345144747' post='1302320998']


neeku happies kada...topic divert ayindi ani.. [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]
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neenu out of danger.... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345144866' post='1302321020']
bra baga hurt aainatu unnadu.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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Nenu enduku hurt avuta.... aa thread link ista choodu.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/topic/326134-calling-alexander/"]http://www.andhrafriends.com/topic/326134-calling-alexander/[/url]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1345144915' post='1302321030']

same feeling.. [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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Ide chance kada ani naa vaipu tipputunavu kada steering ni... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[psycopk]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1345144959' post='1302321042']
Nenu enduku hurt avuta.... aa thread link ista choodu.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[url="http://www.andhrafriends.com/topic/326134-calling-alexander/"]http://www.andhrafri...ling-alexander/[/url]
[/quote] harmless person and good at heart.. lol.. enni sarlu chdavukunav ba?? book mark cheskoni untav ga [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345145066' post='1302321065']
harmless person and good at heart.. lol.. enni sarlu chdavukunav ba?? book mark cheskoni untav ga [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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Nannu dobbamante ekkadaleni utsaham vastundi ga neeku...Aa thread vesindi aa sentence gurinchi kadu Alex and Naa PMs gurinchi... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

Taruvata priority Chitti ki vellindi... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[Anta Assamey]

Calling Vivian.... Eee PsycoPK gurinchi kuda edaina raayi... sampestunadu lekapotey... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345143466' post='1302320762']
neeku anni detailed ga chepte principal leave letter accept chesinatu ok cheptava.. chessssss... anduke ee pedda rayduu terrpu ichina tarwata inka eduru chepaku
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[Spartan]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345145066' post='1302321065']
harmless person and good at heart.. lol.. enni sarlu chdavukunav ba?? [b]book mark cheskoni untav ga[/b] [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img] doubt aa....

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1345148355' post='1302321567']
[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img] doubt aa....
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Mari nee comment gurinchi cheppave.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

[Spartan]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1345148407' post='1302321570']
Mari nee comment gurinchi cheppave.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]
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[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img] na guirnchi alreday meeru disco chesesaru ga..

[lolliilollii2012]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1345138811' post='1302320002']
I have been married 2 years, it was an arranged marriage, I have been living in the US for the last 2 yrs. Just penning down these points to clarify my thoughts...all the experienced ladies I request you to PLEASE advise on whether I am being unreasonable (or not) . Am i overeacting?????????????????

I am extremely depressed most of the time, feel like a failure, and desperately need to take control of my own life.

1) Top most reason: I am a bit of an introvert and have always liked the extrovertish kind of person. From the beginning itself I knew my husband was a much bigger introvert than me, but he was always a sincere and understanding guy and I thought maybe being not social is not that important. But the fact remains, to this day he does not have a single friend even though he has been in the US for many years. he spends all holidays alone, doing nothing other than watching TV and talking to his mother. The reason why this is affecting me is that I was extremely lonely when I moved here from India and always had to take extra initiative to get myself (and him) a social circle. But most of the time he doesnot gel well in a group so after one meeting or so, people leave us alone. I love clubbing and partying ocassionally, having always stayed in a metro in india, but since my husband doesnt drink/dance we have never really enjoyed ouselves like many young couples in the US do. I have stopped going out on vacation with him since i get bored. I feel we have lost that mental connection long ago.

2) He is a HUGE momma's boy and I do not get along well with his mother at all, Its the usual issue, his mother considers him God and waits on him hand and foot, both in india and when she came to visit him in US . Needless to say I am supposed to do the same. She follows way too many superstitions and MEANINGLESS customs (like using dishwasher is harmful, so pls wash the dishes by hand !!!!!!) and her possessiveness about her son borders on the verge of being a lunatic. (like holding her sons hand tightly while walking on the road) . She has often misbehaved in public and most of the time I am seriously ashamed of taking her out in a public gathering.

But i have to add that my husband often takes my side during arguments. The end result is, however, that my MIL starts shouting and creates an ugly scene and we are both forced to shut up.I think he has lived under her thumb so long that he is often incapable of taking decisions on his own.
I have tried my best to adjust , but i can NEVER expect him to break off ties with his mother and when she is old he needs to take care of her. I cannot imagine myslef living under the same roof with her.



3) My marriage is unconsummated. Yes. Dont even want to discuss this further, but now I dont even feel like trying.



4) My professional life is down in the dumps and I have been unemployed since the time I moved here. i had a very good job in india and am very well qualified but even after lots of efforts i am not able to find anything good here. all my other friends who've moved to the US have managed to get jobs and my self esteem is at an all time low and that is affecting our relationship.

I cant think of a 5th reason. Last but not the least if you meet my husband you will find him to be an extremely polite, helpful, nice guy, and he IS one. He is highly qualified, was doing pretty well professionally (until recently when marital problems starting taking a toll ), and by nature is very unselfish and understanding.

But I am feeling more and more, that its not enough....I am thinking of a temporary separation...but I know these problems will not get solved on their own. Is it even worth trying??? Is there ANYTHING i can do??????PLEASE help me.
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just tell me if he is fcking you or not......