Estory - 1 : Maaya Ki Line Esthunna Fafa

[k2s]

hi friends

this is the first time i am posting here with my problem. I have this problem of staring at people or looking around if i am in a new place. I used to do it so much that my husband told me that though you dont have any bad intentions ppl may take it bad and try to make advances.

Since then i have been sincerely trying to control looking around or checking my surroundings. i do that coz i am very uncomfortable in new places. But recently i had to meet two of my husband's colleagues in two different situations. Now i know i havent spoken anything at all to the second person and with the first person i hardly spoke about my huband and my son.

the first person had the guts to go the extent of making some very wrong remarks about me that i enjoyed tlaking to him, so on and forth. When iheard that i was baffled. I could not understand what on earth could make him say that when all i had done was to answer his questons abt my husband and son. That became quite an issue with my husband not believing in me that i did not do anything wrong. He thinks that i did something or spoke something or encouraged him. I admit there were a few instances when i noticed people and did look at him. But i never had a single bad though in my mind nor the wish to impress anybody.

The second instance is where i met the second colleague in a different place when i was with my mom. And he told my husband that i looked at him in a strange manner. I admit i saw him in the temple and the way he was directing the people there reminded me of my dad and i went into my own world of thoughts. But the problem is my husband thinks i wantedly did that. But i can hardly understand how can i do that when i did just give him aglance but beyond that i cant understnad where i went wrong. All these situations are making my husband think that i am checking out other guys. but how on earth can i prove him wrong? How can i correct myself. I am not even able to understand where i am going wrong.

Glancing at others or looking at others is wrong. i know that and i try to control my entire self in not looking around and working. how can i improve myself. how can i change. please help me.

though it might not seem from the post, i am really hurt a lot and like to change my husband's opinion about me.

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

waste story .. next

[tom bhayya]

[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img] colleauges iddharu randi amma... mee aavida nannu ila chusthundhi ani valla ayana tho cheppara [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1345572785' post='1302349991']
[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img] colleauges iddharu randi amma... mee aavida nannu ila chusthundhi ani valla ayana tho cheppara [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img]
[/quote]just casual ga choothey line esthunatta...... think modern yaa

antaru

[psycopk]

as long as you don't have any bad intentions you don't have to worry about proving about yourself to your husband he will know with time... move on

[psycopk]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1345572785' post='1302349991']
[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img] colleauges iddharu randi amma... mee aavida nannu ila chusthundhi ani valla ayana tho cheppara [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/NTR-17_0.gif?1339370425[/img]
[/quote] yea naku ade anipinchidi inta labour edavalu endi ra babu ani

[Anta Assamey]

[k2s]

[quote name='Brahmi' timestamp='1345574515' post='1302350317']

[/quote]nijamga sadivava...leka edo smiley esava

[madathakaaja]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1345574548' post='1302350323']
nijamga sadivava...leka edo smiley esava
[/quote]

Nijamganey sadivanu K2S ... Kani em analo teliyaka ala vadilesa..