Estory - 2 : Ladies Fighting For Sarees

[k2s]

hi,

Your posts have helped me lot in many of my dilemmas. But now I'm facing a very peculiar problem....

I came to US after my marriage and left all my lovely sarees, lehengas, salwar kameezs at my in-law's place. Recently, I've come to know that my SIL is wearing all my clothes, WITHOUT asking, or telling me. To give you some idea:

1. They went on a vacation, after which she uploaded her photos & I saw she was wearing my jacket. I didn't think much of it because it is after all an outwear....
2. We're video chatting with in-laws when she came to visit (they live in the same city) and I caught a glimpse of her before their signing off. I think she was wearing my Salwar Kameez. Now, I'm tall and slender while she is short and portly. So, I'm afraid she has altered it to fit her...
3. She uploaded the pictures of her daughter's first b'day and there she was wearing MY saree. It was given to me by my Mom on my first diwali...

You can imagine how outraged I was !!! Let alone taking permission, they did not even tell me. When I showed my displeasure to DH, his reaction was only what to be expected. That I was being selfish and materialistic !!! That those sarees are anyway lying there unused !!! Blah blah blah ....

But, I guess all you ladies agree that Sarees are precious for their huge emotional value, especially when they are given by your mom. What do you think I should do? I have half a mind of asking my mom to collect my clothes, but prudence tells me that I should not involve her.

[tom bhayya]

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[k2s]

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[JUJUBI_JULABI]

lol next

[trust_212]

Huh...there are bigger problems in life..after all sarees ki enta emotional value, pressure and post???????? Just insane..

[BenzCircle]

[k2s]

[quote name='trust_212' timestamp='1345573121' post='1302350063']
Huh...there are bigger problems in life..after all sarees ki enta emotional value, pressure and post???????? Just insane..
[/quote]ippudu ilagey untadi... in future lo u may think in same lines

[psycopk]

hmm idi forum lo ladies ki help avudi..

[Spartan]

[k2s]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345573191' post='1302350076']
hmm idi forum lo ladies ki help avudi..
[/quote]agreed andukey esa

[trust_212]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1345573184' post='1302350074']
ippudu ilagey untadi... in future lo u may think in same lines
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We can buy 100 sarees in entire life time but peace of mind and relationships pote we can never get them back...i would not unnecessarily create tensions in my personal life for materialistic things like sarees...stupid actions like that might create pressures in my own family life...life lo enta ignore cheste ilanti simple things we will be that happy..andarulo bad ayyi own husband aey ardham chesukokunda ayyaka what can she do with sarees? chillar godva i my view..asthi kabja cheste may be react avvachemo but not for sarees...even if she wears the one she is not even using kompalem antukovu she can always get them back when she visit MIL PLACE

[Guest]

Story kinda saree ad undi...lol

[madathakaaja]

[k2s]

[quote name='trust_212' timestamp='1345573422' post='1302350124']
We can buy 100 sarees in entire life time but peace of mind and relationships pote we can never get them back...i would not unnecessarily create tensions in my personal life for materialistic things like sarees...stupid actions like that might create pressures in my own family life...life lo enta ignore cheste ilanti simple things we will be that happy..andarulo bad ayyi own husband aey ardham chesukokunda ayyaka what can she do with sarees? chillar godva i my view..asthi kabja cheste may be react avvachemo but not for sarees...even if she wears the one she is not even using kompalem antukovu she can always get them back when she visit MIL PLACE
[/quote]since ur young now.... ur thinking this as chillar godavalu.......
i have seen these kind of issues alot in many ladies.... thought this is a common problem...

[k2s]

[quote name='Guest' timestamp='1345573462' post='1302350134']
Story kinda saree ad undi...lol
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