Estory - 3 : S I L

[k2s]

Hi ladies..
Writing here after a long time.Was caught up with job and family drama(read In laws)..
You all had given wonderful ideas.I tried to implement as many as I could.Since there was a lot happening on work front too,I could not keep you all updated.
Well,last 4 months have been totally devoted to ILs.MIL was with us most of the time and I was busy playing a good DIL-caring for her,taking her out,shopping for her etc etc..Not to mention my SIL-we had to go to meet her then she too visited us..I have almost spent all my leave for them.As usual I am not left with many leave days to visit my own parents..

Meanwhile I have got a change in workplace and my DH and I are staying at different places now.We are more of a weekend couple now.
I am too much in love with him and staying away from him is taking toll on my mental peace..
But my MIL and SIL hardly understand this..MIL has constantly been staying with DH on account of taking care of him.I don't know what all she has been gossiping.But that doesn't concern me.I am more worried about the fact that DH and I hardly have any "our" time left.She is in DH's room till late night watching all her serials(although she has a TV in her room too).We can't talk while she is around him and then we are too tired to talk.On weekends too,she stays in our room most of the time,accompanies us to movies,shopping etc..Also we have spent a hell lot on MIL and SIL on one account or the other..

ladies,I have tried it all..Even if I don't argue with my DH,I can't help being sad and mood out all the time.
I think DH understands it but poor chap,how can he tell his mom to leave us alone!!
I am so tired now.And I can't help being so negative about everything.Here we are-doing so much(financially,emotionally,socially) and these ladies neither appreciate nor try to help us out in anything..Rather their demands and intruding nature are turning me mad.
I think the more I do,the more they take it for granted and the more they expect out of us.. Won't it be better to just stop trying?And be declared as a bad DIL?
Sometimes I feel that I should force my DH to sever all his relations with them and not caring about being branded as bad DIL who left poor MIL and SIL alone and helpless..
I know I can't do that..Can't see DH in pain too..
What to do..Any suggestions?
Forgot to mention,this weekend again MIL will be back and this time with her sisters..And I don't know for how many days or weeks they'll stay!! Don't even feel like going there this week coz after a whole week of work,this is the last thing one will want-working and serving..

[psycopk]

DH should be able to handle it..

[Spartan]

"I was busy[color=#ff0000][b][size=7] playing[/size][/b][/color] a good DIL-caring for her,taking her out,shopping for her etc etc.."


[color=#008000][i][size=6]U never had a respect for them lady....so dont talk about relationships......when u are trying to act as nice person....[/size][/i][/color]


[size=5]I don't know what all she has been gossiping.[color=#ff0000][size=6]But that doesn't concern me.[/size][/color][/size]

[color=#008000][i][size=7]Mentioning that itself says..ur concerned about that......ROFL...[/size][/i][/color]

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[Calm Guy]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1345573573' post='1302350155']
"I was busy[color=#ff0000][b][size=7] playing[/size][/b][/color] a good DIL-caring for her,taking her out,shopping for her etc etc.."


[color=#008000][i][size=6]U never had a respect for them lady....so dont talk about relationships......when u are trying to act as nice person....[/size][/i][/color]


[size=5]I don't know what all she has been gossiping.[color=#ff0000][size=6]But that doesn't concern me.[/size][/color][/size]

[color=#008000][i][size=7]Mentioning that itself says..ur concerned about that......ROFL...[/size][/i][/color]
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[k2s]

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