Estory 1: Husband Went To Prostitute

[ManaBadi]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]"Hello,[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I recently found out my husband cheated on me with a prostitute.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I am 30 year old[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Ours was arrange marriage and I was virgin before marriage(i do not know if this is relevant or not) [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I thought we had very good marriage with usual fights and stress. Nothing major.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He regularly visited porn sites.I did not make [/size][/font][/color]important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]big deal[/u][/size][/font][][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] about it thinking most men do this and focusing on it resulted in me feeling sad so I mostly ignored his habit. I though it did not create any physical problem (though hit to my self confidence is different issue, ignored by him). He said it helped him relaxed and I turned blind eye.[/size][/font][/color]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Two year back I went to my parents house in India and miscarried. Because of this I stayed there for around 3 months. On returning I found out that he had been trying to contact[/size][/font] !important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]escort services[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] and had appointment with one to visit at our house. I confronted him and he came clean. He told me, he was not serious about these mails and just wanted to see the kind of response he will get just for fun as he was lonely. He swore he did not cheat but was just having email fun. He said he felt guilty as soon as he sent those email and did not go through with any appointment with the escort girls. I cried a lot but believed him and we continued with our life.[/size][/font]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Last year in October I gave birth to a baby girl. Because of the previous miscarriage I was super careful during my pregnancy and had sex with him only couple of times however I did oral sex to him once a month or so.[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When my baby was 4 month old we took time off from work and visited our native place. We decided that he will return early because of his work and I will follow in 6 weeks time after him.[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I came to know now that on his return during his time alone here he contacted escort service in another city and had visited a escort girl. this time he did have sex with the prostitute. I also found out through the same secret email account that he tried to contact girls on [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]craiglist[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] for sex when he was on conference one month after our baby was born. However he did not have sex with any girl during his stay for conference.(Probably because most of girl [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]on [/size][/font]][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]craigslist [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]are fake).[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When confronted he did come clean again and has been very very guilty. He cried a lot and swears will not repeat this mistake again[/size][/font]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I feel very lonely. I have a 10 month old baby now and leaving him is not an option for me. I think I love him and want to get over this. I do not have any friends or family here. My parents are in India, and can not discuss this with them(mostly they will tell me to reconcile and not break the marriage) His parent are visiting us but I have not discussed this with them.[/size][/font][/color]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He has been very nice guy overall, lil sefish lil egoistic now and them but overall kind to me.[/size][/font][/color]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]About our sex life before my pregnancy we had normal sex life according to me, since the baby has been born my interest in sex has declined a lot. I am working and exclusive breast fed baby for 6 month this resulted in diminished sexual drive. He works for long hours at stressful [/size][/font]!important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]jobs[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]he says his stress level is high. I thought that we were in this together but now not so sure. I do not know what to do and am very very embarrassed to go to marriage [/size][/font]important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]counselling[/u][/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]How long will it take for our relationship to be normal again[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]In general I posted this to talk to some one about my feeling, logically I know all this will be forgiven in long run and we will be normal (whatever the new normal is for us).[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]But right now I am feeling very lonely. My eyes fill with tears for no reason several times a day. Any one who has gone through something similar please help me cope and be strong[/size][/font]

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

is the husband 'lolli_lolli'

[remobabu]

[whatever]

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is the husband 'lolli_lolli'
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[Simple123]

[quote name='ManaBadi' timestamp='1346854173' post='1302431018']
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]"Hello,[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I recently found out my husband cheated on me with a prostitute.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I am 30 year old[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Ours was arrange marriage and I was virgin before marriage(i do not know if this is relevant or not) [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I thought we had very good marriage with usual fights and stress. Nothing major.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He regularly visited porn sites.I did not make [/size][/font][/color]important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]big deal[/u][/size][/font][][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] about it thinking most men do this and focusing on it resulted in me feeling sad so I mostly ignored his habit. I though it did not create any physical problem (though hit to my self confidence is different issue, ignored by him). He said it helped him relaxed and I turned blind eye.[/size][/font][/color]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Two year back I went to my parents house in India and miscarried. Because of this I stayed there for around 3 months. On returning I found out that he had been trying to contact[/size][/font] !important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]escort services[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] and had appointment with one to visit at our house. I confronted him and he came clean. He told me, he was not serious about these mails and just wanted to see the kind of response he will get just for fun as he was lonely. He swore he did not cheat but was just having email fun. He said he felt guilty as soon as he sent those email and did not go through with any appointment with the escort girls. I cried a lot but believed him and we continued with our life.[/size][/font]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Last year in October I gave birth to a baby girl. Because of the previous miscarriage I was super careful during my pregnancy and had sex with him only couple of times however I did oral sex to him once a month or so.[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When my baby was 4 month old we took time off from work and visited our native place. We decided that he will return early because of his work and I will follow in 6 weeks time after him.[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I came to know now that on his return during his time alone here he contacted escort service in another city and had visited a escort girl. this time he did have sex with the prostitute. I also found out through the same secret email account that he tried to contact girls on [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]craiglist[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] for sex when he was on conference one month after our baby was born. However he did not have sex with any girl during his stay for conference.(Probably because most of girl [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]on [/size][/font]][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]craigslist [/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]are fake).[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When confronted he did come clean again and has been very very guilty. He cried a lot and swears will not repeat this mistake again[/size][/font]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I feel very lonely. I have a 10 month old baby now and leaving him is not an option for me. I think I love him and want to get over this. I do not have any friends or family here. My parents are in India, and can not discuss this with them(mostly they will tell me to reconcile and not break the marriage) His parent are visiting us but I have not discussed this with them.[/size][/font][/color]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He has been very nice guy overall, lil sefish lil egoistic now and them but overall kind to me.[/size][/font][/color]
][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]About our sex life before my pregnancy we had normal sex life according to me, since the baby has been born my interest in sex has declined a lot. I am working and exclusive breast fed baby for 6 month this resulted in diminished sexual drive. He works for long hours at stressful [/size][/font]!important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]jobs[/u][/size][/font][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]he says his stress level is high. I thought that we were in this together but now not so sure. I do not know what to do and am very very embarrassed to go to marriage [/size][/font]important][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][u]counselling[/u][/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]How long will it take for our relationship to be normal again[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]In general I posted this to talk to some one about my feeling, logically I know all this will be forgiven in long run and we will be normal (whatever the new normal is for us).[/size][/font]
[font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]But right now I am feeling very lonely. My eyes fill with tears for no reason several times a day. Any one who has gone through something similar please help me cope and be strong[/size][/font]
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Satissfy him , other wise he will continue it

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fafa antha bad emo

[Darling999]

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