Virginity, A Must For A Happy Marriage?

[ICANWIN]

Nakaite must...Virgin a kada ani nenu test chesi investigate cheyanu but i need a virgin as i am a virgin...pelli ki mundu inkodito relation pettukoni malla pelli ki okay anukunna ammayi pelli tavata untundi ani guarantee emundi ?? Mosapoyina pelli munde chepte alochistanu kani pelli ayyaka telisina i will divorce. Manam, seelam ,women rights ani jandalu pattukoni lectures ichevallaki vati value teleda? character light tesukunna ammayi ante inka emunna emi lenatte...nenaite accept cheyyanu..

Nijanga character unte ammayi asalu easy ga she wont be over it ani na opinion...Mogadu edaina cheyachu ani cheppatledu mogavallu kuda character to undali ammayilani use chesukoni vadileyakudadu but ammayi is 1st teacher to kids and handles entire family neeti leni ammayi vachi em pikutundi ?

[chicago]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347917048' post='1302493219']
Nakaite must...Virgin a kada ani nenu test chesi investigate cheyanu but i need a virgin as i am a virgin...pelli ki mundu inkodito relation pettukoni malla pelli ki okay anukunna ammayi pelli tavata untundi ani guarantee emundi ?? Mosapoyina pelli munde chepte alochistanu kani pelli ayyaka telisina i will divorce. Manam, seelam ,women rights ani jandalu pattukoni lectures ichevallaki vati value teleda? character light tesukunna ammayi ante inka emunna emi lenatte...nenaite accept cheyyanu..

Nijanga character unte ammayi asalu easy ga she wont be over it ani na opinion...Mogadu edaina cheyachu ani cheppatledu mogavallu kuda character to undali ammayilani use chesukoni vadileyakudadu but ammayi is 1st teacher to kids and handles entire family neeti leni ammayi vachi em pikutundi ?
[/quote]Manchi illiterate ga matladuthunadu kadha ... Me intlo Mardalu lanti vallaniiii Chesko

[ICANWIN]

[quote name='m8espartan' timestamp='1347920442' post='1302493510']
Manchi illiterate ga matladuthunadu kadha ... Me intlo Mardalu lanti vallaniiii Chesko
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i am committed btw...anni types of girls untaru bro..alanti vallu undaru anukovadam is not right...there are 60-70% virgins with values even in these days...wrong people tagilaremo niku

[chittimallu4]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347917048' post='1302493219']
Nakaite must...Virgin a kada ani nenu test chesi investigate cheyanu but i need a virgin as i am a virgin...pelli ki mundu inkodito relation pettukoni malla pelli ki okay anukunna ammayi pelli tavata untundi ani guarantee emundi ?? Mosapoyina pelli munde chepte alochistanu kani pelli ayyaka telisina i will divorce. Manam, seelam ,women rights ani jandalu pattukoni lectures ichevallaki vati value teleda? character light tesukunna ammayi ante inka emunna emi lenatte...nenaite accept cheyyanu..

Nijanga character unte ammayi asalu easy ga she wont be over it ani na opinion...Mogadu edaina cheyachu ani cheppatledu mogavallu kuda character to undali ammayilani use chesukoni vadileyakudadu but ammayi is 1st teacher to kids and handles entire family neeti leni ammayi vachi em pikutundi ?
[/quote]different angle. Thinkable

[jbourne]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347917048' post='1302493219']
Nakaite must...Virgin a kada ani nenu test chesi investigate cheyanu but i need a virgin as i am a virgin...pelli ki mundu inkodito relation pettukoni malla pelli ki okay anukunna ammayi pelli tavata untundi ani guarantee emundi ?? Mosapoyina pelli munde chepte alochistanu kani pelli ayyaka telisina i will divorce. Manam, seelam ,women rights ani jandalu pattukoni lectures ichevallaki vati value teleda? character light tesukunna ammayi ante inka emunna emi lenatte...nenaite accept cheyyanu..

Nijanga character unte ammayi asalu easy ga she wont be over it ani na opinion...Mogadu edaina cheyachu ani cheppatledu mogavallu kuda character to undali ammayilani use chesukoni vadileyakudadu but ammayi is 1st teacher to kids and handles entire family neeti leni ammayi vachi em pikutundi ?
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[chicago]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347920797' post='1302493537']



i am committed btw...anni types of girls untaru bro..alanti vallu undaru anukovadam is not right...there are 60-70% virgins with values even in these days...wrong people tagilaremo niku
[/quote]Thank god you are committed ... Virginity ledhu ammayi ah relation lekuna divorce Esthava

[ICANWIN]

[quote name='m8espartan' timestamp='1347921014' post='1302493564']
Thank god you are committed ... Virginity ledhu ammayi ah relation lekuna divorce Esthava
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ni question naku ardham kaledu..na gf is not virgin ani teluste definate ga vadileste because she cheated me all these years without telling me the truth...nenu telusukokamunde chepte adi veru naku telisaka cheppadam veru...values leni ammayini nenaite chesukolenu..rangu andam kanna nakaite ammayilo character aey imp..

[chicago]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347921336' post='1302493601']



ni question naku ardham kaledu..na gf is not virgin ani teluste definate ga vadileste because she cheated me all these years without telling me the truth...nenu telusukokamunde chepte adi veru naku telisaka cheppadam veru...values leni ammayini nenaite chesukolenu..rangu andam kanna nakaite ammayilo character aey imp..
[/quote]Ok

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[rapchik]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1347860301' post='1302489489']
[i]From time immemorial a woman's virginity has been her prized possession. Throughout history one will read about cultures across the world placing a high value on a a woman's virginity. But times are changing and for an increasing number of young men and women, [url="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/sex"]sex[/url] is no longer the kind of taboo that it earlier used to be. And much to our older generation's charging, pre-marital sex is a definite reality of our times. [/i]

In fact, these days, couples who are in a relationship have no qualms about getting sexually intimate with each other even though there may be no guarantee that the relationship will culminate into marriage. However, when it does come to the question of marriage, especially in the case of arranged marriages, a woman with a sexually active history still raises eyebrows and sets tongues wagging. What then is the big deal about virginity and how does this kind of a mentality hamper the lives of numerous women?

According to Dr Mahindra Vatsa, gynaecologist and sex counsellor, this kind of mentality is largely because our traditional values are still strongly embedded in us. "One of the most common questions I get, till date, is 'How do I know that my bride or girlfriend is a virgin?' The only answer that I have to such questions is that there is no way to know," says Dr Watsa. According to him, it's just the man's and his family's inflated ego that results in such unrealistic demands. How then, does our traditional culture not hamper couples from engaging in pre-marital sex? "Once a couple is engaged, it's like a license for marriage so they feel they can do anything," he opines.

"It's actually not such a big deal. However, I still get men who complain to me saying that the wife did not bleed on the first night and hence, they suspect that she's not a virgin. The truth is that the presence of the hymen which ruptures (resulting in the bleeding) is not a sure shot sign of virginity. Some women are born without it, there there are those for whom it is so elastic that it never ruptures while for some it is so fragile that a slightly intense activity may have ruptured it without them even realising it. It is just not possible to access whether a girl is a virgin or not by just examining her except if she's been through a pregnancy or if she admits to having sexual intercourse," says sexologist Dr Rajan Bhonsle.

He goes on to add that in a relationship, if a couple is to make it work successfully, it is more important for the couple to worry about virtues like trust and honesty. "If a woman admits to a sexually active past, it shouldn't be held against her. The very fact that she's even admitting it, even though she could have very well hidden it, means that she is honest and that's all that should matter," he says.

For some men, however, especially those raised in very orthodox families or old-fashioned joint families, it's the family members who tend to influence their decision. "In many of these families, something like falling in love or sex before marriage equates to the girl being bold. Their reasons, hence, for rejecting such girls is that post-marriage, too, the girl will continue with the same behaviour," Dr Bhonsle explains.

Commenting on the issue, actress Sophie Choudry opines, "Most people in Mumbai and other metropolitan cities do not expect their partners to be virgins anymore because India has gone through a dramatic change in the past 10 years. India is no longer the closed society it was. The modern young Indian woman is working, independent and makes her own choices in life. It's a change the Indian man has had to adapt to. Nonetheless, we cannot ignore that there is tremendous pressure on girls from smaller cities and more conservative families and virginity does still play a major factor when it comes to their marriage."

An intact hymen is not a sure sign of virginity. A woman's hymen can be ruptured by non-sexual activities like intense sports, dancing, sitting astride on two wheelers, etc.

It is not necessary for a virgin to bleed the first time she has sex. In fact, is one goes by the statistics, only 42 per cent of women do so.

With the current advances in medical technology, a plastic surgeon can quite easily reconstruct a layer of tissue to resemble the hymen (the procedure is called Hymenoplasty).

Remember, virginity and chastity are not the only measures to base a happy marriage on, honesty and trust are far more important traits that both partners should possess.
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[color=#333333][font=georgia,]In a world of extreme makeovers where human bodies are now fashioned to order, this may be the ultimate plastic surgery. It is for women only. It is veiled in secrecy. And it fixes a tiny part of the anatomy rarely mentioned in polite company.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]You may know it by a variety of slang terms. Technically, it's the hymen, a thin membrane that partially covers the opening of the **. A girl who has never had sexual intercourse is supposed to have her hymen intact.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]Now, a new surgical technique is giving girls with a past a new future.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]"The hymen's a delicate membrane that separates girls from women," said Dr. Robert Stubbs, who runs the Cosmetic Surgicentre in Toronto, where, in a simple, half-hour operation, he turns sexually experienced women into surgical virgins.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]The surgery is called hymen restoration — a relatively simple procedure that stitches back together what a moment of passion might have shattered.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]‘Queen of Virginity’[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]In New York City, the operation has created a new class of royalty: "They the[size=6] Queen of the Virginity[/size], " says Cuban-born Esmeralda Venegas, who runs the Ridgewood Health and Beauty Center in Queens.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]Here, board-certified plastic surgeons repair the thin membrane, either by stitching the frayed ends together or by adding a patch of tissue from the vaginal walls. Either way, it's a procedure that's a lot easier and less dangerous than the usual nips and tucks women come here for.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]But the psychic pain associated with the decision to undergo the surgery is immense. We met one young woman, a 17-year-old we'll call Rosalita, who — forced by centuries of tradition — traveled incognito to Venegas' clinic.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]"I heard when I was young that all the girls that get married, they bled for the first time," Rosalita said.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]For Rosalita, the idea that brides should bleed on their wedding night was very important.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]"Yeah, that's important, because they know that you are a virgin," she said.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]But Rosalita is not a virgin. She's come to the clinic to regain what she lost during a recent vacation — a moment of lust, she says, not love.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]Rosalita is from the Dominican Republic and lives in New Jersey with her mother. She doesn't have a boyfriend right now, but believes she'll never get married without at least the illusion of virginity.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]Catering to a Culture of Machismo[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]She's not alone. Venegas says several hundred scared young women from many cultures — Latinas, Mideasterners, Chinese, Koreans — have paid her $2,500 each to have their hymens restored. Sure, it's a business, she says, but what's behind the practice makes Venegas angry.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]"It's about machismo, 100 percent," she said.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]In fact, the hymen is not a reliable marker of virginity. In many girls, it is torn or destroyed during active sports. But that hasn't tarnished its allure. And even if it's fake, Stubbs is willing to go along with the ruse.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]When asked whether he believed that by restoring a woman's hymen he was restoring her virginity, Stubbs said: "Well, what is virginity? Virginity is not well defined."[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]Necessary Deception?[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]But, in fact, a woman who's had sexual relations is not a virgin, and by restoring the hymen Stubbs and other surgeons are allowing patients to be deceptive.[/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=georgia,]"Yes. Oh, I agree. I mean, I'm not saying it's not deceptive," he said. "But there are little white lies and big lies."[/font][/color]


[color=#333333][size=6] [/size][/color][size=6][color=#333333]Summary enti ante....inka amailu baya padalisina avasaram ledhu...even though they losse virginity...they can be back ani..by making surgery.... [/color][/size]

[size=6][color=#333333]inka adapilla time starts[/color][/size]

[rapchik]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347920797' post='1302493537']


i am committed btw...anni types of girls untaru bro..alanti vallu undaru anukovadam is not right...there are 60-70% virgins with values even in these days...wrong people tagilaremo niku
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60-70%....how do you know bhayya....neeku andharu chepara....memu virgin ani leka nuvu chusava....manamu mundhu anadharu bagen untaru....when u see the real angle u will be shocked.....

[jbourne]

[quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1347987183' post='1302497361']
60-70%....how do you know bhayya....neeku andharu chepara....memu virgin ani leka nuvu chusava....manamu mundhu anadharu bagen untaru....when u see the real angle u will be shocked.....
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[ICANWIN]

[quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1347987183' post='1302497361']
60-70%....how do you know bhayya....neeku andharu chepara....memu virgin ani leka nuvu chusava....manamu mundhu anadharu bagen untaru....when u see the real angle u will be shocked.....
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I don't think so..okadiki bad experience ayite 10 mandiki cheptaru vallu 100 mandiki cheptaru but good relationship lo undi ammayi virgin ayite na gf virgin ani evadu cheppadu and alanti gals gurinchi discussion kuda jaragadu so all the time we talk about girls who ditched our friends ...nijanga anta ghoram ga undi unte world will not be this way..bottom line is it's matter of values..for girls from conservative families virginity is still a big thing and a girls attitude completely depends on their family environment and brought up unlike men as they are not much exposed to world and are not given that much freedom..exception % will always be there but evaro 10 mandi ni chusi antha anthe ante ala?

[rapchik]

[quote name='ICANWIN' timestamp='1347993195' post='1302498037']


I don't think so..okadiki bad experience ayite 10 mandiki cheptaru vallu 100 mandiki cheptaru but good relationship lo undi ammayi virgin ayite na gf virgin ani evadu cheppadu and alanti gals gurinchi discussion kuda jaragadu so all the time we talk about girls who ditched our friends ...nijanga anta ghoram ga undi unte world will not be this way..bottom line is it's matter of values..for girls from conservative families virginity is still a big thing and a girls attitude completely depends on their family environment and brought up unlike men as[size=6] they are not much exposed to world and are not given that much freedom.[/size].exception % will always be there but evaro 10 mandi ni chusi antha anthe ante ala?
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Bhayya nenu adhe chepthuna nuvu chusindhi kuda pedha lokham em kadhu kadha ..how can you judge ani...u r thinking is epudu manamu cheda girls gurincchi chepukuntam....endhuku manchi valu gurinchi nuvu endhuku chepavu... chudu bhayya unaru manchi valu kani 60-70 ante ..epudu 2012 lo kastam....andharu bagga develop ayaru....becoz ur with u r gf u think everyone is good....girls kadhu nuvu expose avali anukunta..dont take it heart...but chepthundhi adhe....and coming to girls are not exposed...ee kallam lo unav bhayya..nuvu chusedhi chala hakuva mandhi...may be neeku thagilana valu alla unaru...and u thought everyone is same...if 9 out of 10 say samething ..there might not be 100% truth kani atleast 60-70 untadhi kadha...

Amayilu manmu anukuta slow em leru...any everyone knows everything ....it is just matter of time bhayya....

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