Chelli Pelliki Kuda India Vellani Vallu Unatara

[ghazni]

chelli pelliko akka pelliko velaka povadam ok... kani mari father chanipotey velakapovadam konchem sad....

manam ani mundey predict chesukuntam INDIA velte malli ralemu ani... US lo untey intlo vala emotions artam chesukolemu kani oka sari INDIA ki veltey telustundi vala emotions madyalo ee US chala chinadi aypotundi.....

[pikki]

[quote name='Pillabacha' timestamp='1347988602' post='1302497492']
Daniki purthigaa ammayelni kooda analem gaa bhayaaa... [color=#ff0000]abbayelaa kanna ammayelee yekkuvaa family kosam alochistaruu[/color], kani adentoo anni telisi kooda , family lo oppukoru ani telisinaa love chestaru ammayelu , chiavriki ne kanna nannu chinnappudu nundi penchinaa vallu mukyam antaru , ok adhi nijamee kani oppukovali , evvvani mundu yendhuku gurthuravvuu vallakee...,

nenu face chesinaa shame to shame issue , mundu ok ani , chiavriki ma entlo problem avvuthad andi , mari a mukka appuude chepthee entha dhooram vachedi kadu ga annaaa.... yemo appudu ala anipichindi annadiiii.... so weather ne ammayelennee predict cheyalem a vishyam lo
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[color=#FF0000] [/color][color=#FF0000]abbayelaa kanna ammayelee yekkuvaa family kosam alochistaruu [/color]DIS-

[color=#ff0000]nenu face chesinaa shame to shame issue , mundu ok ani , chiavriki ma entlo problem avvuthad andi , mari a mukka appuude chepthee entha dhooram vachedi kadu ga annaaa.... yemo appudu ala anipichindi annadiiii.... so weather ne ammayelennee predict cheyalem a vishyam lo [/color]

[color=#ff0000][/color][color=#000000] for you[/color]

[pikki]

[quote name='ghazni' timestamp='1347990173' post='1302497630']
chelli pelliko akka pelliko velaka povadam ok... kani mari father chanipotey velakapovadam konchem sad....

manam ani mundey predict chesukuntam INDIA velte malli ralemu ani... US lo untey intlo vala emotions artam chesukolemu kani oka sari INDIA ki veltey telustundi vala emotions madyalo ee US chala chinadi aypotundi.....
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100 %

[charygaru]

[quote name='horizontallycut' timestamp='1347988956' post='1302497526']
aa situation lo valla mother situation asalu entha daarunam ga untudo......aa time lo koduku pakkana lekapote ela charygaru.......job india lo kuda cheyachu kada.......family avasaramainappudu daggara lekunda enni dabbulu sampadinchi em laabham.......US lo 2-3 yrs lo sampadinchindi akkada 6-7yrs lo sampadistam anthe kada
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nuvvu aa situation lo levu kabatti telvadu vayya i personally know people who cannot go back no matter what. nanna poyadu ani amma ki koduku pakkana unte appatiki appudu bagane untademo kaani its not that easy as it seems . ikkada 2-3 yrs la sampadinchindi akkada 6 7 yrs la sampadithav kaani what about the rest of it? chelli pelli inti meeda unna appu alanti factyors act avuthai naa lantodu pothe akkada job raanike ne easy ga 3 yrs padthadi its easier said than done vayya never think or judge a person untill u have been that road ani urikene anaru.

[gundugadu]

[quote name='kevkekaa' timestamp='1347983693' post='1302497133']
luckily did not face that problem.. MS lo bro marriage and opt lo cousins marriage cover chesa..
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shame to shame
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[charygaru]

[quote name='ghazni' timestamp='1347990173' post='1302497630']
chelli pelliko akka pelliko velaka povadam ok... kani mari father chanipotey velakapovadam konchem sad....

manam ani mundey predict chesukuntam INDIA velte malli ralemu ani... [size=5][b]US lo untey intlo vala emotions artam chesukolemu kani oka sari INDIA ki veltey telustundi vala emotions madyalo ee US chala chinadi aypotundi.....[/b][/size]
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on a long enough time line that decision of coming back to US will bite you so bad in the asss you will regret the decision, again i am not talking about all the people, but who did stay back even after their father died.

just imagine father expire aythe kuda ikkada nunchi poledu ante what bigger worry he might have been in ani dont always be judgemental towards others , just think twice valla ayya pothe ne vaadu pole ani manaki intha unte vaadiki ela undi untadi?

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ee thadu sadutunte [img]http://gifsoup.com/view3/1453619/natalie-nunn-you-good-o.gif[/img]

[cherlapalli_jailer]

too sensitive topic to discuss on public forum

It is a emotional subject and every one is good in that sub.

Better leave it individuals and others have no right to comment on the decision taken by an individual .

After all sentiment , life, future , affection , responsibility every thing matters

it is how one plans his/her own..

[ghazni]

[quote name='charygaru' timestamp='1347990772' post='1302497693']
on a long enough time line that decision of coming back to US will bite you so bad in the asss you will regret the decision, again i am not talking about all the people, but who did stay back even after their father died.

just imagine father expire aythe kuda ikkada nunchi poledu ante what bigger worry he might have been in ani dont always be judgemental towards others , just think twice valla ayya pothe ne vaadu pole ani manaki intha unte vaadiki ela undi untadi?
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nenem tapupatatledu mama.... nenu sad feel avtuna ana vala gurunchi.... naku telusu i cannot predict others ani andukey athani emi analedu......

[Sastrygaru]

Yes neenu unnanu.. maa sontha akka pelli ki vellaleekapooyanu..

[halwaraaj]

[quote name='charygaru' timestamp='1347990772' post='1302497693']
on a long enough time line that decision of coming back to US will bite you so bad in the asss you will regret the decision, again i am not talking about all the people, but who did stay back even after their father died.

just imagine father expire aythe kuda ikkada nunchi poledu ante what bigger worry he might have been in ani dont always be judgemental towards others , just think twice valla ayya pothe ne vaadu pole ani manaki intha unte vaadiki ela undi untadi?
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correct ee......life gurinchi avagahana leni vallu.....life lo challenges ishtapadani vallu cheppe reasons avi......most of them ki bodi 24-26 yrs untayi.....ikkada VISA issues unna sarey INDIA velte vadiki ikkada pothunna opportunity ni next 20-25 years lo easy ga compensate cheyochu vadu........career wise, financial wise, or any other wise......he can definitely make up for it.

chala mandiki nenu 30 yrs oche sariki intha save cheyali, ila illu konali US lo anukune vallu untaru.......vallu 30 yrs ki konalekapovachu.....40 yrs ki konukkuntaru(30 yrs ki sampadisthene life kaadu, ofcourse it is better life 30 yrs ke chestey, kani not at the cost of not attending fathers funeral)...oppurtunity vadilesi dad funeral attend aithe......vallaki badha undadhu ani nenu anatledu.....kani nenu emi cheyalekapothunna.....anedi oka saaku vallaki....life lo challenges ni face chese dammu unte he can leave US go to INDIA come back to US and make his dreams come true...just a bit later may be...anthe......

[charygaru]

[quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1347991164' post='1302497729']
Yes neenu unnanu.. maa sontha akka pelli ki vellaleekapooyanu..
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i dont see what is the big deal in attending marriage given a chance i would may be opt out of my own brothers marriage . etlago mana vadina/bava pelli ayyaka kalustharu kada manalni manam poyi peekedi em untadi anta /? most of the times pelli lo unna manam chesedi em untadi guests ni receive chesukotam tappa?? entha mandi meeru attend ayyina marriages lo taali kattinappudu pakkane unnaru ?? edo andaru chuttalu kalustharu embiance baguntadi saradaga ane oka sarada reason tappisthe bongu lo pelli ki attend aythe entha kakapothe entha aath care naaku aithe

[ravana]

[quote name='charygaru' timestamp='1347990533' post='1302497672']
nuvvu aa situation lo levu kabatti telvadu vayya i personally know people who cannot go back no matter what. nanna poyadu ani amma ki koduku pakkana unte appatiki appudu bagane untademo kaani its not that easy as it seems . ikkada 2-3 yrs la sampadinchindi akkada 6 7 yrs la sampadithav kaani what about the rest of it? chelli pelli inti meeda unna appu alanti factyors act avuthai naa lantodu pothe akkada job raanike ne easy ga 3 yrs padthadi its easier said than done vayya[color=#ff0000] never think or judge a person untill u have been that road ani urikene anaru[/color].
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[turbonator]

[quote name='Pillabacha' timestamp='1347988602' post='1302497492']
Daniki purthigaa ammayelni kooda analem gaa bhayaaa... abbayelaa kanna ammayelee yekkuvaa family kosam alochistaruu, kani adentoo anni telisi kooda , family lo oppukoru ani telisinaa love chestaru ammayelu , chiavriki ne kanna nannu chinnappudu nundi penchinaa vallu mukyam antaru , ok adhi nijamee kani oppukovali , evvvani mundu yendhuku gurthuravvuu vallakee...,

nenu face chesinaa shame to shame issue , mundu ok ani , chiavriki ma entlo problem avvuthad andi , mari a mukka appuude chepthee entha dhooram vachedi kadu ga annaaa.... yemo appudu ala anipichindi annadiiii.... so weather ne ammayelennee predict cheyalem a vishyam lo
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deniki LIB lo nagaraj dialogue esukovali....'hospital lo adi situation chosi romance gatta cheyyavu ga..anduke kummale indaka' shame to shame adagali preminchemundu anni alochinchava ani

[turbonator]

[quote name='horizontallycut' timestamp='1347988708' post='1302497501']
vallaki family imp aite manaki maatram kaada enti [img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_18/gallery_731_18_93884.gif[/img]
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