*Prince Charming Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='evadigolavadide' timestamp='1349889314' post='1302605493'] Replied [/quote] got it !!
Jatka Bandi Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 cheap ga eppudu chudaru.... memu aa level nunchi vachina vallame... US lo ela behave cheyyalo nerpistam kuda..... nuvvu anna cheap anatava.. adi 2 reasons valla... 1) meru meme thope ani vachi feeling iste.... dominate cheyyadaniki try cheste... friendly ga vundi chudu ela vuntaro chudu... 2) memu koncham lifestyle ki alavatu padipoyam kabatti ma life maku vundochu... danni meru arrogance anukovachu....
banthiii Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349889394' post='1302605501'] "manishi maata vinu....vinnaka dengeii bey erri fooka anu" -Chittimallu from afdb [/quote] u r d man, malluman
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='shakkku' timestamp='1349887438' post='1302605305'] hate emi ledu kaani, nina jarigina oka exp cheptha L1 vaaditho. train station lo naa dostha gaadu okadu kalisindu chaala rojula taravata, aadi tho vaani roomate kuda unadu. vaadi hari style variety ga undi, oka degara size 2 lo undi, inko degara vipareetanga peddaga undi, koni chotla asalu jutte ledu, , india lo roads lo gunthalu ela untayo ala undi vaadi hair style, adigithe $8 ki kakurthu padi, vaadi juttu vaade kathirinchukuntadanta, vaani kathalu inka chepabothunte ika naa train oche time ayindi nenu potha ani chepi ochesina. [/quote] [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
jbourne Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1349889420' post='1302605504'] [b] Desi Blending With The Culture.[/b] Typically the Indian or Desi couples/families I have met in US are people who have come here on H1 visa (i.e. work) or F1 visa (i.e. to first study and then work on H1 visa). Everyone has their own experiences and the journey for each individual or couple varies. There are individuals who come on F1 visa (to study) - Get through their education - start working - get married - have children - and live happily ever after. The other group is the individuals who come on H1 visa - start working - get married - have children - and live happily every after. In my own experience and based on the acquaintances I have made over the past couple of years (of my stay) in US - I have observed that of the 2 groups mentioned above, the former one (first student and then work) gels(or blends) relatively well in this country than the latter one. I am sure there are exceptions , and possibly plenty, but I haven't met any! The latter group stays in its desi shell, sometimes unaware of the fact that we are in a different country with a different culture - sticking to their old ways and not adapting to the mannerisms and ways of life over here. I have seen and heard stories about americans getting annoyed with some of such habits/manners. Some examples include: People burping in public, Not using deodorant and hence smelling bad at workplaces, etc. I am a believer in 'when in rome do as the romans' with a slight modification. Do as the romans - only those things which fit in your value system and/or doing which is not much of an effort for you (and not a big deal). Thus you do a balancing act - in turn making you a better team player in this country. Also, it makes the going easy for an individual (from either category) - especially if you plan to live here forever. My point is if you continue with your old ways, you create a visible separation (in behaviour and mannerisms) when interacting with the people over here. It's like reminding them every time, that we are different. I also believe that 'Change is the only thing permanent in life'. If you make peace with this fact and learn to adapt, trust me the going will be much easier. And this is applicable to all the changes in life - moving from one city to another, one country to another, from one phase of life to another (e.g. bachelor to married to having kids). The smart ones are smart because they are always prepared for change! I am not trying to criticise any group over here. Just an attempt to put forth my observations. Anyway, in the end, life goes on and in my opinion we indians are the most tolerant of all groups in the world .Hence with all our unique cultural habits (and mannerisms) we still are probably the best ones to gel in any continent of the world. [/quote] nissan bhayya thread starter topic start chese munde nuvvu typing estart sesava but nice post though
jbourne Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='bantrothu bullabbai' timestamp='1349889680' post='1302605540'] cheap ga eppudu chudaru.... memu aa level nunchi vachina vallame... US lo ela behave cheyyalo nerpistam kuda..... nuvvu anna cheap anatava.. adi 2 reasons valla... 1) meru meme thope ani vachi feeling iste.... dominate cheyyadaniki try cheste... friendly ga vundi chudu ela vuntaro chudu... 2) memu koncham lifestyle ki alavatu padipoyam kabatti ma life maku vundochu... danni meru arrogance anukovachu.... [/quote]
dotnetrockz Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='jbourne' timestamp='1349889821' post='1302605558'] nissan bhayya thread starter topic start chese munde nuvvu typing estart sesava but nice post though [/quote] ctrl+c ctrl+v....
sujithrede Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='pikki' timestamp='1349886138' post='1302605198'] edo nadustundi mama..na problem ma mgnr gani tho..vado psych0 dash gadu.. j0b change avochu kada mari..enduku aa jaffa kinda pani cheyatam... [/quote] adi over bhayya.. paata client deggara
chittimallu4 Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='banthiii' timestamp='1349889729' post='1302605546'] u r d man, malluman [/quote]direct ga nee maata vinanu ante em mazaa bhayya....vinta mama cheppu anale....vadu kush ayyi motham cheppaka dengeii bey dengeii anale....asalu aa satisfaction eee veru ala chesthe
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1349889420' post='1302605504'] [b] Desi Blending With The Culture.[/b] Typically the Indian or Desi couples/families I have met in US are people who have come here on H1 visa (i.e. work) or F1 visa (i.e. to first study and then work on H1 visa). Everyone has their own experiences and the journey for each individual or couple varies. There are individuals who come on F1 visa (to study) - Get through their education - start working - get married - have children - and live happily ever after. The other group is the individuals who come on H1 visa - start working - get married - have children - and live happily every after. In my own experience and based on the acquaintances I have made over the past couple of years (of my stay) in US - I have observed that of the 2 groups mentioned above, the former one (first student and then work) gels(or blends) relatively well in this country than the latter one. I am sure there are exceptions , and possibly plenty, but I haven't met any! The latter group stays in its desi shell, sometimes unaware of the fact that we are in a different country with a different culture - sticking to their old ways and not adapting to the mannerisms and ways of life over here. I have seen and heard stories about americans getting annoyed with some of such habits/manners. Some examples include: People burping in public, Not using deodorant and hence smelling bad at workplaces, etc. I am a believer in 'when in rome do as the romans' with a slight modification. Do as the romans - only those things which fit in your value system and/or doing which is not much of an effort for you (and not a big deal). Thus you do a balancing act - in turn making you a better team player in this country. Also, it makes the going easy for an individual (from either category) - especially if you plan to live here forever. My point is if you continue with your old ways, you create a visible separation (in behaviour and mannerisms) when interacting with the people over here. It's like reminding them every time, that we are different. I also believe that 'Change is the only thing permanent in life'. If you make peace with this fact and learn to adapt, trust me the going will be much easier. And this is applicable to all the changes in life - moving from one city to another, one country to another, from one phase of life to another (e.g. bachelor to married to having kids). The smart ones are smart because they are always prepared for change! I am not trying to criticise any group over here. Just an attempt to put forth my observations. Anyway, in the end, life goes on and in my opinion we indians are the most tolerant of all groups in the world .Hence with all our unique cultural habits (and mannerisms) we still are probably the best ones to gel in any continent of the world. [/quote] Agreed....but "we Indians are most tolerant of all groups in the world" is a fallacy
chittimallu4 Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1349890117' post='1302605587'] Agreed....but "we Indians are most tolerant of all groups in the world" is a fallacy [/quote]not agreed....nuvvu dkc ni elukunnav kada.....adhi tolerance kaadha? Nuvvu indian vi kaadha?
*Prince Charming Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349890063' post='1302605580'] direct ga nee maata vinanu ante em mazaa bhayya....vinta mama cheppu anale....vadu kush ayyi motham cheppaka dengeii bey dengeii anale....asalu aa satisfaction eee veru ala chesthe [/quote] enni manchi thoughts unnai bhayya neeku. [img]http://i41.tinypic.com/2ccp66q.gif[/img]
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349890200' post='1302605592'] not agreed....nuvvu dkc ni elukunnav kada.....adhi tolerance kaadha? Nuvvu indian vi kaadha? [/quote] stop ur nonsense [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
jbourne Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349890200' post='1302605592'] not agreed....nuvvu dkc ni elukunnav kada.....adhi tolerance kaadha? Nuvvu indian vi kaadha? [/quote]
*Prince Charming Posted October 10, 2012 Report Posted October 10, 2012 [quote name='chittimallu4' timestamp='1349890200' post='1302605592'] not agreed....nuvvu [b][color=#ff0000]dkc [/color][/b]ni elukunnav kada.....adhi tolerance kaadha? Nuvvu indian vi kaadha? [/quote] ante ????
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