Oka Bharya Aavedana ..

[nallaberry]

[b][font="Arial"][size="2"][color="#003399"]Is he a bad lover?[/color][/size][/font][/b]
[left][font="Verdana"][size="2"]I am newly married and have only been having sex for about seven months. I love my husband, but hate our sex life- it just doesn't feel like anything when he's inside me. We were both virgins when we got married and I feel like the problem is how he moves when he's inside me- he moves slowly and stops often in fear that he's going to come too quickly. The only way I'm able to have orgasm is with a vibrator and stimulation of the clitoris. My friends say that he should have improved in 7 months and that he must be a bad lover- is that true or he just inexperienced? And how do I get myself more in the mood to "practice" when it doesn't feel good?[/size][/font][/left]
[right][font="Verdana"][size="2"]- F, 22, US[/size][/font][/right] [b][font="Arial"][size="2"][color="#008000"]Answer[/color][/size][/font][/b]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]The best thing would be talk openly with your hubby, in a non-threatening and non-demanding situation. Tell him what makes you come during intercourse. If you are not much bothered at this point of time by his coming too soon, assure him so. Gradually you both can tune yourselves to achieve orgasms at a speed that is comfortable to both of you.[/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"] [/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]Meanwhile you might try woman-on-top position where you will have better control on thrusting (speed, depth, angle etc) and he will have better control on ejaculation. While you are on top, he can directly stimulate your clitoris, or just place his finger in such a way that your clitoris hits the finger as back and forth or up and down. These measures will enhance your sexual excitement and takes you close to orgasm faster.[/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"] [/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]Your husband might also try a vibrating condom. During intercourse you or he can press the vibrator on when you need greater stimulation.[/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"] [/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]Have you tried ribbed condoms?[/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"] [/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]I hope this info will help you overcome the problem. You may back if you need further help.[/size][/font]

[nallaberry]

I am divorced. My boyfriend is 71/2 inches long, and all I can take is 6 inches. Should we seek other mates?? What can I do, I am so upset. I went to the sex store and got a fake penis, and only 6 inches would go in. He is 7 and 1/2 inches. Should I tell him to hunt for another mate, and what is wrong with me? At 6 inches I could feel it reach the end. (My X husband was only 6 inches).
[right]Woman, 55, USA[/right] [b]Answer[/b]
Nothing is wrong with you. Nor with him. He is a little above average and so there is a small disparity between your genital dimensions.
You don’t have to lose your relationship on account of this. Try these changes in coital positions and hopefully your problem would be resolved.
1) In man-on-top position, lie down with your face up, place pillow of moderate thickness under your buttocks. This will help your pelvic organs slip backwards and allow the vaginal barrel to stretch an extra inch or so, so that you may have less or no discomfort.
2) A variant to the above is to hold your thighs closer, soon after he enters you. Since your knees are close together, your boyfriend has to rest his knees outside of your thighs. This precludes deep penetration and thrusting but allows tight grip on the penis, and increased pleasure.
3) A third position is sometimes called knee-elbow position, wherein you will rest on your knees and elbows with your face on the bed and buttocks raised up. Adjust the distance between your knees so that he can kneel behind you, and enter the ** from behind This is the best position when the penis is really long, or the woman’s ** is shallow, because the vaginal canal is lengthened more in this position than any in any other. The man’s hands are free for caresses and there is no weight thrown upon you.
4) Last but not the least, whatever the position, encourage your partner give you shallow thrusting. The most sensitive part of the **, as you may have realized over the years, is usually at its opening, up to an inch or two deep. With shallow thrusting, the vaginal opening slowly gets narrower and gives a snug pull around the head of the penis by wrapping around it [for a man whose glans penis is thicker than the middle shaft]. It’s a bonus for your man. As for you, the ridge around the head of his penis strokes the most sensitive part of your ** i.e, the walls around your vaginal entrance.
I hope this information helps and I would appreciate your feedback.

[nallaberry]

Could I get pregnant[b]?[/b]
Me & my b/f was having sex & the first time we did it he cum in me & I didn't. Then we had sex again & he cum but I didn't. he pulled out & wipe two drops of his cum on my towel. Can I still get pregnant.
[right]F, 25, cohabiting, USA[/right] [b]Answer[/b]
It depends on the day sex took place.
You did not mention when this has happened in relation to your menstrual cycle. If it happened around the middle of the cycle - say 12[sup]th[/sup] to 15[sup]th[/sup] day from Day 1- the chances are VERY HIGH, assuming you both are fertile!
If it happened within a week before the periods or within a week after the periods, the chances are low.

[nallaberry]

[color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]My husband has a 12 year history of sex clubs, orgies, threesomes, prostitutes, swinger's parties... with previous wives. He told me these things and what a dark place he was in and would never go there again. After we were married he asked me to do things that morally I feel I could not do in good conscience-such as asking me to wear mini skirts with no underwear and flash strangers. At the same time he asked me if we could add another person to our relationship. He also used to watch porn movies much of the time and would put them in every time we had sex.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]We do go to counseling and are working on some of these issues. He knows now that I'm not going to do these things, so he doesn't ask. The porno is also slowed way down.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]He has never had an intimate relationship and I am struggling to teach him how to be intimate in and out of the bedroom. He highly loves my slow intimate building of his arousal; but, never reciprocates.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]I'm menopausal and have been able to reach orgasm through masturbating. When we are in bed, he sometimes skips by me after long or short sessions of arousing him. When he does decide to give some attention to my clitoris, its direct without any sensual warm up. This gets me to the edge, but that's all. I can't orgasm and become very frustrated.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]I have discussed the problem with him and had him read excerpts from two books, Tantra Techniques, and, Sex for Him and Her. When nothing happened after that, I had him take a look at some articles from the internet about what women need in foreplay.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]I'm at the end of my rope. I don't know what to do. I'm so frustrated when we have sex; but, I enjoy pleasing him. I just wish he was into pleasing me as well.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]Do you have any other suggestions for me to help him understand how important the caressing and teasing is for a woman. Keep in mind, I have been direct in telling him about these pleasures I NEED![/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color][color=#000000]

[indent=1][b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]Any advice is tremendously appreciated.[/size][/font][/b][/indent][/color]

[nallaberry]

[color=#000000][left][font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#FF00FF"][b]Can I get pregnant from anal sex?[/b][/color][/size][/font][/color][/left]
[color=#000000][left]
[size="2"][b][font="Verdana"][color="#FF0000"]Q:[/color][/font][/b][font="Verdana"][color="black"] [b]I am 18 and had anal sex with my boyfriend. I am wondering if I could get pregnant from that. If I can, I would like to know what the chances are. We are generally careful to make sure when it comes back out that it stays away from my vaginal opening. The only time I could think that it could get near the opening is when I am cleaning myself up afterwards. I missed my period this last month, that is why I am so scared. I have never had actual intercourse, that’s why I would be destroyed if I got pregnant. I am really scared and don’t know what to do. I am just looking for answers. A response as soon as possible would be greatly appreciated. I can’t sleep.[/b][/color][/font][/size]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="black"]Please get tested for pregnancy. You can do the test yourself with certain kits available in drug stores. Anal sex too can cause pregnancy because the semen can seep from the anus and spread up to and into the vaginal canal. Even if you wipe it out you still run the risk because the spermatozoa, invisible to naked eye, are capable of swimming their way up to the ** through the moisture contact between vulva and anus.[/color][/size][/font][/color][/left]

[nallaberry]

[color=#000000]
[b][font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#FF0000"]Q:[/color][/size][/font][/b][font="Verdana"][size="2"] [b]i may sound stupid but i was wondering if i could get pregnant by a guy if we had sex around the time of my period. He didn't even go in all the way or get off like squirt nething and we used a condom. it has been like racking my head and i just wanna know if it is possible. write back ASAP. thanx[/b][/size][/font][/color][color=#000000]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]You need not worry about chances of pregnancy because your b/f has not ejaculated, he was wearing a condom and it happenned to be your periods when you had sex. With these three factors in operation, the odds of pregnancy are practically nil.[/size][/font][/color][color=#000000]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]But, please remember that, the penis not going all the way into the ** is no protection against pregnancy.[/size][/font][/color][color=#000000]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]Similarly, sex during menses does not lead to pregnancy, but there are circumstances when people mistook the inter-menstrual bleeding for menses. The former is associated with ovulation; sex during that bleeding/spotting episode can lead to pregnancy.[/size][/font][/color]

[IamNotTrouble]

vibrated condomes aaaa [img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img]

[manmadudhu]

wt r u doin berry........indus ladies posts

[nallaberry]

[color=#000000][left]
[b][font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#FF0000"]Q:[/color][/size][/font][/b][font="Verdana"][size="2"] [b]i am a 16 year old girl and want 2 know whether there is any danger to me, my body and my growth if i have sex with my boyfren. he is quite anxious to have it. even i am ready 4 it but i am afraid of its consequenses . he says that there is very little danger of pregnancy if we use a condom .frankly telling u even i would like 2 have sex if there is very little risk. my bf says that iam more curious about it when we touch each other & thats absolutely true .i am really curious about sex.plz help me &tell me if i can have it now & also provide me names of few sites which give good 1st hand information about sex 2 1st timers thank you very much urs faithfully . ts.[/b][/size][/font][/color][/left]
[color=#000000][left]
[b][font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="black"][color="#FF0000"]Ans:[/color] [/color][/size][/font][/b][font="Verdana"][size="2"]Sex always thrilled millions of youngsters like you, but has left millions of young unmarried girls with unwanted pregnancy, premarital motherhood, sexual diseases including HIV, psychological and physical trauma and social problems associated with all these. All these unfortunate young people burnt their fingers out of an overwhelming curiosity, irresistible temptation, and lack of proper awareness about safer sex. So please think twice before indulging in any sort of sexual activity at this age. In any case learn more about safer sex practices.[/size][/font]
[font="Verdana"][size="2"]Condoms do offer protection against pregnancy but they are not fool proof. There is a 10-30% risk of pregnancy if the condom is not properly used - for ex., if it is worn in such a way making it easily prone to rupture; if the penis is not withdrawn along with the condom held firmly to the penis, soon after ejaculation i.e., while the penis is still hard; if the same condom is used repeatedly, or after the date of expiry, and so on. ([color="#CC00CC"][url="http://www.sexualcounselling.com/SC/Condomuse.html"]use condom[/url][/color][url="http://www.sexualcounselling.com/SC/Condomuse.html"] properly[/url] to get best protection).[/size][/font][/color][/left]

[nallaberry]

[color=#000000][left]
[b][font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#FF0000"]Q:[/color][/size][/font][/b][font="Verdana"][size="2"] [b]i am a 16 year old girl and want 2 know whether there is any danger to me, my body and my growth if i have sex with my boyfren. he is quite anxious to have it. even i am ready 4 it but i am afraid of its consequenses . he says that there is very little danger of pregnancy if we use a condom .frankly telling u even i would like 2 have sex if there is very little risk. my bf says that iam more curious about it when we touch each other & thats absolutely true .i am really curious about sex.plz help me &tell me if i can have it now & also provide me names of few sites which give good 1st hand information about sex 2 1st timers thank you very much urs faithfully . ts.[/b][/size][/font][/color][/left]

[ManOnFire]

[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/1_1.gif?1337204742[/img]

[khiraak]

[img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img][img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_133842.gif[/img]

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[Kakateyudu]

[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/1_1.gif?1337204742[/img] motham sadavatam kastam vay

[Vuthal_Bithal]

keka thread asalaa, kaani, non desi problems vunnayi,

most Q are fake, like swathi samaram QnA's. they create issues.

real human knows how to solve sXual issues, very easily. you have lot of aunty desi MMS on internet too - to prove