Estory 1 : Avedana

[k2s]

- Intelligent, well educated, carrier oriented, working, earning good.
- She has independence from finance, spending and decision making on all aspects limited and related to just our family (my wife ,myself and our kid)
- She has her own bank account (salary a/c) controlled by herself with my full trust on her and also she holds a combined bank account (salary a/c) with me.
- She is the only kid (princess) to her parents.
- Short tempered (stingy words)
- Very emotional.
- She loves me a lot I think.
- She doesn’t trust me .I don’t know why. But she told me in an argument that she doesn’t trust any men. So I’m skeptical about her love towards me.
- She is put on baby weight but I think she was not fit before the marriage aswell (she is not obese tho). I understood that her eating style was/is not healthy.
- She doesn’t like to take any advice ( in her dictionary its scolding’s and its turning into argumenst). So I mended my ways and started to give suggestions ending by its your wish take it or not.
- I’m afraid to even talk to her sometimes because no one can know when she explodes.
- She is been in here (UK) for last 2 years and working for more than a year now. She is good at what she does in work and she got recognized for her work, got promoted with good salary deal. All happened less than a year and I’m proud.
- But no mates or friends yet. She has some Indian friends to whom she just talks general stuffs. But I think she have no friends to share ladies things or go out shopping or playing or just to chill out.
- She is responsible to some extent but she is not recognizing shared responsible which should come within her.
- She is very forgetful in home but she has best working style in her office.
- I more than share all the house hold chores, cooking as well as shopping, taking care of my kid.
- Totally from my understanding she has fear for losing a job than losing a relationship.
- Love making – totally stopped from my end because of certain arguments (blind allegations) which she throws on me.
On one Sunday night (9:30pm) I went to tesco shopping for our home. I had a holiday the next day and my wife got office. So she told me she will be bed by then. One of my friends called me up for a chat and told he also got the next day off and joined me for shopping. So we spent an hour in the market and we end up in a nearby pub for a pint (it’s no heinous crime I believe) chatting up the old days. We left pub at 11.45pm and I was driving home and in the parking I got a call from my wife which I ignored and walked home for the last time at 11.50p.m when hell broke loose. Instantly she came to know I was spending time with my friend and asked in a tone that something basically wrong with we us two guys (basically she meant we are some gay lovers meeting at this time of a day).
At first I was denying like a child that I never went out with anybody and was about to laugh it off. But she was serious and at that time I can completely understood that her brain got corrupt and she was convinced that we done some gay **** so I was late.
For a lady aged 28 years and spent 2 years with me and uttering those allegations against me was literally shocking and was uncalled for. But I kept my cool since my son was sleeping and said nicely to her to sleep off. Here is the highlight, till 5 .00 a.m she was awake and keep on nagging and didn’t allow me to sleep and my son was awake and the damage was done. Again I was holding my temper explained her everything and asked her to cool it off.
I know what exactly an Indian man in Indian way might have done at that time. I been pushed to the edge but I was happy with myself at the end not to argue in presence of my kid that too when he was sleeping. But the rage is still burning from inside and I can’t even able to see her face/eyes for a min and speak to her.
If she doubted me of any infidelity basing a woman which can be digested off but she had questioned about my manly-hood which is the only identity of a man to being his sex. Even the relationship smooths off I won’t able to forgive her till my death for this. But I hope time on my side she will grow up. I have to say this… she asked and realized how serious were her thought about me was.
I again started smoking and drinking. (Stopped for 8 months after my first post in Indus ladies).
I’m not big fan of permanent separation. I’m a firm believer of relationship and the cure in itself. My wife is very fine lady and I ‘m proud to be her husband but I don’t know how long I can hold on to her shot tempered attitude (like saying stuffs which is totally uncalled for).
Is my relationship is in very serious condition? Please advise me on what can be done to my problem.
If somebody asks then I would brief about myself as honest as possible. (I’m no saint thou )
Thanks,

[littlemoon]

IL story laga ledhu ?

[k2s]

[quote name='littlemoon' timestamp='1356119531' post='1302996477']
IL story laga ledhu ?
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estory saduvu......saana rojula tarvata back with estory bang

[Spartan]

I’m not big fan of permanent separation. I’m a firm believer of relationship and the cure in itself.


maintain this thinking..and rest all will be fine..

[Guest]

malli estart sesinaava.. (!><

[Desamudhuru]

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I’m not big fan of permanent separation. I’m a firm believer of relationship and the cure in itself.


maintain this thinking..and rest all will be fine..
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Hi mama

[k2s]

[quote name='ChittiNaidu' timestamp='1356119700' post='1302996511']
I’m not big fan of permanent separation. I’m a firm believer of relationship and the cure in itself.


maintain this thinking..and rest all will be fine..
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[littlemoon]

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estory saduvu......saana rojula tarvata back with estory bang
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communication is important adhe missing

[littlemoon]

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[k2s]

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malli estart sesinaava.. (!><
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[k2s]

Where is piscop maaya /?

[Spartan]

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Hi mama
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[Desamudhuru]

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spammer

[tom bhayya]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/CroppedBrahmishock_zps694518cc.gif?1350460826[/img] totally stopped from my end... andhukey aa doubt vachindhi mastaaru mee wife ki [/font][/color]

[k2s]

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[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/CroppedBrahmishock_zps694518cc.gif?1350460826[/img] totally stooped from my end... andhukey aa doubt vachindhi mastaaru mee wife ki [/font][/color]
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