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Hi all. Most of you know that my husband and I have been having problems with our marriage, as I have been thinking to divorce him as he isn't leaving India to move with me in the US (as he keeps making one excuse after another).

Today I was on Facebook, and by some chance I happened to come across a profile on FB that shocked me. I saw that my husband had a 2nd profile on FB that he never told me about, which was created AFTER our marriage.

Before our marriage, a lot of girls would flirt with my husband on his Facebook account, as he is a very handsome guy. I did not mind that, as after he got involved with me, he blocked off his Facebook comments so that no one could post such things. I appreciated it, as I thought he did it out of respect for me. On that FB profile that I knew, he listed himself as 'married' and even posted my pictures with sweet comments.

Today I came across a 2nd profile of his... that was created ONE MONTH AFTER our marriage (one year ago). He did not tell me about this profile, and does not know yet that I know of it. He does not list himself as married. It says "Interested in... Women". He has a few pictures of himself (extremely handsome pictures, with him wearing sunglasses and posing). He mentions on his comments about how he looks like Salman Khan, and lots of girls are flirting with him there, telling him how good he looks, and he is encouraging their flirts, using winking smilies.

Although this does not show evidence of direct cheating, I am absolutely horrified and sickened to my stomach, that my husband created a 2nd profile after our marriage to flirt with girls. I feel like vomiting right now.

I always loved my husband and believed in him. Until today even, I was thinking about how I would divorce someone who I cared for. I believed in his loyalty 100%. Even now I do not know whether he has actually cheated on me or not (as he is home all day with his mother), but now I question his nature... as no decent guy would do this, I feel.

I have shown the profile to my sister, and she is also very shocked that he could be flirting after marriage and putting up a secret FB page. Should I mail this also to his family members on FB? I don't know what to do. I have not even said anything to him about it yet.

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ee istory sodi vayya. monnane aa dblo sadivesa..

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[/quote]edo fendship koddi litega

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nachithey cheppandi next parts vestha......
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next part pls...

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1357158186' post='1303044534']
nachithey cheppandi next parts vestha......
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[quote name='galigannarao' timestamp='1357158434' post='1303044579']
edo fendship koddi litega
[/quote]nuvvu motham estory sadavaledu....
aa fafa vere vallaki masthu replies ichindi latest ga..... avvani kalipi oka estory ga eyyochu ani...parts parts eddam ani flan

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Part 2:


I feel embarrassed to post the update, but I will do so. I had a very long talk about this issue with my husband today. It was very high drama. He admitted to having this other FB profile, but told me that he had no bad intentions with it(, although he wasn't clear on the need to create an alternate profile). He stated that my pics were also on that profile. I told him "No, they are not." He stated that I was seeing the public view of that profile, but in the view visible to friends, my pics were visible. He lost the password to that account as he hadn't been on it in months. So after searching for it for quite some time, he finally came up with the password, and made my pics visible publicly. He was correct that my pics were posted on his page the same week that he posted his own pictures. He did not mention me as his wife, but there was a pic of me in my red wedding dress. In fact 2 of the 5 flirting girls had even posted a nice comment on my pics as well.

It was all high drama... he was crying, I started crying, then he told his mom what had happened, and she also started crying. He wasn't too bothered when I started crying... but when he saw his mom crying, then he got very sad and started crying more. I then said sorry to his mom for having the wrong idea and telling my family about things wrongly.

My H told me that he didn't think he had done anything wrong by posting his pics for people to comment. But he admitted that this whole drama could have been spared if he had mentioned this profile to me earlier.

I told my parents the update about my pics being on his profile. They felt better, but they still badly mistrust him. They said that there was no reason for him to make additional profiles like that without telling me. They also are concerned that has not done anything about the visa, as they say that no husband would leave his wife all alone like that and not care to be with her. At this point, I'm tired of my parents making comments about my marriage, so I will not say much else to them, as I don't want them to insult him... as that hurts me to hear.

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1357158502' post='1303044588']
nuvvu motham estory sadavaledu....
aa fafa vere vallaki masthu replies ichindi latest ga..... avvani kalipi oka estory ga eyyochu ani...parts parts eddam ani flan
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