Estory 1 : Piscop Maaya Help Fafa

[sherlockholmes_anon]

[quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1359578569' post='1303203363']
fake post..pregrancy appudu ammayalaki aa thought ee undadu...
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[tom brady]

[quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1359578569' post='1303203363']
fake post..pregrancy appudu ammayalaki aa thought ee undadu...
[/quote]not agreed...5 months varaku as usual ga untadi...

[vikuba]

uncle ipudey pellam tho daruvu ey...lekapotey pellam poddhi paruvu poddi..

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1359578354' post='1303203333']
another fafa reply :


I waited to respond here because I honestly have no solution for you. However, I sympathize.

It is a tough situation you are in. Generally in Indian society, women are not allowed to have physical desires let alone express them and ask for their needs to be met even by thier own lawfully wedded husbands. Rarely can you talk about this to your mom or close relatives even. Most elders will dismiss your claim as irrelevant since you have one child and that is the only reason they think people should be physically intimate at all. I have heard elders in my own family make such claims.

Who will you ask for help? What will you say? Some may criticize you for not rising above this in your marraige after becoming a mother. Some may tell you to let your husband be the leader in this. In any case, you are not addicted to the physical intimacy it seems like - you are just a normal healthy young woman.

If we think about the situation if the roles were reversed, I may say the same thing to a husband claiming his wife is not interested in physical intimacy. Physical intimacy or alck thereof is a sign of something else going on. Physical intimacy between partners requires a certain amount of emotional involvement and if one party is not ready for it (even though they have done this before with same partner), then one musn't force the issue.

I know you said your husband does not like talking about it even. Maybe you talk to him about your marriage, your love for each other, your commitment, your goals for the future - try to see if you are in the same page. Get to the same page. Increase communication, get to know him all over again. Having a child changes so many things - maybe his personality has changed. Get to emotional intimacy first.

Emotional intimacy is not living under the same roof or buying groceries together or taking care of the baby together - it is more than that. So....start there and see where it goes. Make an attempt to get your marraige on track/realign your attitudes to it.

I know you are tempted to find satisfaction by other means. I understand and don't judge. As a sister, I tell you to be patient, and not to do something that may harm you, your child and your marriage. Too often we jump into a mistake in haste and repent in leisure. So..slow down.

Gain back control over yourself. Don't let an idea take over your life. You are the boss of you and let your intellect guide you, not the whims of your mind.

All the very best.
[/quote] Very matured reply

[k2s]

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[Nellore Pedda reddy]

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[/quote] née opinion enti

[k2s]

[quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1359743241' post='1303205566']
née opinion enti
[/quote]i no opinion..nenu avvani sadavanu.......

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1359743528' post='1303205594']
i no opinion..nenu avvani sadavanu.......
[/quote] mari eeda esthunnav