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[b]Hi,[/b]
[b]I have a problem but I don’t know whether I need to consider it as a problem.[/b]
[b]I got married in 2008 and me and my husband started living in krpuram Bangalore my DH is having 1sis and 1 bro and his parents were their in native. After 10 mons I have consived everything was happy even I was responsible I use to do everything with my MIL permission even like giving sarees to my mother …because my mother( Actually my mother died when I was 6 month i brought up by my father’s brother they are very sweet the have taken care of my education and marriage everything) use to tell you should be very responsible IN my In laws. iN Sep my BIL completed his MCA and came to Bangalore for job search she started living with us and I was taking very care of him like cooking for him if we are going to office also and even he was very good with my daughter even he wont allow my maid to touch as he was at home. Then I push him in aptitude test and interview to get job in MNC where I was working as HR. one week end I went to my native for some work same time my BIL got a call from company saying that he is selected for the job but he didn’t inform me but I got a call from my colleague he informed me I was waiting for his call he didn’t call me after coming also he didn’t informed I felt very bad I just asked him but he said he was waiting for offer letter. I left the matter there.[/b]
[b]After that he have to pay 39K for training immediately so my husband adjusted 19K he paid and got trained and joined he got first salary but he didn’t think about that money which my husband paid till date and he never ever giving one pise till date for house expenses. Even my husband never asked anything about this my DH will say that he is my Brother that is my responsibility I kept quit. My FIL have brain Edema so we are giving treatment in Manipal when ever they will come we will take of the complete thing either my DH or Me as to take leave. [/b]
[b]Last jan they came to Blr for treatment so I left my daughter with them ( I use to leave my daughter in daycare) and me and my husband when to office the same same day my daughter sat on hot rice( all were their in house BIL,SIL,MIL,FIL) because of that her bum completely burnt and my MIL rubbed with her because of that the skin peeled off, she was not able to sit and sleep, my BIL called me and said the same I don’t know how came from office in my bike 25 min (usually it takes me to reach 50 min) after seeing her I felt like sleeping everyone on top of this my FIL will say nothing to worry it will cure in 2 days and My FIL and SIL(She is not working she is simply sitting in home) left to native on same day. Seriously I don’t know what to do I went up I started crying like anything I called my sis who is staying in Yelhanka and my mother they came rushed. Even though I didn’t tell anything to my mother in law I was quit. My DH came from office even he dint say anything to my ILs. My Sis and Mother ask me to come with her but my MIL told she will be there to support me. The whole day she was playing because of the injection she dint feel pain in the night she started crying I don’t have words to explain how I felt that day even though my Ils didn’t come to my room to see her in that night. I took 1 week leave to take care of her. It was hell for her when she goes to bathroom. Next day MY MIL left by saying she want to magasnanam I was alone at home with my daughter she was not able to sit and stand I need to carry al the time and she was not allowing me to have food also. Its use to take her to hospital for dressing every day I was not able to stand their when they are dressing she use to scream like mama please take me …. I was very scared to apply medicine also . I didn’t tell anything to my parents as I don’t want give more tension they are 70+ yrs. My husband called my cousin who is staying near my house to help me, She use to come every day in morning. My leaves has completed as I have to join back I called my MIL to Send SIL to Bangalore to take care of my daughter but she said that my SIL want to go to temple on Monday as it was Sivarathri and she will come on Thursday and she will stay here and look for JOB. I told her I need to go to office on Monday as I was having some urgent meeting which I cant avoid she said she want to go to temple. Then she ask me to leve her in daycare I said I cant leave her in day care I am going to my sis house. Right that time my sis called me and she came to know that something is wrong I told her she started scolding as she was telling me to come there. My Dh told me go stay their only don’t come until she is fyn let them (BIL, SIL) struggle here then I went to my sis house my sis took very care for my daughter , because of pain my daughter use to get high fever me and my sis use to sit whole night next to her on top of this my FIL called and Said to come to go my home cause my DH and BIl are struggling for food. .I stayed their for one week, in this one week my BIL who is staying with us from 2 yr he never called to find out how is she. I felt very bad. After coming to office I asked him about that he was so busy in ITIL Exam kept quit.[/b]
[b]MY SIL came on Monday as I was not there on Thursday; I use to do my work like cooking and getting my daughter ready (my Dh use to do after my SIL come he was not doing any thing). MY SIL and BIL use to get up by 8.oo AM as that time I will finish my work. i use to cook My SIL lunch also. I use to come from office by 8.30 PM till that time No food for my daughter (Before my Husband use to cook food and feed if he comes early) she will be looking for my daughter. My SIL use to carry every thing to my ILs what ever I speak to my husband. And She will show lot of difference between my DH and BIL like one day she took and went all my BIL cloths (Washing machine was under repair) to native for washing and she said my FIL that me told every one to wash their cloths ( I never ever said this to any one even when I was pregnant I washed my BIL clothes) for this my FIL called and asked me but my DH gave correct answer. Then next day they came to Blr I use to do my work she use to come to kitchen she will act as though every time she is cooking for my BIL one day she told me that she will cook for my BIL I said her as your cooking every day for him she started my cring I told my HUSband to console her. She use to keep tea cup in the windows 2 to 3 days I use to take it off every time before but now I left that. Seriously I fed up with this they will behave as though they only have parent.[/b]
[b]My FIL not worried about My SIL and my BIL marriage if I rise this topic he will say they are kids.[/b]
[b]After one month My FIL called my husband saying that my FIL sister came with proposal for my BIL, this is same girl which they were seeing for my Husband from child hood, actually they said to my husband to wait for one year but my husband got married to me. Now the same girl they are looking for my BIL (first my BIL said no now is ok) every one is agreed but I don’t like because my FIL sis scolded my Dh for not marring same girl before . My MIL came to me crying saying how can she scolded my son and she never called us to their home. Now every thing happy because my FIL say they have money they will support, MY DH supports because their parents will be happy. One day she called MIL and told that she want to talk me as I was in my ILs place.My MIL called and she said that she want me to come to my FIL SIS house, He has given left and right saying she wont come, but my FIL scolded so I went to their house . My FIL SIS was insisting to get them marry ASAP, my FIL say something and all but I said one thing finally that we will get marry them after my SIL. Is their any thing wrong?? For this she said we will talk redarding this later ten we came out. After she called and My BIL saying that how can your SIl will say like that even for this you father and mother didn’t say anything and she said so many things. next day we when to shirdi after coming form Shirdi we came to that my ILS when to their house to compromise. Myhusband called my FIL Sis he blasted her, to compromise with my husband she came to my house that time I have seen lots of change in my ILS behavior like everything everyone went to Gopal mall my BIL spent 800 RS for buiscuits and few thing which he never did before inform of his future MIL.even my mother in law behaving like they are very thick friends.[/b]
[b]Seriously I am feeling like to go away from my house. IS my mother in law don’t know that, after her daughter marriage will she allow to saty any one in her daughters house like this.[/b]
[b]MY BIL will be seening TV till 12.00 PM I need to request for TV remote what is my life going. He is saving all his money in my FIL places.[/b]

[b]There are so many thing which I which I am not sharing with any one even my husband, I am feeling like I am thinking in the wrong way what to do.[/b]

[b]I don’t like all their behavior I can’t tell anything to my parents what to do tell me please I request you guys[/b]

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[quote name='iTeachSAP' timestamp='1360185824' post='1303236840']
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[/quote]:buttkick: poi estory saduvu

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aedni vay deeni lolli...anna tammuduki dabbulu isthae adagalnaaa...[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-U2mtflyKvQw/UPmy8CCcROI/AAAAAAAADWE/3msP7YDjGNo/s320/embagunnavra.gif[/img]inkaaa

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[quote name='KOOL_KITTU' timestamp='1360186016' post='1303236857']
aedni vay deeni lolli...anna tammuduki dabbulu isthae adagalnaaa...[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-U2mtflyKvQw/UPmy8CCcROI/AAAAAAAADWE/3msP7YDjGNo/s320/embagunnavra.gif[/img]inkaaa
[/quote]inka enni rojulu nee moham addam lo sooskuntav ?

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360186094' post='1303236860']
inka enni rojulu nee moham addam lo sooskuntav ?
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na signature[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-U2mtflyKvQw/UPmy8CCcROI/AAAAAAAADWE/3msP7YDjGNo/s320/embagunnavra.gif[/img]idi confirm

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intha long story na.. artha kuda kavatle..

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[quote name='ganguly183' timestamp='1360186259' post='1303236870']
intha long story na.. artha kuda kavatle..
[/quote]just read man

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[quote name='ganguly183' timestamp='1360186259' post='1303236870']
intha long story na.. artha kuda kavatle..
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same old serial lolli...no difference[img]https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-U2mtflyKvQw/UPmy8CCcROI/AAAAAAAADWE/3msP7YDjGNo/s320/embagunnavra.gif[/img]

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360186379' post='1303236878']
just read man
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artha kavatledu mayya.. dani english... ayina manaki ilanti stories kadu masala stories veyyi

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ask her to book her BIL man..thats it...she will get satisfied...

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360186379' post='1303236878']
just read man
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we want some masala stories man

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