Estory1: Maximus Chesina Ghanakaryam

[k2s]

I am separated from my husband of 11 months and have decided to divorce him. Am 29 and had an arranged marriage through one of the matrimonial websites.Underwent severe physical violence and mental stress. When he was not belittling me or my folks for some issue or the other....he used to be either throwing/breakings things or hitting me.

I was scared...shocked (as he was really sweet before wedding...though there were red flags here and there which I did not understand)...angry on myself for putting up with his behaviour....and so broken because of my broken dreams and marriage...I still am. Thankfully I have great support from my parents...siblings and friends as they all know that I must have given my best and tried all possible ways to make the marriage work.

I still get depressed occasionally... think why it happened with me....feel angry...cry too...but I know all this is a phase and it will pass on. Don't want to discuss the details of violence here as its still very painful. Times I feel that my husband and in-laws knew that this marriage will not survive....his behaviour (breaking things)...hitting on walls...harming/cutting himself...makes me feel that he has some serious psychological issues....this isn't plain anger....its extreme form of anger....his body used to sweat like anything and his eyes would enlarge and bloodied during these violence episodes. I am a career woman.. left my work to join him post marriage but still put up with everything to save my marriage. thought every time that maybe this is the last time...though he never said it wont happen again....never said ...cried once or twice but now I know all that was drama.


I now know that marriage is a beautiful part of life but it's not life...life is much more than just marriage or just work or just fun. Life now has so many different meanings to me for I now know the value of independence....value of love from family and friends...value of being valued/cherished and value of the life we have...for which only we are responsible.

Reading different opinions of all you wonderful ladies gives me a lot of mental strength and helped me decide that such marriages are not for keeps because only one person respecting marriage and trying to make it work isn't the done thing. I was killing my soul everyday just trying to make the marriage work and that's not the way to live life!

Just wanted to say thanks and share with you all...lot more remains to be said....maybe will post when and as I get more calmness and courage

[ariel]

roju story lenide nidra pattada k2s mayya [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='ariel' timestamp='1360350714' post='1303248903']
roju story lenide nidra pattada k2s mayya [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
[/quote]gammuna estory saduvu [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/gallery_24383_15_371807_0.gif?1354745320[/img]

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360350545' post='1303248884']
I am separated from my husband of 11 months and have decided to divorce him. Am 29 and had an arranged marriage through one of the matrimonial websites.Underwent severe physical violence and mental stress. When he was not belittling me or my folks for some issue or the other....he used to be either throwing/breakings things or hitting me.

I was scared...shocked (as he was really sweet before wedding...though there were red flags here and there which I did not understand)...angry on myself for putting up with his behaviour....and so broken because of my broken dreams and marriage...I still am. Thankfully I have great support from my parents...siblings and friends as they all know that I must have given my best and tried all possible ways to make the marriage work.

I still get depressed occasionally... think why it happened with me....feel angry...cry too...but I know all this is a phase and it will pass on. Don't want to discuss the details of violence here as its still very painful. Times I feel that my husband and in-laws knew that this marriage will not survive....his behaviour (breaking things)...hitting on walls...harming/cutting himself...makes me feel that he has some serious psychological issues....this isn't plain anger....its extreme form of anger....his body used to sweat like anything and his eyes would enlarge and bloodied during these violence episodes. I am a career woman.. left my work to join him post marriage but still put up with everything to save my marriage. thought every time that maybe this is the last time...though he never said it wont happen again....never said ...cried once or twice but now I know all that was drama.


I now know that marriage is a beautiful part of life but it's not life...life is much more than just marriage or just work or just fun. Life now has so many different meanings to me for I now know the value of independence....value of love from family and friends...value of being valued/cherished and value of the life we have...for which only we are responsible.

Reading different opinions of all you wonderful ladies gives me a lot of mental strength and helped me decide that such marriages are not for keeps because only one person respecting marriage and trying to make it work isn't the done thing.[color=#ff0000] I was killing my soul everyday just trying to make the marriage work and that's not the way to live life[/color]!

Just wanted to say thanks and share with you all...lot more remains to be said....maybe will post when and as I get more calmness and courage
[/quote]
a poradu kuda gade feel aythadu ..

friday manchi masala estory kavalani prardana !

[missionxp]

a site lo sadhuvuthav ba ivi

[Yuva Nataratna]

K2S lone ilanti aparichitudu unnadani talk mari ..... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img][img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]

[ariel]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360350755' post='1303248908']
gammuna estory saduvu [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/gallery_24383_15_371807_0.gif?1354745320[/img]
[/quote]
chadivina vayya e sadist batch antha IL vallake tagultara [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

Gud decision

[k2s]

[quote name='ariel' timestamp='1360351288' post='1303248974']
chadivina vayya e sadist batch antha IL vallake tagultara [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
[/quote]navvu enduku osthundi vay neeku [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]

[KOOL_KITTU]

[img]http://www.gifsoup.com/view1/1595064/rajini-o.gif[/img][img]http://www.gifsoup.com/view1/1595064/rajini-o.gif[/img]assalu...assalu

[k2s]

[quote name='Yuva Nataratna' timestamp='1360351051' post='1303248939']
K2S lone ilanti aparichitudu unnadani talk mari ..... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img][img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
[/quote][img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/gallery_24383_15_371807_0.gif?1354745320[/img]

[ariel]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360351572' post='1303249002']
navvu enduku osthundi vay neeku [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
[/quote]
alanti wife ni pogottukunna a sadist gadini talchukuni laughing ba

[venkat_ravinder]

endi mayaa idi.. nee standards ni reach avvatledu ee madhya stories

[Maximus]

uncle neekuu baad baajaa tumhara kujaaa[img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-s_7711rjFcU/UDoNMAw31eI/AAAAAAAAHKM/jIKDVsfUXB0/s1600/ali+ittadi+pokiri+gif.gif[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='ariel' timestamp='1360351813' post='1303249030']
alanti wife ni pogottukunna a sadist gadini talchukuni laughing ba
[/quote]mari fafal ki pyscholu / sadist ee nachutharu kada..... neela naalaga simple ga untey nacharu