Estory2: Nasty Hubby

[k2s]

Dear all,


We are married for the last 5 years, a marriage life filled with extreme happines and extreme sorrow too...

after marriage i got to visit many places both in india, i have two wonderful girls(twins)...

Sorrow being No support from In-Laws(infact troubles...don't wish to enter intothat cause i'm trying to stay away from something which cannot be corrected) , parents(same as the other....not interested in expecting), being a career oriented person situations forced me to stay at home, lost my first son within 10 days of birth 2 years back, These problems are all for ever so no point in worrying about it...

Ok now the current problem is MY HUBBY,

A brief about my hubby, he is a [b]highly[/b] reserved kind of a person,ever thinking ( about wht i don't knw),being the eldest and no sister kind of a person doesn't actually know hw to talk to a girl....A higly egositic person, his good qualities never gets angry, very adjusting, not dominating, very soft.....

Now my situation due to so many reasons we are forced without options to take care of our twins all alone with no servant also.Taking care of kids is not difficult for me with a little support from my hubby, but he is highly indifferent and tht hurts me to the core.....

i don't feel loved at all...i know he loves me......sometimes we need some sort of soft and loveable words escpiecially cause nobody else is there for me....whereas his words are very rude like a "Don't expect anything from me" "if you are finding it difficult we can part our ways" " i can be like this only".....

whenever i think abt him i can picture him as a person with sword in his hand with every words because pricking.....

the Fact is he is very helpful in household chores etc etc....but the fact is i wish to do all these chores with his lovable support...

leaning on him for support is like leaning on a curtain which will surely fall......i want a strong support...

i stay at home full time so hve no friends cause of my commitments.....one more major problem is every girls goes to her hubby when she has a problem,but if i go it becomes much worse and i started depending on my friends for supporting talk...but ended up being embrassed for sharing my pblms....

i don't hve any friends to listen to my pains....i can't take a break cause of babies, i don't have people who can share my sorrows....infact in days times my only work is to sit with babies, can't watch tv can't read books can sit in the pc...just sit with them.....

ya wanted to tell you.....the main reason for my hubby's indifference is tht he lost his mother very young his stepmother just suppressed him to this extend...i understood that, i told him and gave him my entire love...but he is just not ready to step out of his shell....he understands his mistakes..but is not taking any steps to come out of it....It is not so easy i understand...but ihve been waiting so long(5 years)

Thanking you,

[Maximus]

[img]http://i42.tinypic.com/16h2sdu.jpg[/img]oh hoo what a kastam what a kastammm

[juvenile]

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[k2s]

[quote name='Maximus' timestamp='1360354006' post='1303249207']
[img]http://i42.tinypic.com/16h2sdu.jpg[/img]oh hoo what a kastam what a kastammm
[/quote]help her man

[venkat_ravinder]

confused aunty....

[paampachak]

Book and fk the husband

[ariel]

husband needs family counselor help

[k2s]

[quote name='paampachak' timestamp='1360354169' post='1303249217']
Book and fk the husband
[/quote]dont simply comment man....just read the estory

[Maximus]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360354127' post='1303249214']
help her man
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how man she n her hubby has to solve it myan..!!..i can take care of the babies just like how you do myan..untill everything is sorted out...

aa hubby qualities lo ego thappa migithavanni na gurinchey cheppinattu vundhi..[img]http://i1170.photobucket.com/albums/r537/ram406/4494555_o.gif[/img]

[ariel]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360354215' post='1303249221']
dont simply comment man....just read the estory
[/quote]
ey k2s mayya comment chusi story chadivi chestunnaro ledo kuda telisipotundiga neku [img]http://i1170.photobucket.com/albums/r537/ram406/4494555_o.gif[/img]

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

what re uncle okka manchi estory kuda not telling .. how how

[ariel]

[quote name='Maximus' timestamp='1360354265' post='1303249223']


aa hubby qualities lo ego thappa migithavanni na gurinchey cheppinattu vundhi..[img]http://i1170.photobucket.com/albums/r537/ram406/4494555_o.gif[/img]
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story ki ne peru pettaledani hurt ayinattunnavga vayya

[paampachak]

[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360354215' post='1303249221']
dont simply comment man....just read the estory
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Chadivanu. em chestam past marchipovali ante US lanti place is not suitable sakkaga India ko China ko elthe chuttu pakkala oka 10 mandi 10 storilu inipinchi cool chestaru

[Maximus]

[quote name='ariel' timestamp='1360354427' post='1303249236']
story ki ne peru pettaledani hurt ayinattunnavga vayya
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[KOOL_KITTU]

sardhi chappadaniki try chaiyali kaniii..ila itae aela how[img]http://www.gifsoup.com/view1/1595064/rajini-o.gif[/img]

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