Estory 1: Is It Ok To Have Crush After Marriage?

[nuvvunenu]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been married for 1 and 1/2 years now.And i am working for a company here.I am happy with my husband.As such we dont have any major issues.My husband is a workaholic and after we both get back home from the office theres hardly any time left for us to talk.Immediately after getting back home i have cooking to be done and things for the next day.And my husband is sometimes working even after getting back home.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been working for an interior designing company for almost an year now.There my colleagues are great fun to be with.And most of them are in their 20's.So theres this Indian guy( unmarried) in our office.One day he played a prank at me in the office.I was furious and i wanted to complain against him to my senior.My other colleagues said he's a nice guy and did it just for fun.I decided not to complain.From that day onwards we became friends.Now sometimes even when we both are in the office he calls me and talks to me for long on the phone,And i know at times on the phone he flirts with me.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have i think a crush on him and i think he knows it by now.And i am feeling guilty about it.I dont want to hurt my husband but somehow it is getting very difficult to get this colleague out my mind.And very recently i came to know through our other colleagues that this guy has a Pakistani girlfriend who also works in our company but different department. One day i had met them both in the elevator and i dont know i was very shocked. i was very hurt that day...why?? I dont know.In the elevator the guy also looked equally conscious because he didnt say " Hello" his usual way.The next day he had called me to explain things about his GF and him.I didnt know what to say.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Whatever it is i think i am messing up my own life and the life of 3 others around me.And i am extremely guilty.I really want to get this guy out of my head.But somehow its just not happening.....[/size][/font][/color]

[ravana]

Yes its ok to have crush/relationship after marriage as long as u don't have GUILT

[psycopk]

[quote name='ravana' timestamp='1360599573' post='1303258651']
Yes its ok to have crush/relationship after marriage as long as u don't have GUILT
[/quote]
lol.. swamy idulo kuda phd chesara sami

[ChampakDas]

you know that you are married
you know that your crush(whatever sollu) has girlfriend
you know that you are extremely guilty yet
you know that you have to get rid of this thought yet you are not able to get this off....nuvu nee pichi..thingari thatvam ki prakasta nuvu....velli antlu thomuko po

[ravana]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1360599903' post='1303258695']
lol.. swamy idulo kuda phd chesara sami
[/quote]
ledhu brother

[GOLIMAR]

pellayaka kuda enti ee story lu... culture cheda dobbandi thalloi [img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/-5WezZWM8CQE/UOZPH8Cco6I/AAAAAAAAIpI/RIEer9Ed-OA/s150/Balayya-6.gif[/img]

[ILAQAT_MUFLIYA]

[quote name='ravana' timestamp='1360599573' post='1303258651']
Yes its ok to have crush/relationship after marriage as long as u don't have GUILT
[/quote]
BROTHER em matladuthunnaru meeeru .. ala cheyyochantyara [img]http://i45.tinypic.com/2qnbp11.gif[/img]

[jbourne]

Endii vayya deeni bada
Is it okay anta idi ekkadi culture
Tellole tolu testaru marriage tarvata affair antee

[psycopk]

[quote name='ravana' timestamp='1360600225' post='1303258736']
ledhu brother
[/quote] leka pote endi swami relation ship petuko mataru.. ila aaite inka pelli enduku bongo.. live-in relationship maintain cheyochu kada.. eppudu evaditho mood vaste vaditho undochu

[sherlockholmes_anon]

[quote name='nuvvunenu' timestamp='1360598914' post='1303258559']
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been married for 1 and 1/2 years now.And i am working for a company here.I am happy with my husband.As such we dont have any major issues.My husband is a workaholic and after we both get back home from the office theres hardly any time left for us to talk.Immediately after getting back home i have cooking to be done and things for the next day.And my husband is sometimes working even after getting back home.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been working for an interior designing company for almost an year now.There my colleagues are great fun to be with.And most of them are in their 20's.So theres this Indian guy( unmarried) in our office.One day he played a prank at me in the office.I was furious and i wanted to complain against him to my senior.My other colleagues said he's a nice guy and did it just for fun.I decided not to complain.From that day onwards we became friends.Now sometimes even when we both are in the office he calls me and talks to me for long on the phone,And i know at times on the phone he flirts with me.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have i think a crush on him and i think he knows it by now.And i am feeling guilty about it.I dont want to hurt my husband but somehow it is getting very difficult to get this colleague out my mind.And very recently i came to know through our other colleagues that this guy has a Pakistani girlfriend who also works in our company but different department. One day i had met them both in the elevator and i dont know i was very shocked. i was very hurt that day...why?? I dont know.In the elevator the guy also looked equally conscious because he didnt say " Hello" his usual way.The next day he had called me to explain things about his GF and him.I didnt know what to say.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Whatever it is i think i am messing up my own life and the life of 3 others around me.And i am extremely guilty.I really want to get this guy out of my head.But somehow its just not happening.....[/size][/font][/color]
[/quote]

aunty ni enjoy cheyyamanadi aa abbayi tho no strings attached relationship maintain chesi

[ravana]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1360600502' post='1303258766']
leka pote endi swami[color=#ff0000] relation ship petuko mataru..[/color] ila aaite inka pelli enduku bongo.. live-in relationship maintain cheyochu kada.. [color=#0000ff]eppudu evaditho mood vaste vaditho undochu[/color]
[/quote]

Red
nenu pettukomani cheppaledhu brother but pettukunte nothing wrong if u don't have guilt ani matrame cheppa

Blue
society emi anukuntadho anedhi leka pote chala mandi ide chestaru

so pellinataruvata janalu andaru pellani/mogudini tappite evari mida feelings ravu antava brother, naku telisi 90% people ki vastundi ala a thought vachindi ante ne its equal to having relationship na drustilo thought ravatam bayata ade pani cheyatam both r same

[ravana]

[quote name='ILAQAT_MUFLIYA' timestamp='1360600307' post='1303258747']
BROTHER em matladuthunnaru meeeru .. ala cheyyochantyara [img]http://i45.tinypic.com/2qnbp11.gif[/img]
[/quote]
y not if u don't have GUILT

[ManaBadi]

[quote name='nuvvunenu' timestamp='1360598914' post='1303258559']
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been married for 1 and 1/2 years now.And i am working for a company here.I am happy with my husband.As such we dont have any major issues.My husband is a workaholic and after we both get back home from the office theres hardly any time left for us to talk.Immediately after getting back home i have cooking to be done and things for the next day.And my husband is sometimes working even after getting back home.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been working for an interior designing company for almost an year now.There my colleagues are great fun to be with.And most of them are in their 20's.So theres this Indian guy( unmarried) in our office.One day he played a prank at me in the office.I was furious and i wanted to complain against him to my senior.My other colleagues said he's a nice guy and did it just for fun.I decided not to complain.From that day onwards we became friends.Now sometimes even when we both are in the office he calls me and talks to me for long on the phone,And i know at times on the phone he flirts with me.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have i think a crush on him and i think he knows it by now.And i am feeling guilty about it.I dont want to hurt my husband but somehow it is getting very difficult to get this colleague out my mind.And very recently i came to know through our other colleagues that this guy has a Pakistani girlfriend who also works in our company but different department. [/size][/font][/color][color=#ff0000][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3][b]One day i had met them both in the elevator and i dont know i was very shocked. i was very hurt that day...why?[/b][/size][/font][/color][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]? I dont know.In the elevator the guy also looked equally conscious because he didnt say " Hello" his usual way.The next day he had called me to explain things about his GF and him.I didnt know what to say.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Whatever it is i think i am messing up my own life and the life of 3 others around me.And i am extremely guilty.I really want to get this guy out of my head.But somehow its just not happening.....[/size][/font][/color]
[/quote]

Naku ardam kadu Shock yanduku ayavu, nuvvu pelli chesukoni nee hubby tho samsram chestunavu kada.Allane vadu kuda pelli chesukovada nee udesham. nuvvu ayitha 2nd hand avachu neku nacchina vadu 1st hand avala?

Crush vunte nee manasulu petuko see taht vadiki kuda teliyaneyaku.If he also comes to know that u have crush on him, then finally u both will end up in the bed that's for sure.Poor guy ur husband is working hard to give u and ur family a good life.

[tom bhayya]

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[JUJUBI_JULABI]

haha endo emo