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Don't know where to start. But I need to get a solution for my problem(s).
I guess no one is suffering like me. No way to exit ...no wholes......
I am in US for the past 10 years as a dependent visa holder. Early years we struggled like anything to survive in this country. For the past 3 years only my husband is in permanent position in his job and his profile and career graph is growing up. Daughter is in middle school and she is doing well in studies.

Here my bad period starts again via my mother....
My mother is sick and she is hospitalized in Apollo hospital for spine infection . She is already a chronic diabetic .and a kidney patient. Still at the hospital and doctors are not letting us clearly what will be the next step. My mother is talking well and wants to have sophisticated treatment. So far ,she has her money about 5 lakhs and we are spending for that.
My elder sister is in India and she has 2 school going kids. My bil is in good position in reputed IT firm. I have one young brother who is slightly affected by autism.
The pathetic situation is, my sister is taking care of my mother and going thru' tough time. Obviously she and her husband are getting mad with us . They are questioning us that why should we alone suffer? They are asking us to come to India for good.
I don't mind in settling in India, but we can not go to India without a job for my husband .
In 2007 I went back to India and I tried to settle there. My husband tried job there till 2010 , but he couldn't get it. So we came back here again.
We don't have enough money to settle in India without a job.
And second thing is, my daughter 's education . She is in the middle school and she doesn't know any of the Indian languages ....getting admission in schools itself tough in India..... Don't know what to do?

I told to my sister we will arrange some care taker and I will bare that cost. But she is not accepting that because every time taking mother to hospital ,even with care taker is tough. She deliberately needs my help.

My husband is not yet ready to move from US without having min. money. And I am scared to go to India with my kid and without my husband . Which I already tried in 2007-2010. It didn't work out well.
Also my in-laws are not letting me come to India without my husband.
My sister is asking me to come to India with my kid to help my mother ....

Don't know what to do? Feeling guilty .... Praying to god ...want to die.. But who will take care of my daughter ....frustration to the core........

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vaddiki 2007 - 2010 lo oka job kkuda raleda.....................emo le

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first try this for a couple of months.. also pay your mom hospital bills.. "I told to my sister we will arrange some care taker and I will bare that cost. But she is not accepting that because every time taking mother to hospital ,even with care taker is tough. She deliberately needs my help."

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ilaaa kath mafilia[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img]

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[quote name='KOOL_KITTU' timestamp='1360703644' post='1303268210']
ilaaa kath mafilia[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img]
[/quote]just read estory man

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[quote name='k2s' timestamp='1360703700' post='1303268213']
just read estory man
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already read man...[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img]strange situation..

may b she suld buy a car to her sisters family[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img]

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[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img] ee antharangaalu serial endhuku k2s mayya

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[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1360703886' post='1303268231']
[img]http://gifsoup.com/view2/4202810/baahmir-o.gif[/img] ee antharangaalu serial endhuku k2s mayya
[/quote]sometimes when no cable connection antharangalu serials ee best yaa

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