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[PMREDDY19]

[quote name='god father' timestamp='1361245269' post='1303297182']


indulo terrific emi undi mama okadiki ayyindi ani andariki avuthadaa?!!!

and ade kaadu [color=#ff0000][size=6][b]evado edo ane kaadiki [/b][/size][/color]school lo 1st rank daggari nunchi adari parents face cheyyali bayat lokanni don't u think? and did u always do well in school?!! or if u did not do you think it is wrong?!!! this is also same!!

ee society lo castes anni divide chesi petta taniki karanam ento telusaa it is because some selefish ppl always wanted to be in the hierarchy we need change in thinking ...................adi inter caste marriage valla raadu it will come only when our thinking changes!!!

and 100 mandi thappu chesthunnaru ani nenu kooda ade chesthaanu ane vaadu correct kaadu eppatiki correct kaadu!!
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Evado edho anedhi veru.. mana intlo vallu mana intlo vallani anukodam veru..
nenu Masters chesi Ph D chesanuani cheppi.. Ma grand father.. ni . .maa Dad ni valla views ni maarchulkonid.. meeru inka old generation lo unnaru ani cheppalemu..
We can only tell them what we feel.

and we need to devleop ourself from what is good and what is bad in our sorroundings.. along with what you take from your parents and give back to your parents..

[BobbyFischer]

[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1361244141' post='1303297141']
Naaku ippatiki e concept ardham kaadu..
Marriage anedhi. intlo andaru kalisi oka family event maadirigaa chesukunedhi...



Oka ammayi.. Abbayi matters only anukoni.. inter -caste ithey enti.. inkoti ithey enti, naaku istam vachinaattu nenu chesukuntaanuantey. Well that's always fine..
Ammayi abbayi istam vachinattu chesinappudu,, they will dela with all the mess..

When you go against the wish of your family and your own parents.. its your problem to deal with all the circusmstances..

you can;t blame your family and relatives.. They had their own problems if someone mariies an outsider..

[color=#ff0000]In case maa intlo nenu inko caste ammayini ista padi chesukovach. bcoz I liked her. After that Whenever my parents go to any function in the family or outside..[/color]

the discussion is always gonna be around my wife;s family and relatives and its gonna be a lot of headache.. Do I need to give that to my parents for bringing me up so hard by saving all their lifetime earnings

And is that something I need to give them after growing up for 24+ years on their hard earned money..


In my view I don;t agree that you need to support an inter-caste marriage.. you liked her.. you marry her.. But don;t ask your parents to support it.
If they want to face all the consequences for the rest of their life to make you happy,.. they will accept it..


If they don;t want to accept.. they were not obligated to accept your marriage..




I had a colleague in my circle.. Same story... 20 yrs.. Own Family.. well Respected.. Big Brahmin traditional..

He loved someone in another higher caste.. but not Brahmin.. His Dad clearly said that.. I don't want you to go with here .. Because..

I can;t attend any other function in future and I am not sure If I can find a Proper family for your sister..




He still left the family for the girl and they were living in US now.. Deal done.. no more talkigns with the Family..

Whenever we get into some kind of conversations related to the family.. or I need to be on phone with my MOM & DAD.. I don;t feel so easy ..
while he is next to me so that he may feel he is missing his own Parents..


so its like for one person you choose to loose a bunch of people..





Alll I typed above is my own views... it may hurt someone .. someone may appreciate it.. But I can;t change my view.. thanks for reading..
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Intercaste marriage ane topic enduku techanante , Nuv indaka annav ga Forward Castes vallu fight chesaru oppressed kosam ani , anduku techa ! caste anedi povalante Intercaste marriages jaragali , ila intercaste marriage ni encourage chese valle karuvayyaru ! Caste system anede India ni brastu pattinchindi...a caste system anedi Manu ane vadi valla vachi sachindi , danni forward castes Indian society meeda balavantham ga ruddaru...


and also Nenu matladathandi forward caste lo pathukupoina superior feeling gurinchi...nuv vachi India , US laga aipoindi annatlu matladathannav...Marriage anedi iddaru manushula madya lo de , I do agree...ala ani India lo vadileyyaledu kada , ikkada caste wise marriage bureau lu enduku puttukochai ? avi kooda 90% forward caste valla ve enduku untai ? em a kulam lo vallu aithene perfect match avuthara ?

answer to the part quoted in Red ;- Antha alochinche vadivi , india lo caste system valla BC SC ST lu social ga entha backward ga undipoyaro telida ? daniki reason antha money , power valla chethi lo lekapotam valla ani teliyada ?

Yes I still believe , valla kooda oka 50 years country ni , state ni rule chesthe valla bathukullo marpulosthai...Delhi seat meeda eppudu bapanollu , ikkada state lo kamma , reddy lu...caste ni batti leadership qualities raavu...kani mana caste vadu power lo unte em cheyocho mana CM lu baga chooincharu !

[Nalini007]

[quote name='god father' timestamp='1361245269' post='1303297182']


indulo terrific emi undi mama okadiki ayyindi ani andariki avuthadaa?!!!

and ade kaadu evado edo ane kaadiki school lo 1st rank daggari nunchi adari parents face cheyyali bayat lokanni don't u think? and did u always do well in school?!! or if u did not do you think it is wrong?!!! this is also same!!

ee society lo castes anni divide chesi petta taniki karanam ento telusaa it is because some selefish ppl always wanted to be in the hierarchy we need change in thinking ...................adi inter caste marriage valla raadu it will come only when our thinking changes!!!

and 100 mandi thappu chesthunnaru ani nenu kooda ade chesthaanu ane vaadu correct kaadu eppatiki correct kaadu!!
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[b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(247, 247, 247)]Do I need to give that to my parents for bringing me up so hard by saving all their lifetime earnings[/background][/size][/font][/color]

[color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(247, 247, 247)]And is that something I need to give them after growing up for 24+ years on their hard earned money..... [/background][/size][/font][/color][/b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3][background=rgb(247, 247, 247)]nenu terrific annadhi ee lines ki matrame...irrespective of the circumstances, I second that thought..nothing in this world is worth your parents.[/background][/size][/font][/color]

[god father]

[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1361245502' post='1303297197']


Evado edho anedhi veru.. mana intlo vallu mana intlo vallani anukodam veru..
nenu Masters chesi Ph D chesanuani cheppi.. Ma grand father.. ni . .maa Dad ni valla views ni maarchulkonid.. meeru inka old generation lo unnaru ani cheppalemu..
We can only tell them what we feel.

and we need to devleop ourself from what is good and what is bad in our sorroundings.. along with what you take from your parents and give back to your parents..
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nenu anedi kooda ade mama we should land on a common ground in family it is always possible but general gaa society ani idi ani edo cheptharu kaani............bayata oka maata ane vaadu repu nuvvu kastallo unappudu raadu !!! so vaadi gurinchi ekkuva laochincha koodadu ani naa abhi prayam!!

[idiBeZaWaDa]

[quote name='BobbyFischer' timestamp='1361228057' post='1303296311']

economic inequality okkate kadu , social injstice kooda jarigindi BC SC ST la ki...okappudu valla ni temples lo ki ela raniyyaledo , ela oori lo unna bavi lo water ni ela taganivvaledo , meda lo kunda venaka cheepuru ela kattukuni tirige vallo ivanni forward caste la ki oka sari jaragali , tarvatha reservations anni ethesi only poverty basis meeda pettali...Oka karamchedu , [b]Chunduru lo entha mandi SC ST la ki anyayam jarigindo[/b] ala Kamma , Reddy caste la ki jaragali...
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loll...edo newslu sadivesi essaylu rasestav deniki vayya...chunduru maa mom valla pakka ooru...asalu akkada em jarigindho sarigga telsa neeku...oo tega anyayam jarigindani hadavidi chestav

Actual Story entate...Oka upper caste adapilla(Kamma) coll nunchi roju naduskuntu vachedi ooriki...SC/ST gaali vedhavalu darilo edipinchevallu aa pillani...finalga oka roju aa pilla valla annayaki chepindi ila edipistunnaru ani...valla anna frndsni veskoni velli kotti warning ichadu...aa grudge pettkoni aa pillani rape chesi champesaru...so orilo Uppercaste valanta aa gaali gangni kottadaniki karralu vekoste...SC/St anta vallaki support chesi tiragabaddaru...so orilo uppercaste vallu inka kaali motham tagalapetti paresaru...ippatiki aa chuttupakkala orlalo ekkada Uppercaste valladi tappu ani evvaru feel avvaru...only nuvvu peel avtunav ante


Denlo evaridi tappu antav...Newslu chusi essaylu rayaku plzzz..[img]http://i.imgflip.com/c9tm.gif[/img]

[paampachak]

akkada naa thread ki help cheyyandi, reservations gurinchi nenu Supreme court tho matladi changes cheyista

[PMREDDY19]

[quote name='BobbyFischer' timestamp='1361245516' post='1303297198']
Intercaste marriage ane topic enduku techanante , Nuv indaka annav ga Forward Castes vallu fight chesaru oppressed kosam ani , anduku techa ! caste anedi povalante Intercaste marriages jaragali , ila intercaste marriage ni encourage chese valle karuvayyaru ! Caste system anede India ni brastu pattinchindi...a caste system anedi Manu ane vadi valla vachi sachindi , danni forward castes Indian society meeda balavantham ga ruddaru...


and also Nenu matladathandi forward caste lo pathukupoina superior feeling gurinchi...nuv vachi India , US laga aipoindi annatlu matladathannav...Marriage anedi iddaru manushula madya lo de , I do agree...ala ani India lo vadileyyaledu kada , ikkada caste wise marriage bureau lu enduku puttukochai ? avi kooda 90% forward caste valla ve enduku untai ? em a kulam lo vallu aithene perfect match avuthara ?
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I don't make a point of your view / But in my view..

I want ot makes things more easy with no mess. for that I prefer to go by what I knew and what my family expects me to do or what gives them respect,,
If not give them new respect.. Keep the one they earned for these years.,,

Nenu velli edho iraga teestanu,, so naaku istam vachina ammayini chesukuntaanu.. naaku e caste system meeda nammakam ledhu.. so nenu aaa ammayinii chesukuntaanu antey..

Well no one is gonna oppose it.. at the same time.. they are not gonna support you for all the disrespect they get in their own friends circles.



Simple logic cheptaanu.. Mana friends circle loney.. US vachina kothhalo emi tleikunda undey vaadu .a fter 2 yrs. Evariana ..

Oka nalla poritho tirugutu undi... nenu e pillani pelli chesukuntaa antey. what will be ur perception..

Same vaadey inko Tella porini pelli cehuskuntaa antey.. What will be your perception..



I don;t know about all the marriage bueareaus part.. bcoz there were so many beureaus for all caste based things..
But when it comes to higher castes... It became more of a Business activity than that of a normal Refernce concept..



Anyhow.. Oka Caste lo vallu valla caste lo vallani cehsukodam valla edho aipothundi anukuntey.. I don;t agree with that..
This is called as.. naaku adhi chethakaledhu kaabbati,. inkoti chesi untey baagundedhi anadam..



Well you can say that there were so many succesful couples who maried intercaste and were leading a happy life..
But I also see that there wee 90% of the ahppy couples who were happy with their own families when they marry in the same caste.. I don't take the view of 10% when I am seeing the 90% results..

[BobbyFischer]

[quote name='idiBeZaWaDa' timestamp='1361245806' post='1303297232']
loll...edo newslu sadivesi essaylu rasestav deniki vayya...chunduru maa mom valla pakka ooru...asalu akkada em jarigindho sarigga telsa neeku...oo tega anyayam jarigindani hadavidi chestav

Actual Story entate...[b]Oka upper caste adapilla(Kamma) coll nunchi roju naduskuntu vachedi [/b]ooriki...SC/ST gaali vedhavalu darilo edipinchevallu aa pillani...finalga oka roju aa pilla valla annayaki chepindi ila edipistunnaru ani...valla anna frndsni veskoni velli kotti warning ichadu...aa grudge pettkoni aa pillani rape chesi champesaru...so orilo Uppercaste valanta aa gaali gangni kottadaniki karralu vekoste...SC/St anta vallaki support chesi tiragabaddaru...so orilo uppercaste vallu inka kaali motham tagalapetti paresaru...ippatiki aa chuttupakkala orlalo ekkada Uppercaste valladi tappu ani evvaru feel avvaru...only nuvvu peel avtunav ante


Denlo evaridi tappu antav...Newslu chusi essaylu rayaku plzzz..
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Godava aindi Reddys ki SC la ki aithe , kammolla aada pilla scene lo ki ela vachindi guruvu garu ? me mother valla ooru enti ? modukuru aa ? valiveru aa ? mamilla palli aa ? veta palem aa ? vellaluru aa ? manchala aa?

[god father]

[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1361245989' post='1303297255']

Well you can say that there were so many succesful couples who maried intercaste and were leading a happy life..
But I also see that there wee 90% of the ahppy couples who were happy with their own families when they marry in the same caste.. I don't take the[b] view of 10% [/b] when I am seeing the 90% results..
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view emi undi mama 10% of all marriages intercaste aithe andulo 90% go well adi kana paduthune undi 85 lo maa uncle pelli his wife was christian SC he is OC they are a very happy couple till date i have so many examples of that.

I am not supporting intercaste marriages like bobbyfisher something happened in his life and his brain has got condition to see OC guys like kamma and reddy like bad guys just like the telanganites who think andhra ppl are idiots.

Only point i want to tell is there is nothing bad in intercaste marriage!!

[PMREDDY19]

[quote name='god father' timestamp='1361245767' post='1303297228']


nenu anedi kooda ade mama we should land on a common ground in family it is always possible but general gaa society ani idi ani edo cheptharu kaani............bayata oka maata ane vaadu repu nuvvu kastallo unappudu raadu !!! so vaadi gurinchi ekkuva laochincha koodadu ani naa abhi prayam!!
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Well that's true.. in general perception.. you can do that,, if you can stay with your parents forever..

mana ikkada US lo undesi.. nelaki oka $5kk sampdistu,,

Evariki nachiana vallalni vallu chesukoni.. mana parents ki monthly oka $550- $1000 Pampisnchesi.. enjoy cheyyandi..
Antey Itsnot gonan workout so easily..

Atleast not in my family If I make it simple.. I saw how tough it is gonna be in some of my few friends circle whenyou need to deal with these kind of offshore.. inter-caste.. inter-faith marriages..

Asalu meeru Inter-caste varaku vellaru..


to be more precise.. I mean in my own caste.. there were so many divsions.. where It takes a toll to get married to a girl from different traditions and different regions..

kaani emi sestam .. Intlo vallaki anni nachinattley cheyyalia nukuntaaru..

B'coz they spent 25 yrs in growing up along with building a dream around me and my future ..
So I don;t expect to be dismatling all their ideas with my



Welel- Educated.. highly quialified socal-awarenss campaign..

Atleast that is me.. and I dont; expect everyone to be the same..

[PMREDDY19]

[quote name='BobbyFischer' timestamp='1361246083' post='1303297264']
Godava aindi Reddys ki SC la ki aithe , kammolla aada pilla scene lo ki ela vachindi guruvu garu ? me mother valla ooru enti ? modukuru aa ? valiveru aa ? mamilla palli aa ? veta palem aa ? vellaluru aa ? manchala aa?
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hmm

modukuru.. valiveru..

haa haa haaa haaa...\
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Villages in Tsundur Mandal

1. Valiveru
2. Dundipalem
3. Edlapalli
4. Parimi
5. Gajuluru
6. Manduru
7. Vetapalam
8. Penugudrapadu
9. Nadigadapalem
10. Modukuru
11.Pedagadelavarru
12.Chinagadelavarru

[PMREDDY19]

[b] How may of you consider only this is what happened in Tsundur..[/b]



[b] Tsunduru Dalit Massacre[/b]
[color=#000000][font=sans-serif][size=3]
The village became infamous for the sensational killing of 8 [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dalits"]dalits[/url] ([url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mala_(caste)"]Malas[/url]) on the 6th of August, 1991, when a mob of over 400 people, composed of mainly [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reddy"]Reddys[/url] and [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Telaga"]telagas[/url] chased down the victims along the bund of an irrigation canal. In the trial which was concluded, 21 people were sentenced to [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_imprisonment"]life imprisonment[/url] and 35 others to a year of rigorous [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprisonment"]imprisonment[/url] and a [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sentence_(law)"]penalty[/url] of [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indian_rupee"]Rs.[/url] 2000 each, on the 31st of July, 2007, by special [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judge"]judge[/url] established for the Purpose under SC,STs Atrocities(Prevention) Act.[sup][url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tsundur#cite_note-2"][2][/url][/sup][sup][url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tsundur#cite_note-3"][3][/url][/sup][/size][/font][/color]

[god father]

[quote name='PMR aka OM' timestamp='1361246329' post='1303297287']

Well that's true.. in general perception.. you can do that,, if you can stay with your parents forever..

mana ikkada US lo undesi.. nelaki oka $5kk sampdistu,,

Evariki nachiana vallalni vallu chesukoni.. mana parents ki monthly oka $550- $1000 Pampisnchesi.. enjoy cheyyandi..
Antey Itsnot gonan workout so easily..

Atleast not in my family If I make it simple.. I saw how tough it is gonna be in some of my few friends circle whenyou need to deal with these kind of offshore.. inter-caste.. inter-faith marriages..

Asalu meeru Inter-caste varaku vellaru..


to be more precise.. I mean in my own caste.. there were so many divsions.. where It takes a toll to get married to a girl from different traditions and different regions..

kaani emi sestam .. Intlo vallaki anni nachinattley cheyyalia nukuntaaru..

B'coz they spent 25 yrs in growing up along with building a dream around me and my future ..
So I don;t expect to be dismatling all their ideas with my



Welel- Educated.. highly quialified socal-awarenss campaign..

Atleast that is me.. and I dont; expect everyone to be the same..
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devudu manaki brain ichaadu prethi okadiki brain ichaadu

alane prathi parent thana pillalki life lead chese antha gnana bodha chesthadu adi use chesukoka povatam valle idantha!!!

evadi brain vaadu vaada kunda pakkana vaadu edi ante ade anukone daaniki vaadiki brain enduku ?!!! and adi vaadaka pothe it is like directly insulting gods and parents who are the gods we can see!!!

[PMREDDY19]

Read this one on the Judgement of Tsundure incident : This thing came out duirng ht Congress Term I gues.. when gunture district was Completely won by Congress party excluding Dullipalla Narendra.. from some constitunecy around Tsundur..

http://revolutionarypath.blogspot.com/2007/08/rare-punishment-for-murderers-of-dalits.html


[color=#000000]Tsunduru (Guntur), July 31: A special court on Tuesday sentenced to life 21 upper caste persons and gave one-year jail terms to 35 others in the sensational Tsunduru Dalits massacre case. The case involved the murder of eight Dalits of Tsunduru on August 6, 1991 by people belonging to Reddy and Telaga castes.[/color]

[color=#000000]Special Judge Anis of the SC/ST Prevention of Atrocities Court acquitted 123 persons in the case, the trial of which took 16 years to complete. Pronouncing the verdict in the packed court room, the judge said the convicted did not deserve capital punishment as the case was not the 'rarest of rare kind'.[/color]

[color=#000000]The village had a history of communal feud and clashes between Dalits and upper caste Hindus were common, she pointed out. Public prosecutor B. Chandrasekhar had sought capital punishment for the accused by claiming that it was a rarest of the rare cases. Police had cordoned off Tsunduru village and had imposed prohibitory orders to prevent any untoward incidents after the judgment.[/color]

[color=#000000]Dalit communities were disappointed at the judgment. At the same time, the family members of those who were awarded life sentences wept outside the court. Modugula Mallikarjuna Reddy, Gudeti Brahma Reddy, Chidipudi Srinivasa Reddy, Padyla Haribabu and C. Punnareddy were sentenced to life for killing J. Mattaiah.[/color]

[color=#000000]Poluru Prasada Reddy and Kosana Pitchaiah got life sentences for killing Mallela Subbarao. Kosana Nageswara Rao, Kosana Prasad and Kosana Sivaiah butchered one Dalit Mandru Ramesh, whose body was found near a canal. They too got life terms. The murder of Jaaladi Isaac got convictions for Gopireddy Kotireddy and Kolli Sambireddy.[/color]

[color=#000000]Modugula Sitarama Reddy, Kosana Edukondalu, Myla Siva Prasad and Ambati Prasad were convicted in the murder of one Angalakuduru Rajamohan. His body was found near a railway track. Gorrepati Sambireddy, Topireddy Prasada Reddy and Mani Veerareddy hacked one Devarapalli Jayaraj to death. Modugul Mallikarjuna Reddy and Ikkurthi Sivaiah murdered one Jaladi Immanuel. All of them got life sentences.[/color]

[color=#000000]The other 35 upper caste persons got one-year terms for moving around the village with deadly weapons. They should also pay a penalty of Rs 2,000 each or undergo imprisonment for one more month. Charges were leveled against 220 persons, of which 33 died during the course of the trial. As many as 179 accused were present in the court on Tuesday. The public prosecutor said he would recommend an appeal against the verdict so that some of those acquitted were also punished. [/color]

[idiBeZaWaDa]

[quote name='BobbyFischer' timestamp='1361246083' post='1303297264']
Godava aindi Reddys ki SC la ki aithe , kammolla aada pilla scene lo ki ela vachindi guruvu garu ? me mother valla ooru enti ? modukuru aa ? valiveru aa ? mamilla palli aa ? veta palem aa ? vellaluru aa ? manchala aa?
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Nuvvu seppe orlu nak telvad..Ma mom valladi Manduru...there are two incidents happens where one got highlighted....mundu adi telsuko...I am talking about the 2nd case