Estory1: Aunty Thinking To Divorce Her Hubby And Go Along With Her Bf

[nuvvunenu]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]hi frnds,[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I don't knw if iam in the right section but plz need suggestion.to tel u my story short.married for 8 yrs,have 2 beautifull kids-6yr old son,4 yr old daughter.my husband is in IT,too serious kind from the beginning,no romance in life,no special moments to remember,always worried about money,savings,paying bills,which are ofcourse important.8 yrs of marriage .no single gift frm him.if asked his reply"u have the credit card go buy whatever u want.cant even put hand on me when posing for a picture.he is like totally opposite of the kind I always dreamt of a husband -a friend .he is more like some elder person.i got used to it by now.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]recently I met my school friend on FB,yea fb....we used to like each other but never proposed.we laughed at that thought that we were so shy that time.after schooling we parted.no contacts all these 15yrs.recently we met in india.we both flew from different countries to meet in india.we spent 2 days of time together.if someone believe true love it wud be that.as I have known the difference.he is not the first man I have ever met so I know that its not an infatuation.we are deeply in love.he is single,handsome and he wants to marry me and want my kids too as he says they are part of me.and he loves everything that is mine.plz don't think that I am childish here jeopardizing my parents reputation,my kids future etc.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]iam not saying this because I hate my husband,i still respect him but he doesn't.all he wants is my physical being in the night.mechanical life.iam not a machine.i tried telling him to be lil casual in life to enjoy small things in life but he cant.he says that I love being in fairy tales,life is not like that.is life so sad?we have enough money by gods grace.but still my husband is always sad.iam sure he is a very good father to my kids,but y to me he is so rude and y am I taken for granted all the time.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]sometimes I feel the age gap of 8 yrs is the main reason.but have seen people happy like that too.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]this guy feels guilty of loving me as he wud make my hubby sad by taking me.but I feel when my hubby doenst respect me why shud I stay in a loveless marriage.how long wil I suffer for the sake of kids future.i deserve love,respect and fun moments in life.i love my kids and this guy loves them too.he says that he doesn't want kids of his own as he doesn't want to be partial in loving them.and he is so religious that really people do trust him by his words.our families knew each other when we were in school.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]his family always liked me and his parents are ready to accept me as long as I break relation with my hubby and they have no problem with kids as they believe they are gift of gods.hmm..his parents also had love marriage so they understand our situation,they regret that we dint approach each other at the right time.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Now its entirely on me.i scare to death thinking of it.Divorce is a scary word for me.my parents reputation on stake,wil relatives make fun of my parents?wil I be given bad name in the society?i really love this guy as those 2 days are the most happiest moments in my life so far.iam 32,i knw wat is love and wat is infatuation.i really want to be with him.but very scared to confess this to the world.how can I separate my kids from their dad?he wil be shattered.what shud I do?shal I stay in this loveless marriage forever for the sake of my kids and reputation .or live for myself ?I don't know where is my life?isnt divorce that easy?please don't taunt me ,iam not a bad person just need little love and respect in life.please suggest me friends,i cant share this with anyone in my life.please help.[/size][/font][/color]

[Sirimalli]

[goli soda]

poralni gaaliki vadilesthada munda????

[HAPPYLESS]

[quote name='goli soda' timestamp='1361376677' post='1303303953']
poralni gaaliki vadilesthada munda????
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[img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/profile/photo-thumb-12537.jpg?_r=1342021386[/img] nuv penchukunta ante deal set chedham

[goli soda]

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[img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/profile/photo-thumb-12537.jpg?_r=1342021386[/img] nuv penchukunta ante deal set chedham
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nuvvena aa boy frnd ayithe???

[nuvvunenu]

One of the Answers given by the members are like this.

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]your problem is beyond my maturity dear......im soooo confused.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]"OUR MOM MAY BE IN THE SAME SITUATION IN THE PAST" but she burried all her happiness or thoughts or whatever it may be, for the sake of our happiness(HER CHILDS HAPPINESS)[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]or[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]think like "your dd is in the same situation"......what will you advise???????? becoz MOM THINKS THE BEST FOR HER CHILDREN....[/size][/font][/color]


[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Wow. In spending 2 days with him you have decided he is better than your husband? I don't even understand what you mean by "spend 2 days" without your husband's knowledge. If a man had posted this, there will be many posters asking "What would you do if your wife does the same thing?". So I am asking you this question: What would you do if your husband comes to you and says he wants a divorce since he is going to marry his high school sweetheart and he will also take the kids with him?[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Is your friend married? He may not show his real face until he marries you. What are you going to do if he treats you badly after the honeymoon phase? Your friend may accept your kids as his kids. Will your kids accept him as their dad?[/size][/font][/color]

[JAPAN]

repu mrng cheptha decission seriously..........

[littlemoon]

r u an IL member?

[JUJUBI_JULABI]

[quote name='goli soda' timestamp='1361376677' post='1303303953']
poralni gaaliki vadilesthada munda????
[/quote]
cool goli .. water thagu konni ...

[ManOnFire]

accord lo tirigetodiki bentley isthey ela untadi alagey undi papa situation

[dotnetrockz]

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[sherlockholmes_anon]

ori deeni aesallo mrg ayyi 2 kids vunna taruvata ee gokudulu enduko aunty,aa gokinodu edo one night stand tho saripettukunte poyedi

love da lo gola

[sherlockholmes_anon]

repu valla bf pillalni sanka nakinchesi dabbulu dinivi kharchu pedite telustundi aunty ki appudu vere thread vestundi naa jeevitam naakesindi ani

ayina daaniki daani pillalke ga vunkul dabbulu sampadinchedi.

vunkul kuda care teesukovalsindi min romance lekunda life ni ela gaduputunnado,emaina vunte vunkul tho matladite set ayyadi problem.

maari min romance kuda lekunda life enjoy chesa magallu

[Jambhalheart]

One verse from bhagavad gita looks like an answer for this aunty...

ch : 3 verse 35,..

[b]It is far better to discharge one's prescribed duties, even though they may be faultily, than another's duties. Destruction in the course of performing one's own duty is better than engaging in another's duties, for to follow another's path is dangerous.[/b]


in her case [b]one's prescribed duties [/b]means as a wife her duty is to be loyal and faithful to her husband and family...

[b]another's duties [/b]means jumping with that lover fella....

[ManaBadi]

Chii Denne amma yami bathuku wey neede.
For Suppose nee Hubby ki divorce ichave anuko.Nee Boy frd ni Pelli chesukonave anuko 1 month varaku ninnu baga chusukuntadu,
manchi surprises istadu, bed meeda sukham istadu anni bagane vuntayi anuko. travtha 1 month avngane vadiki kuda nee hubby lage mood tagipoyi nee meeda, surprises ivadam apiste yami chestavu. Naa bf kuda nanu baga chusukotam ledu ani yadichi sastava.Malli vere vadini chusukuntava.Ante bagane vundi why do u want to take ur kids with you, ur hubby was a good father where as u r not a good mother who is *** around with another Guy.So divorce ichna better kids ni vala daddy ki ichesaye.

Mee lanti valla janalaki pelli chesukovanate bayam vestundi.