Estory1: Aunty Thinking To Divorce Her Hubby And Go Along With Her Bf

[pachimirchi]

aunty aite endi vay vallaki o sari lechipovalani vundada..valla manobhavalu debbatintai ila matladte

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

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NPR mayya maa aunty antharathma..[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/61nq_1.gif?1352178869[/img].enni seppina aunty tappe leedu asalu...uncledee tappu..
[/quote] saree aunty di thappe.....uncle tappu emi ledaa indulo?

[idiBeZaWaDa]

[quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1361416046' post='1303307414']
saree aunty di thappe.....uncle tappu emi ledaa indulo?
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emtappu undi vayya...[img]http://www.andhrafriends.com/uploads/gallery/album_15/gallery_24383_15_1145.gif[/img]

[sherlockholmes_anon]

[quote name='idiBeZaWaDa' timestamp='1361416242' post='1303307449']

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siddardha ey batch?

2008 aa?

[sherlockholmes_anon]

[quote name='pachimirchi' timestamp='1361415880' post='1303307392']
aunty aite endi vay vallaki o sari lechipovalani vundada..valla manobhavalu debbatintai ila matladte
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lechipovadam enduku vayya aunty ki kavalsindi romance,adedo secret ga bf deggara nundi pondachuga inka complicate chesukokunda life ni [img]http://oi47.tinypic.com/vhth6x.jpg[/img]

[Khadgam]

@NPR...baagane points raise chesaav kaani....unfortunately they are not practical...it doesn't work that way. Husband baaga palakarinchat ledante, vaadiki edo tensions undi untaayi (work related, upbringing of kids, paving the way for bright future...etc...), as the head of the household he thinks more and worries more about future which is his responsibility.

Okka maata lo cheppalante,-----
Relationship should like fish and water....not like a fish and fisherman (in this case, wife is playing fisherman's role by hunting for mistakes from her husaband and making those as excuses for her evil-doings)..

[NALLABALU]

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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]hi frnds,[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I don't knw if iam in the right section but plz need suggestion.to tel u my story short.married for 8 yrs,have 2 beautifull kids-6yr old son,4 yr old daughter.my husband is in IT,too serious kind from the beginning,no romance in life,no special moments to remember,always worried about money,savings,paying bills,which are ofcourse important.8 yrs of marriage .no single gift frm him.if asked his reply"u have the credit card go buy whatever u want.cant even put hand on me when posing for a picture.he is like totally opposite of the kind I always dreamt of a husband -a friend .he is more like some elder person.i got used to it by now.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]recently I met my school friend on FB,yea fb....we used to like each other but never proposed.we laughed at that thought that we were so shy that time.after schooling we parted.no contacts all these 15yrs.recently we met in india.we both flew from different countries to meet in india.we spent 2 days of time together.if someone believe true love it wud be that.as I have known the difference.he is not the first man I have ever met so I know that its not an infatuation.we are deeply in love.he is single,handsome and he wants to marry me and want my kids too as he says they are part of me.and he loves everything that is mine.plz don't think that I am childish here jeopardizing my parents reputation,my kids future etc.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]iam not saying this because I hate my husband,i still respect him but he doesn't.all he wants is my physical being in the night.mechanical life.iam not a machine.i tried telling him to be lil casual in life to enjoy small things in life but he cant.he says that I love being in fairy tales,life is not like that.is life so sad?we have enough money by gods grace.but still my husband is always sad.iam sure he is a very good father to my kids,but y to me he is so rude and y am I taken for granted all the time.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]sometimes I feel the age gap of 8 yrs is the main reason.but have seen people happy like that too.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]this guy feels guilty of loving me as he wud make my hubby sad by taking me.but I feel when my hubby doenst respect me why shud I stay in a loveless marriage.how long wil I suffer for the sake of kids future.i deserve love,respect and fun moments in life.i love my kids and this guy loves them too.he says that he doesn't want kids of his own as he doesn't want to be partial in loving them.and he is so religious that really people do trust him by his words.our families knew each other when we were in school.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]his family always liked me and his parents are ready to accept me as long as I break relation with my hubby and they have no problem with kids as they believe they are gift of gods.hmm..his parents also had love marriage so they understand our situation,they regret that we dint approach each other at the right time.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Now its entirely on me.i scare to death thinking of it.Divorce is a scary word for me.my parents reputation on stake,wil relatives make fun of my parents?wil I be given bad name in the society?i really love this guy as those 2 days are the most happiest moments in my life so far.iam 32,i knw wat is love and wat is infatuation.i really want to be with him.but very scared to confess this to the world.how can I separate my kids from their dad?he wil be shattered.what shud I do?shal I stay in this loveless marriage forever for the sake of my kids and reputation .or live for myself ?I don't know where is my life?isnt divorce that easy?please don't taunt me ,iam not a bad person just need little love and respect in life.please suggest me friends,i cant share this with anyone in my life.please help.[/size][/font][/color]
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she is clear and i pity her for being in sore relationship for so long better she tells her husband and knock off the marriage and go catch up with her dreams its never too late:) and i believe its not correct to punish herself

[idiBeZaWaDa]

[quote name='sherlockholmes_anon' timestamp='1361416359' post='1303307466']

siddardha ey batch?

2008 aa?
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yupp

[god father]

ee story lo andaru aunty ni antunanru kaani okati cheppandi.................asalu husband sarigga unte ee situation vasthadaaa?!!!!

pichi **** na koduku ................evarthi ni denguthunnadoo office lo evadiki telusu ala ani aunty chesthundi correct ani anatam ledu there are always 2 sides of the coin...........and ee aunty 1st aa husband ki cheppali nenu idi naaku meeru ila unte baaguntadi leka pothe nenu happy ga undalenu ani even then husband i do not care ante appudu pillalni pattukoni dengeyyatame better vaadi daggara nunchi VP naa koduku........................................family sarigga undaali ante husband correct gaa undaali once he is in line and knows and understands everyone everyone in the family will be happy and they do not get the idea tht they compromised marrying him or something like tht!!

[Khadgam]

American's/ foriegners envy indian marriage system and it's scuccess. Also, I heard many non-indians are learing Bhagavadgitha and other Indian standard traditions as they feel those as the better standrads of life. But ironically and unfortunately, most of the Indian's are getting addicted to original foreign culture...its all reverse engineering taking place nowadays.

[pachimirchi]

[quote name='sherlockholmes_anon' timestamp='1361416451' post='1303307480']

lechipovadam enduku vayya aunty ki kavalsindi romance,adedo secret ga bf deggara nundi pondachuga inka complicate chesukokunda life ni [img]http://oi47.tinypic.com/vhth6x.jpg[/img]
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[sherlockholmes_anon]

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wat agreed man,she must maintain secret relationship man,thats it,oka vela tana husband ni vadilesi bf tho jump ayina tana bf deeni meeda doubt padutune vuntadu,anduke aunty secret relationship maintain cheyyadam best,benefits from both sides[img]http://oi47.tinypic.com/vhth6x.jpg[/img]

[god father]

[quote name='Khadgam' timestamp='1361418384' post='1303307778']
American's/ foriegners envy indian marriage system and it's scuccess. Also, I heard many non-indians are learing Bhagavadgitha and other Indian standard traditions as they feel those as the better standrads of life. But ironically and unfortunately, most of the Indian's are getting addicted to original foreign culture...its all reverse engineering taking place nowadays.
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80% of traditional marriage nowadays is done just on basis of money status and caste and not based on the older traditional ways of how they match each other!!!! so it is not western culture or anything !!!!

[Khadgam]

[quote name='god father' timestamp='1361423611' post='1303308181']
80% of traditional marriage nowadays is done just on basis of money status and caste and not based on the older traditional ways of how they match each other!!!! so it is not western culture or anything !!!!
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Partly agreed, but western culture does have an impact too...

[god father]

[quote name='Khadgam' timestamp='1361423762' post='1303308196']
agreed, but western culture does have an impact too...
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i do not say it does not but as a proverb goes on

mana bangaram manchi di aithe vere vallani analsina avasaram raadu ani

mana lives happy ga unte then we def do not look for other things!!!! marriage should be like water to fish not a net to the fish!!!