chicago Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 We spoke to some couples to know the common blunders they made (inadvertently) on their first night. Of course, it wasn't just about 'sex' on the first night, as there were numerous other problems which could ruin the first night craze... Boo-boo: A moment in haste and its all waste Without much knowledge about sex, couples encountered awkward situations like premature ejaculation for men or women getting overtly apprehensive about vaginal pain and hymen bleeding. Fear is the biggest factor affecting performance on the first night. Top Tip: Make the act more pleasurable No person is a master sex performer, so indulge in a prolonged foreplay session to make your first night a tender bonding experience. Even if things go wrong, stay calm and try again after some time. Sometimes the wedding stress and the discomfort of an all new environment takes a mental toll. The body and mind may not be fully open for the experience of sexual discovery. Being patient is key. Boo-boo: Experiments can wait Agreed that it's your first time with your partner, but don't get overtly excited. Couples are all geared up to try new acts in bed, but first try and figure out your partner's comfort quotient. Top Tip: Every night is a first night Don't think that the first night is your 'one and only' chance to make love passionately, with time your bond will grow even more special with your better half. The first night is just the beginning of pleasures. Don't fret and waste it in performance anxiety! Boo-boo: Look sexy in tradition It's believed that a bride must remain in her wedding outfit and let the husband come and lift up the veil ('ghoongat'). But modern day brides aren't too interested in donning the ostentatious outfit for too long and the minute they enter the bedroom; they prefer to undress into a sexy lingerie/night gown. Now, no matter how sensuous your night gown maybe, it doesn't have the same charm as a wedding ensemble. This fashion faux pas forms a lesser known, but common goof-up for brides. Top Tip: Gifts Galore As the husband lifts up the veil of the bride's wedding outfit, she's entitled to a surprise gift (for 'mooh dikhayee'). Rings, pendants, necklaces are pass?; think of something out-of-the-blue, maybe a romantic honeymoon package, which she would be least expecting or a glamorous outfit, a transparent, hot dress, which you'd like her to get clad in just for your eyes. Boo-Boo: Motor mouth myth Some might not agree here, but the following is a common occurrence. Your partner is not interested in too much talking, especially on the first night. If you're the new bride, behave like one - blush a little to impart that 'just married' feel. Men should ideally stop narrating a long drawn thesis about their preferences. Being a chatterbox is no less than a slip-up! Ads by Google Indian Wedding Decor Chicago based Indian Decorator Perfect for modern Indian dulhan! www.elegance-decor.com UPS Systems for Servers Power Protection, Auto-Shutdown, Remote Communications & more. tripplite.com/UPS Top Tip: Words say a lot more Don't give each other marathon lessons on your likes and dislikes. Instead writing a romantic letter and keeping it tucked away under the pillow can be a sweet initiating gesture. Open up and talk about your secrets and hidden desires! Boo-boo: Stop acting as strangers, you're married We aren't saying shed all inhibitions and get going for a wild act in bed, but at least initiate the process of getting to know each other. Couples often refrain from talking to each other normally on the first night, presuming it's just meant for 'sex!' Top Tip: Know each other Start an interesting conversation to break the ice. Share moments you enjoyed on your wedding day and build the comfort level. Boo-boo: Let the ambiance do the talking The D-day tiredness is evidently there, but some couples, especially brides, tend to go overboard with the stress factor. This surely is a big turn-off for the other half, as he sees you either sleeping already or all prepared to slip between the sheets without any foreplay act. Just because you're tired! Top Tip: Ambience unlimited It's your first night, so your bed may as well resemble a full bloom garden in spring. Decorate it in a way that it sets the mood right for a romantic nighttime ahead. Create a heady ambience with aromatic oils, fragrant flowers, scented bed sheets and sensual music. It will heal your tired souls. Also try a relaxing foot massage to pamper each other. It will set the stage for the real act. Boo-boo: Forget friends, it's your time to enjoy each other As per tradition, the bride has to give her young in-laws a bribe to move out of the way before she enters the bedroom. Unfortunately, some in their new 'bahu' avatar tend to allow friends and relatives to come in and sit for hours to gossip, without even realising that the poor hubby is waiting to get spend some alone (private) moments. Grow up girls!
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 denemma deeniki kuda oka thread aa battalu teesi positions try chesedaniki [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]every day is a first night if ur a kamist [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]
chicago Posted February 23, 2013 Author Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='sherlockholmes_anon' timestamp='1361639934' post='1303320146'] denemma deeniki kuda oka thread aa battalu teesi positions try chesedaniki [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]every day is a first night if ur a kamist [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img] [/quote] adey akada cheppindhi start action kadhu...muchatta petali tempt cheyali tharvtha cheyali...
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='m8espartan' timestamp='1361640126' post='1303320153'] adey akada cheppindhi start action kadhu...muchatta petali tempt cheyali tharvtha cheyali... [/quote] romance cheyyanide evaru chestaru vayya foreplay most important[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]also okate voogudu kakunda oral kuda vundali[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]
chicago Posted February 23, 2013 Author Report Posted February 23, 2013 pellaina uncles and aunties fake ids tho vachi naina cheppandi ...
chicago Posted February 23, 2013 Author Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='sherlockholmes_anon' timestamp='1361640328' post='1303320165'] romance cheyyanide evaru chestaru vayya foreplay most important[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img]also okate voogudu kakunda oral kuda vundali[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmi%20laugh.gif[/img] [/quote] kani na doubt pelli ayye varaku oral chesthamu kadha enka oral endhuku...
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='m8espartan' timestamp='1361640411' post='1303320169'] kani na doubt pelli ayye varaku oral chesthamu kadha enka oral endhuku... [/quote] denemma akkade vuntundi vayya asalaina enjoyment,super enjoyment,also try all kinda positions,nuvvu cheste gani telidule,get a gf and enjoy
badrii Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 antha sadive opika ledu maama..... adey unte...ee paatiki meetho paatu US lo undevaadini....
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [b] 43 user(s) are reading this topic[/b] [color=#777777][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=3] 5 members, 34 guests, 0 anonymous users[/size][/font][/color] [list] sherlockholmes_anon, Krish, BabuBangaram, Google, SAP_FRESHER, vokatonumberkurrodu [/list] endukuvayya dakkuni chustaru vachi kurrod ki salahalu ichi vellandi [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
badrii Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 official gaa kaadu gaani, chala aipoinaai.....[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='badrii' timestamp='1361640920' post='1303320204'] official gaa kaadu gaani, chala aipoinaai.....[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img] [/quote] tappupani chesav mayyamotham complete cheyyakunda [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]they want that athi [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
badrii Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='sherlockholmes_anon' timestamp='1361641007' post='1303320210'] tappupani chesav mayyamotham complete cheyyakunda [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]they want that athi [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img] [/quote] all are over.... em complete cheyaledu antunnav...? clear gaa cheppu....
sherlockholmes_anon Posted February 23, 2013 Report Posted February 23, 2013 [quote name='badrii' timestamp='1361641237' post='1303320222'] all are over.... em complete cheyaledu antunnav...? clear gaa cheppu.... [/quote] ok post misunderstood chesukunna only tiffin centers anukuni[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]ante officially not annamata[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/--o7mXz3u-j4/T9VVBGzBJAI/AAAAAAAAGo0/kmj8a1-XW2g/s150/PK-1.gif[/img]
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