dotnetrockz Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [indent=1]I dono if i am thinking and acting right..My BP is shooting up and i am in a lot of confusion.k 2-3 Days back i asked my husband for his backup drive to reinstall software and he gave his drive and left on to work.I had a week off so i sat and reinstalled software i wanted ..since couple of months i have been asking my husband for some of my daughters photos that he had in drive and he dint give..so i thought as i have time i will download all pics in my laptop and when i started looking for pics i found some folders where i saw pics of a gal..She is his collegue ..Nothing odd but he had a photoshoot kind in office with her pics..And looking at pic properties it was my husbands phone that was used to take snaps..I never saw my dh doing something like this before..so when i searched Harddrive with that gals name ..i found lot of chat conversations they had..I know people here might jump on me i am taking someones personal space but i had to see one of the conversation and i lost my mind...I saw words he uses to call the gal are Darling...Baby..Babe... [size=7][color=#ff0000]oi pilla( telugu term ) [/color][/size]and so on..That made me read more conversations which made me find lot of things about my husband which i dint know in 5 years of marriage I dint know he smokes. i dint know he eats non veg( we are brahmins)..I dint know he drinks..apart from this he takes care of this gal to the core .. i mean everyday he asks her to come for dinner..tea ..says she looks beautiful..says her if its cold at her desk she can come and sit next to him as temp is good.. says her i fought with my wife on so and so day ..Lot of such stuff...All this might appear silly for some but i dono my heart says something is very wrong When i asked him what is all this he gave reason for everything in most convincing way..Like he says photos are taken from his phone but by someone else... and says he calls dear /darling /baby in general because she is a kind of girl who wont mind even if she is called that way..etc etc...Just few months back when i got cigarette smell from my dh i asked him if he smokes..he promised on my 3 yr old saying he never does..but apparently all his chats prove everyday he smokes and now he admitted he does...He said he has been hiding facts about drinking,smoking,eating non veg etc from me because i make these as big issues.. he said he has tensions because of our marriage and me and my mil relationships which is making him smoke and drink etc...i dono if i am thinking right or wrongly.. I am working in an MNC too...for last 7 years..But still i find him calling girl darling/dear/baby is not acceptable.. Ladies request you to please let me know am i thinking too much..or do you think itcommon and could belive him?[/indent]
peru_edaite_enti Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]Ladies request you to please let me know--[/font][/color][/b][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif]ani anta clear ga ladies ni piliste nuvvendi vaa piscop mayya ni vuncle ni pilistunavu... edo teda kodutundi vayya[/font][/color]
techlover Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/RT-1.gif?1337581442[/img]
jbourne Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 Mid life crisis ankul ki ante Ugadii kada ankul ki kotha pachchadii tinali ani vundii emoo
dotnetrockz Posted April 16, 2013 Author Report Posted April 16, 2013 [quote name='jbourne' timestamp='1366137678' post='1303613376'] Mid life crisis ankul ki ante Ugadii kada ankul ki kotha pachchadii tinali ani vundii emoo [/quote] lol
littlemoon Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [size=4] [/size] [size=4]5 yrs nunchi ala ela [/size]
dotnetrockz Posted April 16, 2013 Author Report Posted April 16, 2013 see she herself answered her questions... [size=5][color=#ff0000]He said he has been hiding facts about drinking,smoking,eating non veg etc from me because i make these as big issues..[/color][/size]
jbourne Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [quote name='littlemoon' timestamp='1366137783' post='1303613388'] [size=4] [/size] [size=4]5 yrs nunchi ala ela [/size] [/quote] Gade mari sagam sagam aa pilla toh five years affair Kaadu marriage ayyi 5yrs
jbourne Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1366137742' post='1303613384'] lol [/quote] Ante endii mama post waste haa
littlemoon Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [quote name='Nissan' timestamp='1366137864' post='1303613398'] see she herself answered her questions... [size=5][color=#ff0000]He said he has been hiding facts about drinking,smoking,eating non veg etc from me because i make these as big issues..[/color][/size] [/quote] tht is just a way of his reasoning... akada epudu chepkunda hide chesadu andindi ga
littlemoon Posted April 16, 2013 Report Posted April 16, 2013 [quote name='jbourne' timestamp='1366137934' post='1303613410'] Gade mari sagam sagam aa pilla toh five years affair Kaadu marriage ayyi 5yrs [/quote] 5yrs pelli ayee nenu kuda ichindi reaction... emekii emi telikunda ela undi
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