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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Dear Friends,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I want to pour my heart out today. I am seriously thinking about divorcing my husband. I am 7 years into my marriage. I feel so lost in this marriage. I have young child. I cry almost every other day because of arguments with my husband. My husband thinks he is a nice man but I don't think he is. He is a master manipulator and tongue twister. I am a relatively straightforward person and cannot catch up with his tongue twisting. I end up feeling frustrated after every argument with him. I cry terribly after the argument. I cannot share anything with him. He snubs me down if I try to share anything with him.[/size][/font][/color]


[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Ours was an arranged marriage, so I didnt really have much chance to know him before marriage. I don't know where to begin my problems. He makes me believe that my life will be difficult without him but he doesn't need me for anything. Is a woman's life difficult after divorce? He is emotionally unavailable. Even for the smallest thing he argues and wins the argument. He continually assaults my character and tries to place the blame on me.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]For example, I was driving back from station to my home. It was late night and for some reason I took the wrong road, his tone was very harsh and scolded me for taking wrong turn. He said I was wasting his time and he said one thing, I replied back and the argument continued. I finally broke down and ended up crying the whole night till next day morning. He didnt even bother asking why I was crying. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Another instance happened, when we wanted to buy furniture, He sends so much money to his parents, we don't even have a bed to sleep. I sleep on the floor. So when ever I ask him to buy a bed, he will reject saying that model is not good this is not good. We had argument for that also where he said he didnt want to waste money on buying the bed, then an argument happened on this one also. I ended up crying for his hurtful words. Ultimately he end up buying a new bed.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]An instance happened when my MIL had fallen sick. When she had fallen sick she cursed me very badly (she told me I should die and more). So I felt hurt and tried to confide in my husband hoping he would console me. He he was very cold and indifferent. He made excuse that his mother is sick so she cursed otherwise she is very mild. Later he said my MIL fell sick because some one had called and had spoken badly about my character, so she couldn't take the shock that her DILs character is so bad that she cursed me and fell sick. Trust me I have not dated/flirted with any guy.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He completely, completely ignores me when his people are around. Later on when I question him, he minces his words and proves me wrong. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He is very superficial and used to ridicule me when I had on put on weight during pregnancy. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When I plan to invite my friends to my home, he tells that I should invite only pretty ones. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I am feeling horrible about his behavior. Is divorce the solution. Will I be better off if I divorce him.[/size][/font][/color]

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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When I plan to invite my friends to my home, he tells that I should invite only pretty ones. [/size][/font][/color]

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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When I plan to invite my friends to my home, he tells that I should invite only pretty ones. [/size][/font][/color]--lol , [font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#333333"]He is emotionally unavailable[/color][/size][/font]-- lol.. ekkada patuku vastaru vayya ee dialogues

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evado biscuit batch unnattu unnadu... pelli ayyi 7 years aina inka comforter lo ela padukuntunnadu pellam tho..kakkurthi saale gaadu

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She is exxagitaring., mogudiki yaekkado kaalindi .anduke ilaa treat chestunnadu. Yediste mogudu ice ayipotadu anukondi, he is Intellegent fellow.bend vvaledu.
Deeniki situation ardham kaavatledu ., amma, baabu baaga yekkistunnaru deeniki.
7 yrs pellayyi divorce tesukunte, property lo sagam vastundani deni sketch.
Taravaata deni pani kukkalu chinchina vistare., anni zari poyi vuntayi,yevadu dekadu deni vayipu,
siblings have their own head ache.Deeniki rogam vaste malli ee mogudiki phone chestundi.
Than it is too late.
STOP complaining.

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my husband is a tongue twister aa [img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Ph8g5rvtrPo/UYQZgfuBEDI/AAAAAAAAEIs/wivnr-mKRgw/s1600/brahmilaughing.gif[/img]

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Vuncle nenu vesina thread choosi koncham reply ivvava... [img]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb79wa1sq11rtc9of.gif[/img]

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[quote name='Geeta' timestamp='1369090856' post='1303777353']
She is exxagitaring., mogudiki yaekkado kaalindi .anduke ilaa treat chestunnadu. Yediste mogudu ice ayipotadu anukondi, he is Intellegent fellow.bend vvaledu.
Deeniki situation ardham kaavatledu ., amma, baabu baaga yekkistunnaru deeniki.
7 yrs pellayyi divorce tesukunte, property lo sagam vastundani deni sketch.
Taravaata deni pani kukkalu chinchina vistare., anni zari poyi vuntayi,yevadu dekadu deni vayipu,
siblings have their own head ache.Deeniki rogam vaste malli ee mogudiki phone chestundi.
Than it is too late.
STOP complaining.
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.just tell me are you Aries outside?

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[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1369086762' post='1303777159']
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When I plan to invite my friends to my home, he tells that I should invite only pretty ones. [/size][/font][/color]--lol , [font="Verdana"][size="2"][color="#333333"]He is emotionally unavailable[/color][/size][/font]-- lol.. ekkada patuku vastaru vayya ee dialogues
[/quote]lol

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