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[rapchik]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Hi , I am here to ask for your advice again. This time it is about how to generally discuss and resolve an issue with an uncaring and egoistic husband. I don't want to fight or cry, just want him to listen and understand my feelings.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]The problem here is that he does not care if I am upset about something. I was feeling bad about us not going anywhere during the long weekend. He does not plan anything and dismissed all my suggestions. We just spent the whole weekend at home. So I was quietly lying down in the bedroom last night, did not feel hungry and skipped dinner. Let me clarify that this was not a fight, I did not even tell him I was feeling bad because of this. We did not argue or anything. He just happily kept on watching TV, browsing, eating what I had cooked in the morning and generally ignored me.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Before sleeping (he came in at 12), he irritatedly asked what was the matter (after ignoring me for 6 hours). At that time, I was just too hurt that he is least bothered about me being sad so I did not say anything. Just closed my eyes. He went to sleep.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]This morning, again he started ignoring me and avoiding me. Making me feel like it is wrong to feel upset about ANYTHING. He went to work without saying a word. I am sure he will come home late after eating out and again happily ignore me. Unless I just forget everything and beg his forgiveness for daring to act sad for one day.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My question is: is there any way I can nicely point out to him that it would feel good if he cared about my feelings, to ask me what is wrong, and to take some effort into fixing it? I am very scared that if I said why I was feeling bad, he will immediately blow up and say I am blaming him and that he is not at fault. It will make the situation worse.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]From your experience, please advice me how to behave now. I want him to care like other husbands do, console me when I am feeling upset, do something to make me happy. How to act so that he will do all these things?[/size][/font][/color]

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