Estory -1 : 6 Days Lo Divorce Tesukovdam Ella ?

[rapchik]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]hi ladies,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I need help. I am in such situation that I don't know I should leave my husband or do as they want me too.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Here, my story I am law school student taking online classes, working by taking tutoring session at home making enough money to pay my school fee. I am also doing house work and cooking etc.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Husband on the other hand goes to work at 5 am and work till 3pm. He preparing for his dental exam first part. Last 16 months of our marriage he been preparing parttime and working full time.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I am 30 years old he is 30 years old too. I want to have at least one baby before even I turn 31 or 32. But my husband wants me to work earn atleast $2500.00 before even think about talk about having family plan.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My father in law also asked me over phone that I make $3000 and pay half house bill. Also, I have been married with him last 17 months. Whenever I talk about family plan he just gets mad at me and he says I want to make my career first before having a baby. I understand but here in USA medicare is an option to avoid financial burden of baby but my husband is not interesting about it.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He wants to pass exam and take care his parents ..he does not care about or making plan about having baby or our future.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]since early marriage very 2nd month I asked him about family planning and future planning of his career. He fought and yell at me by saying I work full time what the **** you think how I can manage my study ,...and don't talk abt family plan just take care my parents who are living not worry about baby who is not exit.....that's the answer he gave when first time I asked him about it.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Also, our marriage is a love marriage but there were a time my husband raise his hands on me, hurt me, pushed me and i creid a lot he never said to me always asked from me first and than only said after i said. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]at times i didn't even make any mistake just talk in normal he got many times made at me regading small stuff.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]i am so much not feeling okay right now. i told my parents my mom think i should leave him and move on with my life..my family thinks my inlaw only want me to earn money and forget about my studies. my husband first year of my wedding said no need to work but his dad always asked me over phone to find job..but when in turn i told my husband that ur dad always tell me find full time job so my husband yell at me and said talk to my dad and don't tell me about it. we both living alone and his parents is in india.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]now, 2 days back my husband clearly told me go earn $2500 before talking about having a baby.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]i need your advice what do you think i must do..please advice me i am trying to keep this post short that's why i am not including many things.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]At times my husband care about me when m on my monthly periods or anything, he wash dishes after dinner, show affection if ever i want to eat out he takes me....but there are times when i talk about future he just fought with me. He cares only about his family and relative and doesn't care about my family much.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Now advice me...I should work for next 1 year fulltime and help my husband to pass his exam and in time my studies will scrafice or i should not trust him and must leave him...??i am making money enough to pay my tution fee only for now but now my inlaws and husband want me work for more hours. My study for them not important that's what i figured.....please advice??/[/size][/font][/color]



[color=#ff0000][b][size=5]FLash Flash ...... After 3 Days --->>[/size][/b][/color]


[b] One more shoking news about my husband[/b]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]okay IL friends,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]You read my previous post...Now today a shoking news I gota know my husband chating with some girl just as he was before our marriage talk to me on chat. : he is talking to her like her lover......he also shared wit her about our fights, argument said bad stuff about my family...also he lied to her that he buy for me car, lease home for me and I am not doing anything except staying home ......[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]however, I purchased car for him, I helped him to settle in usa and he telling that gal he did all these....[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]when I asked him abt that chating he said I was in masti mood that's why I was talking like that ...on other hand I remembered long ago he said that gal is his sister but when I read their conversation my husband telling her I love u baby, hugs u tight wont let you go etc..... now is this sis and bro relationship[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]my husband saying he will not do again....but m totaling feeling down, confuse, worry and as you all know my husband is abuse too..my marriage was love marriage but love is seems I only have for him .....[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I worry and very very sad. help me please he asking me forgve me..whom with he talking that gal also married gal.....my husband chating to her since 2010 and last chat with her was march 2013 ....in previous chat he complain about me to her....[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Also, what about his caring after food washing dished, at time of monthly period he look after me by giving milk, buy grocery sometimes when I ask him and care about stuff I want to purchase, give me his salary because I have bank account, all light, car, house, electricity etc all my name so I manage payments. So, that's not love????????? someone please tell me why I am confuse why? GOD HELP ME...[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]now advice me please ladies... no words thanks all in advance for reading and suggesting.[/size][/font][/color]



[color=#ff0000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=6]After 6 days [/size][/font][/color][color=#000000][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=6]story contines --->>>[/size][/font][/color]


[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Dear IL,[/size][/font][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Some of you have suggested me to leave my hubby as per his abuser behavior. Last 6 days since his last conversation regarding asking me to earn $2500 in order to think about family plan and support him to do his study.....[/size][/font][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Since that day I discussed with you all and with my family shared all my experience with my husband in last 18 months. I have been talking to him in limited manner like eat food, or want to drink tea. etc not much no kissing and hugging since last Tuesday...Today is my bday...So, last night at 12:00 my hubby wished me by coming closer to me I pretend m sleepy and I have pain so he let me sleep. [/size][/font][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]In morning, he left new HTC iphone in gift wrapper with greeting card. Also, he bought for me cake, top and pant, and bought biryani from outside to give me surprised. [/size][/font][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I said after receiving all gift just thank you and did not hug him or kiss him. I stayed as I was before my bday. he tried to touch me but I changed topic...[/size][/font][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]On the other hand, I filed divorce...finally today... Now m confuse what if he loves me and may change but my family still thinks whatever he does to be nice with you he will not change its all just time being. He will again show his color by raising hand at me and putting pressure on me to earn more money etc. [/size][/font][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I know you all also suggested that my husband may not going to change..I am again feeling confused because his gift and greeting cards, than online ecard, facebook wishes all making me to rethink......[/size][/font][/font][/color]

[b][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think.[/size][/font][/color][/b]


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[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Please help me suggest me.. I m not feeling good ... again for long post![/size][/font][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]..I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think[/size][/font][/font][/color]

[k2s]

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[rapchik]

[color=#ff0000][size=6]After 6 days [/size][/color][color=#000000][size=6]story contines --->>>[/size][/color]


[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Dear IL,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Some of you have suggested me to leave my hubby as per his abuser behavior. Last 6 days since his last conversation regarding asking me to earn $2500 in order to think about family plan and support him to do his study.....[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Since that day I discussed with you all and with my family shared all my experience with my husband in last 18 months. I have been talking to him in limited manner like eat food, or want to drink tea. etc not much no kissing and hugging since last Tuesday...Today is my bday...So, last night at 12:00 my hubby wished me by coming closer to me I pretend m sleepy and I have pain so he let me sleep. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]In morning, he left new HTC iphone in gift wrapper with greeting card. Also, he bought for me cake, top and pant, and bought biryani from outside to give me surprised. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I said after receiving all gift just thank you and did not hug him or kiss him. I stayed as I was before my bday. he tried to touch me but I changed topic...[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]On the other hand, I filed divorce...finally today... Now m confuse what if he loves me and may change but my family still thinks whatever he does to be nice with you he will not change its all just time being. He will again show his color by raising hand at me and putting pressure on me to earn more money etc. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I know you all also suggested that my husband may not going to change..I am again feeling confused because his gift and greeting cards, than online ecard, facebook wishes all making me to rethink......[/size][/font][/color]

[b][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think.[/size][/font][/color][/b]


[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/1s5qn.gif?1370668636[/img]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Please help me suggest me.. I m not feeling good ... again for long post![/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]..I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think[/size][/font][/color]

[allarjun_fan]

first deeni story ne cinema theesi....premikulu andhariki free show vesi chupinchaali....

[rapchik]

[quote name='Scrooge' timestamp='1372369102' post='1303897585']
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[k2s]

vuuuuuu

[NENINTHEY_]

[quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1372369284' post='1303897602']
[color=#ff0000][size=6]After 6 days [/size][/color][color=#000000][size=6]story contines --->>>[/size][/color]


[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Dear IL,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Some of you have suggested me to leave my hubby as per his abuser behavior. Last 6 days since his last conversation regarding asking me to earn $2500 in order to think about family plan and support him to do his study.....[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Since that day I discussed with you all and with my family shared all my experience with my husband in last 18 months. I have been talking to him in limited manner like eat food, or want to drink tea. etc not much no kissing and hugging since last Tuesday...Today is my bday...So, last night at 12:00 my hubby wished me by coming closer to me I pretend m sleepy and I have pain so he let me sleep. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]In morning, he left new[/size][/font][/color][size=6][color=#FF0000][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif] HTC iphone[/font][/color][/size][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] in gift wrapper with greeting card. Also, he bought for me cake, top and pant, and bought biryani from outside to give me surprised. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I said after receiving all gift just thank you and did not hug him or kiss him. I stayed as I was before my bday. he tried to touch me but I changed topic...[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]On the other hand, I filed divorce...finally today... Now m confuse what if he loves me and may change but my family still thinks whatever he does to be nice with you he will not change its all just time being. He will again show his color by raising hand at me and putting pressure on me to earn more money etc. [/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I know you all also suggested that my husband may not going to change..I am again feeling confused because his gift and greeting cards, than online ecard, facebook wishes all making me to rethink......[/size][/font][/color]

[b][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think.[/size][/font][/color][/b]


[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/1s5qn.gif?1370668636[/img]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Please help me suggest me.. I m not feeling good ... again for long post![/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]..I filed divorce today on my bday! Keep me in your prayers!!! God Help me to think[/size][/font][/color]
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[tom bhayya]

amma deenamma IL post vesi valla suggestions ki 6 ays lo divorce file chesindhaa

[ariel]

mothaniki IL vallu divorce ippinchindaka nidrapoyinattu leru ga [img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-9TwzE4NUd5Q/UWK4KABotKI/AAAAAAAAMFI/D9ucsU_j0Hs/s150/JP-5.gif[/img]

[k2s]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1372369593' post='1303897627']
amma deenamma IL post vesi valla suggestions ki 6 ays lo divorce file chesindhaa
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[quote name='ariel' timestamp='1372369618' post='1303897629']
mothaniki IL vallu divorce ippinchindaka nidrapoyinattu leru ga [img]https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-9TwzE4NUd5Q/UWK4KABotKI/AAAAAAAAMFI/D9ucsU_j0Hs/s150/JP-5.gif[/img]
[/quote]IL aa majaka [img]http://oi54.tinypic.com/6iwfmu.jpg[/img]

[Simple123]

Varini. Ee lavada lo gola endi ra babu .. Vaniki paisalu kavali daniki bidda kavali .. Compromise avva vachu kada vadu .. Eppudu vaniki Pelham pothe Etla ra

[Simple123]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1372369593' post='1303897627']
amma deenamma IL post vesi valla suggestions ki 6 ays lo divorce file chesindhaa
[/quote]

Akkada antha feminist le bhayya .. Naku kuda account undi akkada

[rapchik]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1372369593' post='1303897627']
amma deenamma IL post vesi valla suggestions ki 6 ays lo divorce file chesindhaa
[/quote]


Guys


[color=#ff0000][b][size=5]FLash Flash ...... After 3 Days --->>[/size][/b][/color]


[b] One more shoking news about my husband[/b]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]okay IL friends,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]You read my previous post...Now today a shoking news I gota know my husband chating with some girl just as he was before our marriage talk to me on chat. : he is talking to her like her lover......he also shared wit her about our fights, argument said bad stuff about my family...also he lied to her that he buy for me car, lease home for me and I am not doing anything except staying home ......[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]however, I purchased car for him, I helped him to settle in usa and he telling that gal he did all these....[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]when I asked him abt that chating he said I was in masti mood that's why I was talking like that ...on other hand I remembered long ago he said that gal is his sister but when I read their conversation my husband telling her I love u baby, hugs u tight wont let you go etc..... now is this sis and bro relationship[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]my husband saying he will not do again....but m totaling feeling down, confuse, worry and as you all know my husband is abuse too..my marriage was love marriage but love is seems I only have for him .....[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I worry and very very sad. help me please he asking me forgve me..whom with he talking that gal also married gal.....my husband chating to her since 2010 and last chat with her was march 2013 ....in previous chat he complain about me to her....[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Also, what about his caring after food washing dished, at time of monthly period he look after me by giving milk, buy grocery sometimes when I ask him and care about stuff I want to purchase, give me his salary because I have bank account, all light, car, house, electricity etc all my name so I manage payments. So, that's not love????????? someone please tell me why I am confuse why? GOD HELP ME...[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]now advice me please ladies... no words thanks all in advance for reading and suggesting.[/size][/font][/color]

[k2s]

[quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1372369883' post='1303897649']
Akkada antha feminist le bhayya .. Naku kuda account undi akkada
[/quote]are u an IL'ite outside ?

[ariel]

[quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1372369832' post='1303897647']
Varini. Ee lavada lo gola endi ra babu .. Vaniki paisalu kavali daniki bidda kavali .. Compromise avva vachu kada vadu .. [b]Eppudu vaniki Pelham pothe Etla ra[/b]
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bhayya control ekkuva emotional avaku ipudu malli nuv suicide decission ki pomaku[img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/GSB3.gif?1370457845[/img]