rapchik Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [indent=1][font=arial,helvetica,sans-serif][size=4]My family consists of my MUM & Grandmum & sister. My dad never supported us financially or emotionally from the beginning. He lived with us but always schemed against us & always fought with my mom. He only wanted our money & property. He tortured us mentally always. My mom only tolerated this cos she thought i won;t get a good proposal if she got divorced. I got married at the age of 24 yrs to a healthcare professional arranged marraige. I was studying at that time so we hadn't started living together but only visited each other. Before marraige itself the husbnd & IN laws were ok with my education & studying. We were just getting to know one another , at first everything was rosy n all. Then the problems started my husband turned out to be a slave to his parents as in he would say all that i told him to his parents, He could not do anything independently , He was 34 yrs old & was dropped to his workplace by his dad, He even took thier help to book tickets to our honeymoon. When i visited his place his dad would not allow us to go out, eat from out , he controlled everything. My husband's every breath was controlled by his dad. It was unbearable. My FIL even tried to verbally abuse my mom. I tried to explain things to my HUSbnd but to no avail. He didn't support me even 1% but joined with his dad & started fighting witth me. He put my calls on loudspeaker & said he wud record it & keep it as proof against me. He stopped calling me & when i asked him to meet me in person & talk he never came to meet me. I even suggested meeting outside my house without anyone knowing but he never came. Finally we ended up in divorce. during this time i also came to know that my dad was involved with my INlaws in scheming against us, badmouthing my mum & me & making them against us. WE wre vry hurt & my mom divorced my dad as he had spoilt my life. 6 months aftermy divorce i met a nice guy named V through a matrimonial site & we became friends. He was a divorcee too. His wife had left him as she didn't want a family, kids only intrested in career thats wat he told me. V told me that he doesn't smoke or drink at home only socially. V had a awesome job, was not very goodlukin but was talking honestly & jovial or so i thought. He made me laugh. WE fell in love & wanted to get married. But his parents were against us getting married reason said was my family problems. I told everything to V frankly & said marry me only if ur parents agree. V struggled to convince his parents, once he came home drunk & told me his parents were forcing him to marry sum1else i told him to decide on his own. I told him i love him but i cant force him to marry me without his parents consent. I should have noticed his drinknig but he told he did so only becos of his parents pressure so that he wud get confidence to face them. V convinced his parents & we got married. Well it was a wonderful time after marrying him, we wre head over heels in love & wre vry happy being with one another. But happy endings never last na. In came my evil MIL & FIL. My MIL & FIL started coming frequently to our place. ( note they originally stayed at native place own house) & they would stay on for days on end. MY MIL would fill my DH head with nonsense & create fights between us. My Inlaws would fume seeing the love between me n my DH. mY DH V was very expressive too so they were seething jealous. My MIL wud orrder me to do certain things, superstitions etc but i didn't mind as i was totally happy. She was jealous if my DH V wud give me any gifts & wanted them for herself. TUrns out my MIL is possessive about my DH like hell. She wud insist on serving fud to him herself, & everything like that . That too i never botherd i thought so be it if that makes her happy. I was still happy as V was showering me with love & care. WE wre on top of the world, magical bond really. I wud do every little thing for him though he was only towards his work. All house hold responsibility on me. He wud give me cash , had maid but won;t take any responsibility like buying provisions & all.[/size][/font][/indent]
rapchik Posted June 27, 2013 Author Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1372369969' post='1303897658'] 34 yrs vadiki 24 yrs pilla na [/quote] Karuvu bhayya karuvu [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2zq8kzt.gif?1290146650[/img]
Simple123 Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1372370209' post='1303897671'] Karuvu bhayya karuvu [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2zq8kzt.gif?1290146650[/img] [/quote] Eppude life lo confidence vastundi .. Naku pilla dorkiditundi ani
rapchik Posted June 27, 2013 Author Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1372370259' post='1303897677'] Eppude life lo confidence vastundi .. Naku pilla dorkiditundi ani [/quote] picha lite...adhi 34years vadini chesukuntundhi ante ...thanaki kuda edho flash back ...or front future untadhi kadha..... lekapothe edu pedha andhagadu ani 34 ki pelli chesukuntadhi [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/brahmam_pothu_laga.gif?1290348798[/img]
Idly Vishwanatham Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1372370380' post='1303897684'] picha lite...adhi 34years vadini chesukuntundhi ante ...thanaki kuda edho flash back ...or front future untadhi kadha..... lekapothe edu pedha andhagadu ani 34 ki pelli chesukuntadhi [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/brahmam_pothu_laga.gif?1290348798[/img] [/quote] Ilantivi chusinappude mana CITI gadiki inka pelli ayye chance undi anipistondi bhayya
Idly Vishwanatham Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1372371271' post='1303897716'] vuu [/quote] Ahhh
Maximus Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='Simple123' timestamp='1372370259' post='1303897677'] Eppude life lo confidence vastundi .. Naku pilla dorkiditundi ani [/quote] [center][url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Ph8g5rvtrPo/UYQZgfuBEDI/AAAAAAAAEIs/wivnr-mKRgw/s1600/brahmilaughing.gif"][img]http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Ph8g5rvtrPo/UYQZgfuBEDI/AAAAAAAAEIs/wivnr-mKRgw/s1600/brahmilaughing.gif[/img][/url][/center]
rapchik Posted June 27, 2013 Author Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='Idly Vishwanatham' timestamp='1372371279' post='1303897717'] Ilantivi chusinappude mana CITI gadiki inka pelli ayye chance undi anipistondi bhayya [/quote] naaku mathram hope ledhu.... adu aa calif sside potahdu anta.... edho rule pass ayindhi anta kadha...allu alleye chesukovachu anta .apati nudi entheye [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/Brahmi-3.gif?1370138323[/img]
Idly Vishwanatham Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1372371419' post='1303897721'] naaku mathram hope ledhu.... adu aa calif sside potahdu anta.... edho rule pass ayindhi anta kadha...allu alleye chesukovachu anta .apati nudi entheye [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/2013/Brahmi-3.gif?1370138323[/img] [/quote] Avuna! Okka sari aadu ippudu ekkada unnado kanukko. Ninna news lo court bayata teerpu ichaka g@ys antha dancing.. News lo aa video chupinchadu, okadu acham mana CITI lagane unnadu
Maximus Posted June 27, 2013 Report Posted June 27, 2013 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1372371419' post='1303897721'] naaku mathram hope ledhu.... adu aa calif sside potahdu anta.... edho rule pass ayindhi anta kadha...allu alleye chesukovachu anta .apati nudi entheye [/quote] [url="http://24.media.tumblr.com/677bdd9ec2e79e62990a033286467603/tumblr_mjq8reQSIL1s2mz5io5_r2_250.gif"][img]http://24.media.tumblr.com/677bdd9ec2e79e62990a033286467603/tumblr_mjq8reQSIL1s2mz5io5_r2_250.gif[/img][/url]
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