Estory -1 : New Estory

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[indent=1][color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]This is my first post, just created an account on IL. But nonetheless, I have been a lurker for quite some time. Reading about information and issues and how to deal with them. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I have been happily married for the last 1.2 yrs. DH and I moved to US after marriage. Mine is a little weird issue (some may thing) so I want to apologize up front for according to some this is a little TMI.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Being recently married, both of us have decided that we do not want any kid for at least 3 years. So we use family planning options. So my issue begins here:[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]After marriage he wanted me to use BCP but I was against it due to the side effects. DH's take was that if I take the pill, IC can be done naturally meaning without condom for him. But I did not want to take the pill, so he did not pursue me much. For the first 6 mths he kept using condoms.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]After that I went to OB/GNY for yearly check up and she prescribed me BCP in case I wanted it. Again DH asked me to take it and I decided to give it a shot with assurances from Dr. as well that I should not be experiencing any side effects.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I started taking them and DH insisted on have IC naturally since I was protected but I was not very convinced so asked for some more time, which he agreed to (he is nice person that way). After taking the pills for almost 3 mths he kept insisting that we dont have to use the condom anymore. But I feel more secure when he uses it since I don't want to be pregnant so soon and it gives double protection.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]So here are my 2 issues:[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]1. Though I take BCP regularly now I want DH to keep using condom, which he is refusing to do and he things I am being paranoid and BCP is good enough. He thinks if we are married and there is other protection we should be doing it without condom like normal people. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]2. If we do it without condoms, I don't like the mess it creates afterwards. It disgust me and leaves me wanting to take a shower to get it off me. DH also thinks I am over reacting here. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]This thing is causing a little conflict and tension in bed for last 3 mths. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Ladies do you think I am over reacting? All I want is a peace of mind knowing nothing unexpected is going to happen and don't want to deal with the "mess" after IC without condom. [/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]What do you suggest?[/size][/font][/color][/indent]

[TOM_BHAYYA]

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[JUJUBI_JULABI]

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[Idly Vishwanatham]

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[k2s]

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[bulleye]

e BCP lu endi DH lu endi vaya...inpermation is wealth.....

[rambabu304]

[quote name='bulleye' timestamp='1373659944' post='1303946559']
e BCP lu endi DH lu endi vaya...inpermation is wealth.....
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BCP antey tablet anukunta.. DH is dear husband

[moviefan]

Acronyms list please...

[tom bhayya]

[quote name='rambabu304' timestamp='1373660296' post='1303946574']
BCP antey tablet anukunta.. DH is dear husband
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birth control pill

[k2s]

[quote name='rambabu304' timestamp='1373660296' post='1303946574']
BCP antey tablet anukunta.. DH is dear husband
[/quote]just read the estory man.....

[Silver_mani]

[quote name='Alexander' timestamp='1373660633' post='1303946589']

birth control pill
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[maverickpuli]

endo vinta problems vintene vantiki vastundi adi cheste mida padada padte snanam cheyala endo nayana pellenduke cheskunedi us ki radanika ne yevva

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[kakatiya]

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