Estory -3

[k2s]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Hi friends,[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3] I am in a abisive realtionship and would like to get some ideas on my situation. Now a house wife and job seeker before a sw engineer in the IT field for 6 years in 2005.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Everytime I dont agree to his decision he hits me ( it doesnt hurt but my selfesteem goes down )and he makes me feel ashamed by calling my parents and his parents and siblings and narrating everything and proving how mean I am to him.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Most of the time problem arises whenever he is in short of money.*[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He is very selfish , can spend any amount on himself saying i am earning this much i can and i will spend on myself.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]But we (myself and my kids 7and 5) cant even to go for a restaurant on our own wish (only when he decides) If i ask for dress there will be 100 reminders do i need now. But he will spend lavishly when he buys somehting for us or himself but we cant choose that.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]So where his earnings go ... 2 loans for the house we live big one and far from the kids school and his office. one loan for the house in india and one more bought in india still waiting for the final payment. Credit card is always full with credits used for buying car.*[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]We skipped indian vaccation since 2 year because *of lack of money. I am begging him to sell the house and to rent a smaller house. He says * I dont like him having house and jealous of him. Sometimes he says its difficult to rent a house in the new country (i know its pain taking but its possible)[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Everyone at India thinks he is richyrich having house all over , i am the person dominating him but thats totally untrue.*[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Now i have got a sommer job and kids have 2 months vaccation, its planned like one month they will goto summer school*and the second month my husband will take a vaccation and spend with them. Already one month they spent in the school and now its my husband turn to take care of them when i am working.[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]We made this plan thinking this summer job will be nice opportunity to build network ( i.e, only possible in august as people are on vaccation now) and find a job here.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Sometime last week his dad has got disc slip. My husband wanted to go to India , as he is short of money he dont want to take kids with him. He wnated me to take a break for 2 weeks and take care of kids while he is away in India. I said i cant take a break for 2 weeks instead *cant he just start on some friday and comeback week after. He is saying his dad has booked a car which is due for delivery so he *has to stay there. I am furious , is that so important than my summer job. I also asked even my mom had angio done but he didnt even bother to ask do i need to go and i didnt insist as well as my bro was there and my dad is in good health to take care. I pointed out that now[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He didnt like me saying no to his plan and started telling me that i wont be ok until he calls my *parents and say about me *which he does whenever there is a problem between us. I started begging him to leave them at peace (i got provoked by then) he started hitting me and i told him i am going to call the police ( i just say everytime i have never dared to do it one time)[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He called his sister and saying all nonsense about me that i am not letting him to visit his father, i am a spend thrift and he has no money because of me...[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Had many such problems in these 8 years and have asked my parents to help me out. Even one time i did go to India saying i will never cpme back 3 years ago. My parents convince me and sent me back to the same hell again.[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]no regular income for me and 2 small kids *dunnowhat to do..[/size][/font][/color]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Literally isolated from friends. I cannot invite anyone..what can one do in these circumstances and keep myself up ?[/size][/font][/color]

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

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[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Everytime I dont agree to his decision he hits me ( it doesnt hurt but my selfesteem goes down )[/size][/font][/color]
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Just leave him

[sid_22]

Ye family lo undavu godavalu ilantivi.... aunty ekkuva chestundi....[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-BJarN0Vxap8/UUeyCg4BADI/AAAAAAAAKpM/JESt53Nf2Hg/s150/Brahmi-15.gif[/img]

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

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Ye family lo undavu godavalu ilantivi.... aunty ekkuva chestundi....[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-BJarN0Vxap8/UUeyCg4BADI/AAAAAAAAKpM/JESt53Nf2Hg/s150/Brahmi-15.gif[/img]
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kottadam endi vayya....manishaa inkemannanaa aadu [img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/-S9HnMdwJ0UA/UWtlYsuYo1I/AAAAAAAAMYY/-GrOHraIxOk/s150/MS.gif[/img]

[psycopk]

simple.. uncle goes to india.. k2s uncle takes aunty and kids to vacation with his own expenses.. all problems solved..

[Anta Assamey]

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simple.. uncle goes to india.. k2s uncle takes aunty and kids to vacation with his own expenses.. all problems solved..
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U waiting at Vacation spot...[img]http://i47.tinypic.com/4s086h.gif[/img]

[madhub8]

entooo pelli aithe inni kastalaa...

[paampachak]

db members please donate some money for her to send them back to India wat say k2s mama

[Goldboy]

[quote name='sid_22' timestamp='1373655612' post='1303946139']
Ye family lo undavu godavalu ilantivi.... aunty ekkuva chestundi....[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-BJarN0Vxap8/UUeyCg4BADI/AAAAAAAAKpM/JESt53Nf2Hg/s150/Brahmi-15.gif[/img]
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cheppatam veasy ne vayya.... papam badha padithe thelusthundi emo.... vaadu kottakoodadhu

[dennis]

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[Jammy]

evadi gola vadidhi.............

leave stupid bastard....

[idiBeZaWaDa]

[quote name='Nellore Pedda reddy' timestamp='1373655676' post='1303946146']


kottadam endi vayya....manishaa inkemannanaa aadu [img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/-S9HnMdwJ0UA/UWtlYsuYo1I/AAAAAAAAMYY/-GrOHraIxOk/s150/MS.gif[/img]
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Kottina naaku ananaledu antundi kada...ante edo ala dippameda kotuntadu...aunty extral chestundi

[k2s]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1373656066' post='1303946192']
simple.. uncle goes to india.. k2s uncle takes aunty and kids to vacation with his own expenses.. all problems solved..
[/quote]akkada nunchi aunty ni nuvvu pick chesukundamani aa [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=4][img]http://www.brahmanandamgifs.com/Images/GIFs/Others/1.gif[/img][/size][/font][/color][color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][size=4] [/size][/font][/color]

[maverickpuli]

ne yemma inta psycho lk lu unara desam la chi

[rapchik]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1373656066' post='1303946192']
simple.. uncle goes to india.. k2s uncle takes aunty and kids to vacation with his own expenses.. all problems solved..
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[quote name='Scrooge' timestamp='1373661947' post='1303946674']
akkada nunchi aunty ni nuvvu pick chesukundamani aa [color=#282828][font=helvetica, arial, sans-serif][img]http://www.brahmanandamgifs.com/Images/GIFs/Others/1.gif[/img][/font][/color]
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