jaffatingboy Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 Hi Friends, This is an imaginary scenario, which 99.99% of us will never have to face. Please note that this thread is not for the faint-hearted..only if you have a lot of guts and fortitude, you may go ahead. Kindly note that I do not wish to hurt anyone by this. Since I want both the ladies and gentlemen to participate, I have kept this as gender-neutral as possible. ABC is a well-settled middle-aged retired person, with liberal thinking, a good marriage, financial security and commands respect in the community. Grown-up children : a boy and a girl are well-settled in their careers. Broaching the topic of marriage of the elder offspring (XYZ) is always met with excuses, followed by resistance. Naturally, as any parent would, ABC assumes that the child is in love, and keeps pestering for more information. On knowing the truth, ABC is completely shattered..In fact, that would be an understatement.. This is what the child had told about the person s/he loved sincerely, and wished to marry: Own brother / sister. Of course this is absolutely blasphemous.. But this is happening.. and is the truth and not some bad nightmare which will disappear in the morning. To add fuel to the fire, the siblings also had intimate relationship with each other, and have firmly stated that they will NOT be without each other. They are aware of all possible medical and legal complications as well. Putting yourself in ABC's shoes, share your inputs on how would you react to this situation. Please Note - sibling marriages were common amongst the ancient Egyptian royalty. Waiting to hear from you. Assalu ilanti thought jaanalaki ela vasthunayooo..... SOURCE :IL PAGENO:8
Teluguammayi Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 Game of thrones series choosi avchuntayi ee thoughts.... i dont know how i will react ..but chala badhakaramaina vishyam parents ki.... gunde badhallu ayipotundhi
Piscop Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [img]http://oi56.tinypic.com/2s6awcz.jpg[/img]
rapchik Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 North India lo Cousins in chesukuntaru.... Manamu Ikada Mummy vala sis ter daughter ni sister anukutam kani akada koni chotla... valani chesukuntaru ...
Doola Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 group discussion ki topic ichhinattu endi vaa idi
ayyoru Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 to start with, this is a very hypothetical and tangential situation. You are asking a solution, putting ABC in a very pitiable and unfortunate situation and putting the entire blame on the siblings. you are putting thoughts into the readers mind even before letting them think. coming to the problem: they should be living under a rock to develop such a relationship. if they were in the society and sharing all the other things that siblings do, watch TV, talk about societal norms etc they would not even tread down that path. Honestly, every one passes through that phase if left alone with out any input or oversight by elders. we live in a society and are different from animals in that regard to relationships. Its not like they woke up one day and discovered a long lasting love for each other. The signs should have been ignored for at least a good decade. It was easy to teach them when they were an easy mould in their early teens. Now they are full grown adults and cant be persuaded like normal people. They need professional help. ABC has to pay the price of going through this process for ignoring the signs. Each parent has to take a child - separate them, hire a professional each separately and keep at it till it shows results. They can do it for so long and with advancements in therapy separating them is not impossible. For the therapists, they can counsel them and help them in distinguishing the feelings of affection vs sexual attraction. They are after all two people with sexual needs. If they can find that there is other fish in the sea and they can be friends for life with their respective families and successful careers. After all this they will look back at this like a lot if things in adolescence. Only that this occurred for them later in life. Don't need to look at it like that this is the end of the world. There is a solution for every thing and people have come out of more grave situations.
idiBeZaWaDa Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [quote name='ReddyGaru' timestamp='1373925883' post='1303955553'] North India lo Cousins in chesukuntaru.... Manamu Ikada Mummy vala sis ter daughter ni sister anukutam kani akada koni chotla... valani chesukuntaru ... [/quote] Pakka state daka velav deniki...mana statelo ina muslims ante kada...they marry pinni's daughter and they dnt marry athas daughter
idiBeZaWaDa Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [quote name='ayyoru' timestamp='1373928839' post='1303955783'] to start with, this is a very hypothetical and tangential situation. You are asking a solution, putting ABC in a very pitiable and unfortunate situation and putting the entire blame on the siblings. you are putting thoughts into the readers mind even before letting them think. coming to the problem: they should be living under a rock to develop such a relationship. if they were in the society and sharing all the other things that siblings do, watch TV, talk about societal norms etc they would not even tread down that path. Honestly, every one passes through that phase if left alone with out any input or oversight by elders. we live in a society and are different from animals in that regard to relationships. Its not like they woke up one day and discovered a long lasting love for each other. The signs should have been ignored for at least a good decade. It was easy to teach them when they were an easy mould in their early teens. Now they are full grown adults and cant be persuaded like normal people. They need professional help. ABC has to pay the price of going through this process for ignoring the signs. Each parent has to take a child - separate them, hire a professional each separately and keep at it till it shows results. They can do it for so long and with advancements in therapy separating them is not impossible. For the therapists, they can counsel them and help them in distinguishing the feelings of affection vs sexual attraction. They are after all two people with sexual needs. If they can find that there is other fish in the sea and they can be friends for life with their respective families and successful careers. After all this they will look back at this like a lot if things in adolescence. Only that this occurred for them later in life. Don't need to look at it like that this is the end of the world. There is a solution for every thing and people have come out of more grave situations. [/quote] Naaru natithe vari perugutundi..maata jarithe godava perugutundi...kani em naatakundane gaddi perugutundi
victor_raja Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [quote name='idiBeZaWaDa' timestamp='1373929375' post='1303955813'] Naaru natithe vari perugutundi..maata jarithe godava perugutundi...kani em naatakundane gaddi perugutundi [/quote] [img]http://oi56.tinypic.com/2s6awcz.jpg[/img]
victor_raja Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [quote name='jaffatingboy' timestamp='1373924862' post='1303955458'] Hi Friends, This is an imaginary scenario, which 99.99% of us will never have to face. Please note that this thread is not for the faint-hearted..only if you have a lot of guts and fortitude, you may go ahead. Kindly note that I do not wish to hurt anyone by this. Since I want both the ladies and gentlemen to participate, I have kept this as gender-neutral as possible. ABC is a well-settled middle-aged retired person, with liberal thinking, a good marriage, financial security and commands respect in the community. Grown-up children : a boy and a girl are well-settled in their careers. Broaching the topic of marriage of the elder offspring (XYZ) is always met with excuses, followed by resistance. Naturally, as any parent would, ABC assumes that the child is in love, and keeps pestering for more information. On knowing the truth, ABC is completely shattered..In fact, that would be an understatement.. This is what the child had told about the person s/he loved sincerely, and wished to marry: Own brother / sister. Of course this is absolutely blasphemous.. But this is happening.. and is the truth and not some bad nightmare which will disappear in the morning. To add fuel to the fire, the siblings also had intimate relationship with each other, and have firmly stated that they will NOT be without each other. They are aware of all possible medical and legal complications as well. Putting yourself in ABC's shoes, share your inputs on how would you react to this situation. Please Note - sibling marriages were common amongst the ancient Egyptian royalty. Waiting to hear from you. Assalu ilanti thought jaanalaki ela vasthunayooo..... SOURCE :IL PAGENO:8 [/quote] [img]http://oi56.tinypic.com/2s6awcz.jpg[/img] counselling iyyali vallaki.. they are sexual perverts they need someone to quench their thirst.. thats it... chee denamma jeevitham em questions vayya avi... ofcourse nijamga jarigunte chala badhinchalsina vishayam.. but no other option either show them alternatives or let them die with their beliefs... screw this...
idiBeZaWaDa Posted July 15, 2013 Report Posted July 15, 2013 [quote name='victor_raja' timestamp='1373930175' post='1303955879'] [img]http://oi56.tinypic.com/2s6awcz.jpg[/img] [/quote] Pedharayudlo mogan babu alane seppadu mari...I cant help vu no
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