Maro Indus Story

July 17, 2013

[size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My wife and I are from India but we live in Missouri. We got married in 1998. Both of us work as software engineers. I am a federal government employee and my wife is a federal government contractor.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]We have two boys, 11 and 4. From 1998 to 2009, we lived like two love birds. I filed her immigration papers and she became an American citizen through my sponsorship. She got her last job in 2009 because of my connections.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Four years ago, after the birth of my second son, things started changing.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]The delivery was by C-section, something that was necessitated after the contractions began because the umbilical cord was around the baby's neck. My wife was not very keen on the surgery but grudgingly agreed. Once the baby was born, both mom and baby were fine. But my wife told me the she underwent C-section because my family wanted her to undergo asurgery. That is not true. They had no role to play in that decision.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Six weeks after the delivery, her father passed away. These two events happening in such close proximity pushed her into a really bad mood. She told me I am responsible for her father's death. I pled not guilty.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Starting with his death, my wife started distancing herself from me. She won't even let me take her to the doctor for check-ups, told me tostop touching her and started blaming my family for everything. They never had anything to do with the events in my life.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Because of her depressed mood, I offered to take her to the doctor to have her looked at. She told me her health was none of my business.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I showed her enormous patience since 2009 but she steadily grew farther from me. She would burst into fits of anger and threaten to leave the house around dinnertime on weekdays. She was verbally abusive and broke my prescription reading glasses twice. She would yell at either the kids or me for the smallest of reasons.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Her sister wrote to me asking me to give my wife a year to sort herself out. Meanwhile, I developed asthma and needed to leave the city were in. My wife refused to move and made me turn down three offers I had gotten in other cities.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]At the end of that one-year grace period, instead of agreeing to leave, my wife started demanding we buy a house in the city we live in. Even though I was not able to breathe in this city, I helped her buy a house to mollify her. We moved into the new house in Jan. 2013.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]If I had any hopes her mood would improve in the new house, she killed them. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In February this year, after an argument, she told me to commit suicide. Please don’t worry about that. I am in no mood to comply. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In March, she took the help of her male colleague to renew my son's passport behind my back. She approached me only when my signature was needed on the application form. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In April, she opened a fake Facebook account and did not state her relationship status. According to her Facebook profile, she was born in 1979 when, in reality, she was born in 1967. From this account, she sent connection requests to six women and eight men (all total strangers) and they accepted. All are in the age group of 23 to 27, with one male exception. He is 33.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]None of them said anything inappropriate to her not did she to them but I do not appreciate her willingness to keep secrets from me. I do not keep any secrets from her. She has all my passwords.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Now I feel that I have been used and stabbed in the back. I get the sneaky feeling that she wants me "out" of her life -- one way or another. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Have I mentioned that the last time we made love was on May 10, 2008, when she conceived?Since then she's been sleeping in the guest bedroom.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]You would not believe me if I told you I love her today as intensely as I did in 1998. Yes, I do. I am a bit old-fashioned. She is the first woman I slept with and she will be the last. I am willing to wake up tomorrow morning and act as if the last four years did not happen because she is my dream that came true. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I've been having trouble sleeping since my Facebook discovery. I don't have a Facebook account myself. I will never get one.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I plan to speak with her about her fake account when she returns from India at the end of this month.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]After nine nights of wrestling with this discovery, I set upa n appointment with a marital counselor on Aug. 15. In the past, my wife agreed to see a marriage counselor. Hopefully, she won't ditch me.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My boys are my life. I am fighting for them.[/color][/font]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][font=Times New Roman]What I would like to know is am I an idiot to show patience, sympathy and understanding to someone who obviously does not recognize them? Should I have done something differently with this evidently disconnected spouse? [/font][/font][/color]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Thanks,[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Martin (umm...not my real name)[/color][/font][/size]

July 17, 2013

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July 17, 2013

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July 17, 2013

July 17, 2013

Do Not share your problems to others 99.9% of them are glad that you have them

July 17, 2013

inko chance ichi em kavalo kanukko, akkarley anukuntey vadiley babai.. picha lite , kalisundi gothulu tavvukodam kantey vidipoyi sukamga undadam better

July 17, 2013

I am sorry for you dude...just be little more patient and give her some more time.And when time comes talk to her and find out what exactly is she expecting out of this relationship.
Creating a new Facebook account is not a big deal to consider,she will realize what she is missing. All the best bro...!!!!!!!

July 17, 2013

[quote name='Iamking' timestamp='1374035778' post='1303963352']
[size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Four years ago, after the birth of my second son, things started changing.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Six weeks after the delivery, her father passed away. These two events happening in such close proximity pushed her into a really bad mood. [/color][color=#ff0000]She told me I am responsible for her father's death. I pled not guilty.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Starting with his death, my wife started distancing herself from me. She won't even let me take her to the doctor for check-ups, told me tostop touching her and started blaming my family for everything. They never had anything to do with the events in my life.[/color][/font][/size]

[/quote]

[img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW1-So96ZVI/AAAAAAAABOA/5K0OebWybkM/brahmi%20RT.gif[/img].......... 2008 nundi inni years time ichadu choodu adhi eedu chesina tappu.......... ye roju ayyithe "you are [size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]responsible for her father's death" [/color][/font][/size]ando........ aa roje champa chellu manipisthe.......... set ayyedi......... lekapothe green card gunjukuni India ki tanneyalsindi......... 1 year ki adhe set ayyedi......... valla amma or sister buddi cheppe vaalu ela behave cheyyalo.

July 17, 2013

[quote name='lion' timestamp='1374038202' post='1303963481']
I am sorry for you dude...[color=#ff0000]just be little more patient and give her some more time.[/color]And when time comes talk to her and find out what exactly is she expecting out of this relationship.
Creating a new Facebook account is not a big deal to consider,she will realize what she is missing. All the best bro...!!!!!!!
[/quote]

[img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW1-So96ZVI/AAAAAAAABOA/5K0OebWybkM/brahmi%20RT.gif[/img]....give some more time aa.......... 2008 nundi okade bed meeda padukuntunnadu........ his younger son's age is 4 years now.......... ee son ki pelli ayyedaka patient gaa undamantava enti

July 17, 2013

[quote name='Iamking' timestamp='1374035778' post='1303963352']
[size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My wife and I are from India but we live in Missouri. We got married in 1998. Both of us work as software engineers. I am a federal government employee and my wife is a federal government contractor.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]We have two boys, 11 and 4. From 1998 to 2009, we lived like two love birds. I filed her immigration papers and she became an American citizen through my sponsorship. She got her last job in 2009 because of my connections.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Four years ago, after the birth of my second son, things started changing.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]The delivery was by C-section, something that was necessitated after the contractions began because the umbilical cord was around the baby's neck. My wife was not very keen on the surgery but grudgingly agreed. Once the baby was born, both mom and baby were fine. But my wife told me the she underwent C-section because my family wanted her to undergo asurgery. That is not true. They had no role to play in that decision.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Six weeks after the delivery, her father passed away. These two events happening in such close proximity pushed her into a really bad mood. She told me I am responsible for her father's death. I pled not guilty.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Starting with his death, my wife started distancing herself from me. She won't even let me take her to the doctor for check-ups, told me tostop touching her and started blaming my family for everything. They never had anything to do with the events in my life.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Because of her depressed mood, I offered to take her to the doctor to have her looked at. She told me her health was none of my business.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I showed her enormous patience since 2009 but she steadily grew farther from me. She would burst into fits of anger and threaten to leave the house around dinnertime on weekdays. [/color][color=#ff0000][b]She was verbally abusive and broke my prescription reading glasses twice[/b][/color][color=#333333]. She would yell at either the kids or me for the smallest of reasons.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Her sister wrote to me asking me to give my wife a year to sort herself out. Meanwhile, I developed asthma and needed to leave the city were in. My wife refused to move and made me turn down three offers I had gotten in other cities.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]At the end of that one-year grace period, instead of agreeing to leave, my wife started demanding we buy a house in the city we live in. Even though I was not able to breathe in this city, I helped her buy a house to mollify her. We moved into the new house in Jan. 2013.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]If I had any hopes her mood would improve in the new house, she killed them. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In February this year, after an argument, [/color][color=#ff0000][b]she told me to commit suicide[/b][/color][color=#333333]. Please don’t worry about that. I am in no mood to comply. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In March, she took the help of her male colleague to renew my son's passport behind my back. She approached me only when my signature was needed on the application form. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In April, she opened a fake Facebook account and did not state her relationship status. According to her Facebook profile, [/color][color=#ff0000][b]she was born in 1979 when, in reality, she was born in 1967[/b][/color][color=#333333]. From this account, she sent connection requests to six women and eight men (all total strangers) and they accepted. All are in the age group of 23 to 27, with one male exception. He is 33.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]None of them said anything inappropriate to her not did she to them but I do not appreciate her willingness to keep secrets from me. I do not keep any secrets from her. She has all my passwords.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Now I feel that I have been used and stabbed in the back. I get the sneaky feeling that she wants me "out" of her life -- one way or another. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Have I mentioned that the last time we made love was on May 10, 2008, when she conceived?Since then she's been sleeping in the guest bedroom.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]You would not believe me if I told you I love her today as intensely as I did in 1998. Yes, I do. I am a bit old-fashioned. She is the first woman I slept with and she will be the last. I am willing to wake up tomorrow morning and act as if the last four years did not happen because she is my dream that came true. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I've been having trouble sleeping since my Facebook discovery. I don't have a Facebook account myself. I will never get one.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I plan to speak with her about her fake account when she returns from India at the end of this month.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]After nine nights of wrestling with this discovery, I set upa n appointment with a marital counselor on Aug. 15. In the past, my wife agreed to see a marriage counselor. Hopefully, she won't ditch me.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My boys are my life. I am fighting for them.[/color][/font]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][font=Times New Roman]What I would like to know is am I an idiot to show patience, sympathy and understanding to someone who obviously does not recognize them? Should I have done something differently with this evidently disconnected spouse? [/font][/font][/color]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Thanks,[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Martin (umm...not my real name)[/color][/font][/size]
[/quote]
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July 17, 2013

[quote name='Iamking' timestamp='1374035778' post='1303963352']
[size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My wife and I are from India but we live in Missouri. We got married in 1998. Both of us work as software engineers. I am a federal government employee and my wife is a federal government contractor.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]We have two boys, 11 and 4. From 1998 to 2009, we lived like two love birds. I filed her immigration papers and she became an American citizen through my sponsorship. She got her last job in 2009 because of my connections.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Four years ago, after the birth of my second son, things started changing.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]The delivery was by C-section, something that was necessitated after the contractions began because the umbilical cord was around the baby's neck. My wife was not very keen on the surgery but grudgingly agreed. Once the baby was born, both mom and baby were fine. But my wife told me the she underwent C-section because my family wanted her to undergo asurgery. That is not true. They had no role to play in that decision.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Six weeks after the delivery, her father passed away. These two events happening in such close proximity pushed her into a really bad mood. She told me I am responsible for her father's death. I pled not guilty.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Starting with his death, my wife started distancing herself from me. She won't even let me take her to the doctor for check-ups, told me tostop touching her and started blaming my family for everything. They never had anything to do with the events in my life.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Because of her depressed mood, I offered to take her to the doctor to have her looked at. She told me her health was none of my business.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I showed her enormous patience since 2009 but she steadily grew farther from me. She would burst into fits of anger and threaten to leave the house around dinnertime on weekdays. She was verbally abusive and broke my prescription reading glasses twice. She would yell at either the kids or me for the smallest of reasons.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Her sister wrote to me asking me to give my wife a year to sort herself out. Meanwhile, I developed asthma and needed to leave the city were in. My wife refused to move and made me turn down three offers I had gotten in other cities.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]At the end of that one-year grace period, instead of agreeing to leave, my wife started demanding we buy a house in the city we live in. Even though I was not able to breathe in this city, I helped her buy a house to mollify her. We moved into the new house in Jan. 2013.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]If I had any hopes her mood would improve in the new house, she killed them. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In February this year, after an argument, she told me to commit suicide. Please don’t worry about that. I am in no mood to comply. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In March, she took the help of her male colleague to renew my son's passport behind my back. She approached me only when my signature was needed on the application form. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]In April, [/color][color=#ff0000][b]she opened a fake Facebook account [/b][/color][color=#333333]and did not state her relationship status. According to her Facebook profile, she was born in 1979 when, in reality, she was born in 1967. From this account, she sent connection requests to six women and eight men (all total strangers) and they accepted. All are in the age group of 23 to 27, with one male exception. He is 33.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]None of them said anything inappropriate to her not did she to them but I do not appreciate her willingness to keep secrets from me. I do not keep any secrets from her. She has all my passwords.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Now I feel that I have been used and stabbed in the back. I get the sneaky feeling that she wants me "out" of her life -- one way or another. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Have I mentioned that the last time we made love was on May 10, 2008, when she conceived?Since then she's been sleeping in the guest bedroom.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]You would not believe me if I told you I love her today as intensely as I did in 1998. Yes, I do. I am a bit old-fashioned. She is the first woman I slept with and she will be the last. I am willing to wake up tomorrow morning and act as if the last four years did not happen because she is my dream that came true. [/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I've been having trouble sleeping since my Facebook discovery. I don't have a Facebook account myself. I will never get one.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]I plan to speak with her about her fake account when she returns from India at the end of this month.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]After nine nights of wrestling with this discovery, I set upa n appointment with a marital counselor on Aug. 15. In the past, my wife agreed to see a marriage counselor. Hopefully, she won't ditch me.[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]My boys are my life. I am fighting for them.[/color][/font]

[color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][font=Times New Roman]What I would like to know is am I an idiot to show patience, sympathy and understanding to someone who obviously does not recognize them? Should I have done something differently with this evidently disconnected spouse? [/font][/font][/color]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Thanks,[/color][/font]

[font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]Martin (umm...not my real name)[/color][/font][/size]
[/quote]

Tell me the FB account dude. I will talk and make things clear

July 17, 2013

File divorce...no matter at what cost..
children..they will be fine, they are US citizens.

July 17, 2013

just tell her to die man ...

July 17, 2013

[quote name='sid_22' timestamp='1374038625' post='1303963514']
[img]http://lh6.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TW1-So96ZVI/AAAAAAAABOA/5K0OebWybkM/brahmi%20RT.gif[/img].......... 2008 nundi inni years time ichadu choodu adhi eedu chesina tappu.......... ye roju ayyithe "you are [size=4][font=Times New Roman][color=#333333]responsible for her father's death" [/color][/font][/size]ando........ aa roje champa chellu manipisthe.......... set ayyedi......... lekapothe green card gunjukuni India ki tanneyalsindi......... 1 year ki adhe set ayyedi......... valla amma or sister buddi cheppe vaalu ela behave cheyyalo.
[/quote]

annitiki chempa chellu anipiyadamena...inkao way of communicating leda...mararu ra meeru...e vallu matram kottalera...grow up man...

July 17, 2013

Vammmoooooooooooooooooooooo

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