micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [i]Marriage is often seen as fix-all - dreamy singles think it will make them happy, restless men and women think it will make them feel complete. We take apart the five most popular cons that mar marriage.[/i][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] [b]I won't be lonely[/b] Being lonely or having company has nothing to do with getting married. Many loners remain so even after marriage. [color=#0000FF !important][u]A long-suffering woman[/u][/color]shared her woes, she said that though she was married, she was always lonely. "I never felt that we shared anything. When I spoke, he heard but never listened. On holidays, I never felt that we were together." Those who are lonely and feel that [url="http://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/topics/life/marriage"]marriage[/url] will be a solution, need to analyse and identify what they are feeling.[/size][/font][/color][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] [b]Anytime sex[/b] Sexual desire and frequency is dependent on libido, compatibility and the acceptance of the word 'sex' among both partners. Many partners, who have [color=#0000FF !important][u]a deep-seated resentment[/u][/color] for each other and are constantly bickering, are not having enough [url="http://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/topics/life/sex"]sex[/url]. Maybe one of them thought that marriage would satisfy their sexual desires, but that didn't happen, and so, the blame-game continues in other spheres of life.[/size][/font][/color][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] [b]I won't work[/b] This is quite an unrealistic thought, as increasingly, more couples realise that marriage does not mean [color=#0000FF !important][u]financial security[/u][/color]. Especially women realise that the [url="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/lifestyle"]lifestyle[/url] and aspirations one has calls for both spouses to generate income. Financial security is rare if you are not taking care of it yourself; there is no escape route. And if you have not discussed this with your partner, he or she may feel resentful of being considered a meal ticket.[/size][/font][/color][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] [b]Big happy family[/b] Most of us are conditioned to win over the love and affection of the in-laws. We bend over backwards, expect to be loved immediately and are baffled when the [url="http://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/topics/emotions/feeling"]feeling[/url] is not reciprocated.[color=#0000FF !important][u]The biological imperative[/u][/color] of birthing gives rise to a lot of unconditional love and acceptance which is hormonally absent in in-laws. So it is advised to give respect, love and attention, but don't expect much.[/size][/font][/color][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] [b]Kids can fix it all[/b] Couples feel that unhappiness in a marriage will be sorted by parenthood. This is another misconception because if there is incompatibility, a [url="http://timesofindia.speakingtree.in/topics/people/child"]child[/url] would actually come into an unwelcoming environment and may even be resented. Parenthood should be a well-thought out decision considering aspects such as - Are we ready? Do both of us want children? Do we have all the help we need? Do we agree on core values?[/size][/font][/color][color=#3F3F3F][font=georgia][size=4] at [url="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/"]http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com[/url][/size][/font][/color]
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 idhi already 10 times sadhivi pakkaki padesaaadu..
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='TOM_BHAYYA' timestamp='1376070385' post='1304092848'] idhi already 10 times sadhivi pakkaki padesaaadu.. [/quote] this is posteed today maaan .. is he a cheif editor for life style section in TOI
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='micxas' timestamp='1376070480' post='1304092859'] this is posteed today maaan .. is he a cheif editor for life style section in TOI [/quote] asaladhi copy kottindhe. silver uncle raasukunna dairy nundi man.. all copy rights reserved to Silverism man..!!
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='TOM_BHAYYA' timestamp='1376070543' post='1304092868'] asaladhi copy kottindhe. silver uncle raasukunna dairy nundi man.. all copy rights reserved to Silverism man..!! [/quote] still why he beacame nell desparandam then .. is it a boom or bane ? feofle over hyping it seems like..
Avataar Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 silver is scratching himself...n become rusty man...thts it
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='Avataar' timestamp='1376070677' post='1304092876'] silver is scratching himself...n become rusty man...thts it [/quote] okay, sarrry i didn't know that...
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='micxas' timestamp='1376070652' post='1304092874'] still why he beacame nell desparandam then .. is it a boom or bane ? feofle over hyping it seems like.. [/quote] ee topic gurunchi.. next week TV9 lo rahasyam ani program lo clear ga explain chesthunnaranta. dont miss it
Terminator II Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='TOM_BHAYYA' timestamp='1376070543' post='1304092868'] asaladhi copy kottindhe. silver uncle raasukunna dairy nundi man.. all copy rights reserved to Silverism man..!! [/quote] LOL
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='TOM_BHAYYA' timestamp='1376070788' post='1304092879'] ee topic gurunchi.. next week TV9 lo rahasyam ani program lo clear ga explain chesthunnaranta. dont miss it [/quote] who is hosting maan ? chittimallu or happieness ? where is the silver mani , why he hiding ?
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='kevkekaa' timestamp='1376070829' post='1304092880'] LOL [/quote] dont ROFL
Avataar Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='micxas' timestamp='1376070729' post='1304092877'] okay, sarrry i didn't know that... [/quote] whole db knws tht re
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 9, 2013 Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='micxas' timestamp='1376070916' post='1304092886'] who is hosting maan ? chittimallu or happieness ? where is the silver mani , why he hiding ? [/quote] aa show lo host undaru man.. edho dhayyaala gurunchi cheppinattu.. background lo oka ghambeeramaina voiceover untadhi.. silverism elaa puttindhi.. elaa perigi pedhhadhayyindhi. anni septhaarrrr. kaali dhek
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='Avataar' timestamp='1376070983' post='1304092895'] whole db knws tht re [/quote]
micxas Posted August 9, 2013 Author Report Posted August 9, 2013 [quote name='TOM_BHAYYA' timestamp='1376071032' post='1304092900'] aa show lo host undaru man.. edho dhayyaala gurunchi cheppinattu.. background lo oka ghambeeramaina voiceover untadhi.. silverism elaa puttindhi.. elaa perigi pedhhadhayyindhi. anni septhaarrrr. kaali dhek [/quote] who gives voice over, is it BOY or blafi ?
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