Yes.....good News From My Love...

[manmadudhu]

[quote name='Pichekkistha' timestamp='1377278974' post='1304154756']
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Vaalla husband tho matlaadindhi with out telling our story.........he also expressed the same....wanted to take divorce....

All three of us are glad as the seperation happening with out much drama...
And i am very glad that they are getting parted with out me involved and me being the reason......
Inka maa intlo vaallatho matlaadaali...... drama starts here this weekend.....

Thanks to all...especially George_Brahmi_III for the below suggestion...
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mee intlo vallu oppukokapothe em chestav

[biscuitRAJA000]

Idem thread ra ayya

[ICANWIN]

Dude...if you both are in love its okay to get married. If the girl is not happy and wants divorce nuvvu tanu preminchukoni pelli chesukuntunnaru adi okay but just ni manasakshi ni okasari e questions adukko nuvvu evariki answer cheyaku ni manasuku cheppuko if u still feel u r right emo alochinchuko...in any case u should now marry her leda nuvvu human ve kavu


1. Nuvve lekapote a ammayi divorce tesukuneda enta guts undeva? How much your relationship or u influenced on this divorce ( Atleast 10%? Adavallaki Bf unte kontha guts dhairyam mamulu vatilone perugutundi ala kontaina undi untundi ga) ?
2. NIjamga wife nd husband problem aey anukundam alano divorce tesukundam anukuntunnaru mari mi iddaru why didnt you inform husband that u love from long time and want to marry after divorce? hide deniki cheyali and involvement enduku avvadu anukuntunnav?
3. NIjamga a ammayi ki husband anta padaledane anukundam nuvvu oka character unnatte teelkunda nitto ala undadam tappu kada? atleast divorce varuku kottukukoni chachina husband ki truthful ga wife undakkarleda? i am in love with some one else nuvvu ivvaleni happiness inko chota dorukutondi ani enduku cheppaledu?
4. Mi eddaru open ga vadi mundu enduku tiragaledu?
5 . Oka pelli ayina ammayi mida prema ane thought correct anipistonda? Don't we have married sisters, mother and brothers? Ide repeat ayite mana intlo family enta devastated ayipotundi?
6. Secretive ga ni deggara anandam vetukunna ammayi inko sari alane cheste ni life enti?
7. Did you think how it impacts your parents? Kani penchi anni chesaru oka ammayi kosam valla asalu enni yrs penchukunna paruvu oka saraina alochinchava?
8. U are a human being how could u cheat a guy so badly being with his wife? Mana bro ki ide jarugute tala ekkada pettukuntam?
9.Nuvvu miru pelli chesukuntaru ane alochistunnav enni rojulanunchi wife cheat chesindi ante enta emotional impact untundi a husband ki though he doesn't love her? Its not just about compatibility and love...avi lekapoyina humanity, trust, honesty and loyalty anevi e lokam lo evariki undavu anentha virakthi rada adavalla mida?
10. How does this impact him in future? malla adadanini pellam ni nammagalada?


Mana culture chala goppadi...Chaduvu perige koddi value system peragali basic elements of humanity pokudadu...Selfish ga undachu dude not to the extent that it will impact others life...not to the extent one looses hope on human beings with our behavior....Dammu unte open ga cheyali ala cheste ila unna actually tappu em ledu ...badhapadina comment chesina evadi lifes antha ga effect avvavu..nammaka droham manishiki manavatvam mida nammakame pogadutundi.

NIjamga anta prema unte open ga a relation maintain cheyalsindi from day 1..love marriages lo chestunnara antavemo love marriages lo two independent decisions but ikkada married woman..legally and physically she belongs to her husband...secrecy akkada undo bayata padalekapovadam nuvvu involvement lekunda solve avvalanukovadam ivanni ni manasu ki nuvvu tappu padi mandi mecharu ani telusu anduke adi niku pressure ayyindi..


I am really dude...i have no right to question you so tittali anukunte abuse cheyali anukunte nannu cheseyi paduta but society ila ayipotunte react avvaddu anukunna react ayipotunna...oka vishayam dude ammayilu chala easy ga mould ayipotaru enta godavalunna prema unte adjust ayipogalaru evarito ayina men aey konnitlo flexible kadu she might have adjusted compromised after a while emo ...anyways ur life ur wish...make sure u reach her expectations other wise this can repeat as some women ki with time sink avutundi reality expect chesinattu pelli ayyaka husband and wife relation ala undadani...i have seen couples fighting and almost went to divorce and adjusted after 10 yrs of married life..eppudu vallu okalani vadili okallu one day kuda undaru...

i gave u enough lecture.. about tthat ..niku okkadikane cheppaledu people who are thinking otherwise aspect lo cheppa...


anyways e stage lo all i can say is good luck

[rambabu304]

[quote name='George_Brahmi_III' timestamp='1377338099' post='1304158315']
that's what happened there... the three of them have thought well, took a decision with a cool head. whats wrong in that. you see man.. in the present world, if it didn't work out, better to part away.... reppodduna aame husband tho ne undi.. veedni vadalleka akrama sambandham pettukoni.. adhi a husband ki thelisi.. vaadu sadist aipoyi.. eeme vaadi meedha case petti.. entha penta penta avtai cheppu jeevithalu.... "Anthya Nishtooram kante Aadhi Nishtooram melu" ani oka sametha undhi mana telugu lo.. this situation is very apt for that.
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bro neeku alla ardam ayindaa.. .. neenu think cheyamandi... how to be together but not to think for getting separated.....

think cheyamandi kuda veedi tho teragadam apeyadam i mean car pool ni maneyadam........... neenu previous ga kuda chepa... first aamee ki car driving nerpiyalli.........


parthi family lo problems vuntayi.... when u hear from only one side u think they are right and the other person is wrong (90% of the time)..... so inka nuuvu console chesavu kada ani chepi nuuvu thana partner kanna better so neenu naa partner ki divorce istha neethonee vunta antey.............

so there cud have been many ways to avoid the divorce .....veedu (mana pichekishtha)..... shud have thought and moved back or shud have told her to compromise and be with her husband...........

[b]deep in my heart it says this is a fake story..........vaadi ID tagatey andarki pichieekisthunadu[/b]..... but ee story chadivi vere vallaki ideas vastheyii emo ani naa feeling..........ya edi common ee ani.. so divorce tesukundam ani......... so i am sharing my two cents

[ICANWIN]

[quote name='rambabu304' timestamp='1377349464' post='1304158396']
bro neeku alla ardam ayindaa.. .. neenu think cheyamandi... how to be together but not to think for getting separated.....

think cheyamandi kuda veedi tho teragadam apeyadam i mean car pool ni maneyadam........... neenu previous ga kuda chepa... first aamee ki car driving nerpiyalli.........


parthi family lo problems vuntayi.... when u hear from only one side u think they are right and the other person is wrong (90% of the time)..... so inka nuuvu console chesavu kada ani chepi nuuvu thana partner kanna better so neenu naa partner ki divorce istha neethonee vunta antey.............

so there cud have been many ways to avoid the divorce .....veedu (mana pichekishtha)..... shud have thought and moved back or shud have told her to compromise and be with her husband...........

[b]deep in my heart it says this is a fake story..........vaadi ID tagatey andarki pichieekisthunadu[/b]..... but ee story chadivi vere vallaki ideas vastheyii emo ani naa feeling..........ya edi common ee ani.. so divorce tesukundam ani......... so i am sharing my two cents
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Story ayina story thoughts akkada nunchi vastai dude evarino chusega? asalu ilanti imaginative thought in case fake story ayina alohcinchalsina avasaram undi dude.....its not so normal for a person to be like this......nijam anukoni common anukoni e thread chadivina vallu mislead avvachu ga? Fake anukuntu kuda minds mida work avvada? Thought unte eppudo appuud implement avutundi as idi tappu anipiyali common anipiyatam lone half way on that path unnatte

[evadigolavadide]

2 years lo nuvvu kooda aame current husband position ki vastav...[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/-iaOjlbCfNLI/UYa74Y0r4II/AAAAAAAAAUk/EGIJiKFu7AA/s150/PK.gif[/img]

[lovvukovvu]

prema ledu doma ledu chal hut hut

love tho nee vollantha kovvu pathi mind dobbinattu vundi

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='tom brady' timestamp='1377312258' post='1304157309']
neeku andulo em thappu kanipistondo cheppochu ga bhayya
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Vallu vidipovataniki... itanu ento konta karanam ayyadu.... from girls side... ani naa opinion bhayya...

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='Leon' timestamp='1377313378' post='1304157382']
virginity is not by choice but by lack of opportunity annaru peddhalu...alage manaki chethakaani/cheyaleni prathi pani thappe man [img]http://i47.tinypic.com/4s086h.gif[/img]
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Andaru lack of oppurtunity valle ala vundaru baa.... Some want to be like that by choice... [img]http://i47.tinypic.com/4s086h.gif[/img]

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='George_Brahmi_III' timestamp='1377338191' post='1304158316']
future lo nuvvu pelli cehskune ammai fresh sarukey ani bond paper meedha confirmation theeskuntava endhi pelli ki mundhu
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ALa ani kaadu ani telisina chesukovu kada... Chesukuntanu ante... inka nenu em cheptam...

[George_Brahmi_III]

[quote name='Brahmanandam_AFDB' timestamp='1377353880' post='1304158472']

Vallu vidipovataniki... itanu ento konta karanam ayyadu.... from girls side... ani naa opinion bhayya...
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reason ayyadu ani cheppi guilt feel ayyi.. aa pori ni inka kelakatam maanesi.. daaniki itu pakka santosham lekunda.. atu mogudi tho kuda santosham lekunda... atla vadileyyamantava ?? that is more barbarous than what happened now. there is no way he/we can change what happened. Thinking about the future, I believe he did the right thing.

[George_Brahmi_III]

[quote name='Brahmanandam_AFDB' timestamp='1377354040' post='1304158478']

ALa ani kaadu ani telisina chesukovu kada... Chesukuntanu ante... inka nenu em cheptam...
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enduku cheskom vayya... before marriage ippudu chaala rojulu matladkuntu ne unnaru.. if someone has affairs in the past, and they confess, I would happily accept them like before. Manam em ankuntam.. love cheste parledhu... padukoni unte matram aa pori vaddu ra babu ani... because we consider sex is something important. for people who don't really bother about sex and consider it as one of the common human emotions, it would nt bother much. moreover, if its my case, I ll take the girl even if she has affairs in the past and if I believe she will be honest in the future. because not everybody here is clean... not me atleast.

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='George_Brahmi_III' timestamp='1377354064' post='1304158479']
reason ayyadu ani cheppi guilt feel ayyi.. aa pori ni inka kelakatam maanesi.. daaniki itu pakka santosham lekunda.. atu mogudi tho kuda santosham lekunda... atla vadileyyamantava ?? that is more barbarous than what happened now. there is no way he/we can change what happened. Thinking about the future, I believe he did the right thing.
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Simple Question bhayya.... Evaro oka 2-3 months car pool chesina ammayi... gurinchi anta alochinche vadiki ... Eee vishayam teliste 25 years vunna parents emayipotaro gurhtuku raleda baa... Nenu aite corret ani oppukolenu baa... Sarle chesdi chesesadu kada.. mana iddariki ee panchayathi teli savadu le... lite le....

[Anta Assamey]

[quote name='George_Brahmi_III' timestamp='1377354219' post='1304158483']
enduku cheskom vayya... before marriage ippudu chaala rojulu matladkuntu ne unnaru.. if someone has affairs in the past, and they confess, I would happily accept them like before. Manam em ankuntam.. love cheste parledhu... padukoni unte matram aa pori vaddu ra babu ani... because we consider sex is something important. for people who don't really bother about sex and consider it as one of the common human emotions, it would nt bother much. moreover, if its my case, I ll take the girl even if she has affairs in the past and if I believe she will be honest in the future. because not everybody here is clean... not me atleast.
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Bhaayya affairs vunna pilla ni chesukovatam is different from marrying a divorced women baa.... cheppanu kada... emo naa thinking aite ante... nuvvu correct ee ayyi vundachu... but naa valla kaadu antunanu ante.... sarle ehe...pada vere thread ki podam... [img]http://i47.tinypic.com/4s086h.gif[/img]

[George_Brahmi_III]

[quote name='Brahmanandam_AFDB' timestamp='1377354242' post='1304158484']

Simple Question bhayya.... Evaro oka 2-3 months car pool chesina ammayi... gurinchi anta alochinche vadiki ... Eee vishayam teliste[b] 25 years vunna parents emayipotaro gurhtuku raleda baa[/b]... Nenu aite corret ani oppukolenu baa... Sarle chesdi chesesadu kada.. mana iddariki ee panchayathi teli savadu le... lite le....
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parents sangathi appude etla decide chestaam cheppu... may be his parents will accept.. who knows. If this guy can go and explain them clearly and confidently that his life will be happier with her and only with her, they may accept. because any parent always wants his kids to be happy.. not what the society says or so... ithanu handle chese daani meedha untadhi adhi anthey.

ya.. nee opinion change cheddam ani kadu nenu cheptondhi... just discussion vachindi kada ani naa point cheppa anthey