rapchik Posted August 28, 2013 Report Posted August 28, 2013 [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Dear frens[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I'm new to il..here is my story...plz help me..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]I'm married for 5 yrs and having 2 kids 3yr daughter n 18 months son...it's a arranged marriage..n my hubby is working in uk...I went to uk after 4 months of marriage...till then we had no sex...after coming to uk...he was ok with me...we had normal sex life ...but he used to complain I'm very tired...I used to feel lonely after coming here no frens n hubby is busy with work.. I used to watch TV serials...[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He had a Fren named mr v who is very close..after dinner my hubby tells me to watch TV n goes to bedroom n talk to his Fren...I felt weird ..when I go to him he used to disconnect n say I'm tired...we had some fights during this period...n at that he said me to go to India...I felt very bad...it's only 2 months of my arrival to uk...I stayed for 4 months n felt very home sick...he booked a ticket with one of his female colleague ...I went for 2 months..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]During my stay in India his Fren mr v used to com n stay at my place..after returning I found that his Fren came n took his luggage just yest...I found a used condom in my bedroom ...I asked my husband why is it there...he simply ignored by saying I just tried how it will be..I had no sex with any other...don't put any doubts...then he was very loving n took care of me..we seriously thought of trying for kids..meanwhile he used to talk to his Fren daily n his visited us twice...on one visit my hubby had night duty n his Fren came that afternoon he also told I'm very tired...we r living in 1 bed flat...so my hubby offered him to sleep..both went n slept in our bed room as I was sitting in sofa in living room...I was a little suspicious about them...I observed my hubby giving special interest about his likes n dislikes ..offering help for everything ...[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]When I asked the same he replied he is a good Fren of mine...but I can see the diifference to mr v compared to others...[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Then we shifted to another city..n his Fren mr v wife came from India...he had 2yr old daughter by then...so no visiting s of his Fren..after my 6 months stay my sister marriage settled so I went to India for 2 months...at this also he visited his Fren..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]After returning I conceived but I was giving my exams in uk for pg...for which I have to take coaching in different place for 10days...so my hubby dropped me at coaching n went to his Fren house...both planned to go together Booz his Fren got work nearer to our place...I became suspicious n asked are you both having sex then are you giving importance to your Fren...my hubby never used to share any work related things nor health issues with me...he shares everything with his Fren...when i ask the same..this leads into an argument ..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]After coming from coaching he gave tuff time to do this work n that..it was very difficult with morning sickness..it was first pregnancy I went to India at 5 month[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]..but during my stay In India..once he told he is going to his Fren mr v place I asked his wife is there or not...he said yes she is there..but I found out that his Fren wife is not there...when I asked him he told unnecessarily you will hav doubts that's y I told like that...I ended up crying...I delivered in India..n stayed still my daughter is 5 months old..he visited during delivery n went.[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]My husband came to pick me my daughter at 6 month after lot of me asking to come n take us...after coming to uk...he didn't even touched me...in the meanwhile we used to have fights about his giving importance to his Fren...so he said I won't talk to him to see u happy..it's almost 6 months n we didn't have sex...atlast I went forward ...he said he was waiting for me to come..I conceived in the same month..my daughter became 1yr old n he started talking to his Fren again...he cald for my daughters birthday party...again the nuisance started...my husband is least bothered about me...he became rude n warned me not to talk on frens matter..he sent me to india for delivery again saying here there is no support n we hav small daughter can't manage...[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]He came for delivery n this time I stayed almost 15 months...he is very reluctant to apply visa for my son..while we are in India on Skype call I suddenly saw other person hand as I'm invisible to them...then I asked who was that...he said it was his Fren mr v who got some work over our place so came...I cut the call n had a fight about hiding this matter...again it's me who said n patched up...he is least bothered if I talk or not...nowadays using abusive language..if I don't argue about his Fren then he wil be good to me ,buy me things I need..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Again I forced him to take me to uk...after coming he never showed interest in sex...it was always me to go to him....now again his Fren turned up saying I have some work at your place for 1 month n his wife went to India may return in 2 months...he got accommodation near to my place...n calling my husband now n then...yesterday I overheard them talking on phone n was shocked to hear...they are talking about to bring some girl for sex n both can enjoy at his accommodation... I was shocked n hands shivering thinking how my husband cheated all these 5 yrs..having sleeping with his Fren n some other girl enjoying...and blaming me, abusing with bad words if I point out...now I'm totally shattered...[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]don't understand wat to do...to tell his parents who thinks he is very great...or warn his Fren not to meet...or tell his wife...totally confused simply banging my head...want a solution dear ilites...please help..[/size][/font][/color] [color=#333333][font=Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][size=3]Thinking of kids n having no financial stability I'm more worried ... for the long post.[/size][/font][/color]
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