Estory:pellam Dishwashing Cheyatam Ledhu Ani Divorce Aduguthunadu...

[jaffatingboy]

It feels silly that I am posting my problem here being a guy but I would like to get some insights.

I got married couple years ago and my dw is a homemaker. Since the time we started staying together, she never likes to do any work whatsoever. I go to work and i come home in the evening and do some household chores as well. Whenever I question something, she starts shouting and insults me.(she is trying to be defensive) Time went by and she became pregnant. I had planned for my parents to visit here even before we came to know she was pregnant. They came here and as usual she never did anywork. Her daily routine is like this - she starts talking to her parents over skype around 8am until 11.30 AM. Has food after that and sleeps and uses my laptop to chat with her friends atc. She did not even have the basic courtesy to help my aged parents with something basic like chopping vegetables etc. She doesn't even clean the plate she eats and my mom had to clean even that. I felt so ashamed, I told my parents, I will clean her plates, clean the dining table etc. The baby finally arrived and since she is lactating, me and my parents did all possible help for her. Then now her mom arrived from India, we asked her to get some stuff for lactating moms. She comes here and starts complaining, how cheap we are that we ask her to bring stuff related to pregnancy. This is when i realized where my dw got her laziness from - from her mom. She is also not foing anything. She sits at home all day doing nothing and now my mom has to do the cooking. I told me MIL to wash the cooked vessels since my mom has to cook. All hell broke loose, my wife said she will help her mom do the vessel cleaning work. They were making the house gloomy and finally I got pissed off and shouted like anything and asked them both to leave to india and apply for divorce. They said they are and both drama queens cried. They were ok for 2 days, now again it is back to the same routine. I would need suggestions how to deal with this situation. I think I am done with the marriage but I dot want to do anything hasty. Any suggestions would be valuable.

[ahimsavaadhi1]

[quote name='jaffatingboy' timestamp='1379114171' post='1304247168']
It feels silly that I am posting my problem here being a guy but I would like to get some insights.

I got married couple years ago and my dw is a homemaker. Since the time we started staying together, she never likes to do any work whatsoever. I go to work and i come home in the evening and do some household chores as well. Whenever I question something, she starts shouting and insults me.(she is trying to be defensive) Time went by and she became pregnant. I had planned for my parents to visit here even before we came to know she was pregnant. They came here and as usual she never did anywork. Her daily routine is like this - she starts talking to her parents over skype around 8am until 11.30 AM. Has food after that and sleeps and uses my laptop to chat with her friends atc. She did not even have the basic courtesy to help my aged parents with something basic like chopping vegetables etc. She doesn't even clean the plate she eats and my mom had to clean even that. I felt so ashamed, I told my parents, I will clean her plates, clean the dining table etc. The baby finally arrived and since she is lactating, me and my parents did all possible help for her. Then now her mom arrived from India, we asked her to get some stuff for lactating moms. She comes here and starts complaining, how cheap we are that we ask her to bring stuff related to pregnancy. This is when i realized where my dw got her laziness from - from her mom. She is also not foing anything. She sits at home all day doing nothing and now my mom has to do the cooking. I told me MIL to wash the cooked vessels since my mom has to cook. All hell broke loose, my wife said she will help her mom do the vessel cleaning work. They were making the house gloomy and finally I got pissed off and shouted like anything and asked them both to leave to india and apply for divorce. They said they are and both drama queens cried. They were ok for 2 days, now again it is back to the same routine. I would need suggestions how to deal with this situation. I think I am done with the marriage but I dot want to do anything hasty. Any suggestions would be valuable.
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Mari pillagaadu em ayithaadu vayyy

[mettastar]

fafam...

[mettastar]

vaadi demand lo ardham undhi... em responsibility theesukokundaa padi unte how arey howw

[prayaanam]

vadili thengu vayyyy daanni.....kusuni thinadaaniki ademanna jamindaari vamsham lo puttindaa...? Kutta balisi kottukuntunnaru ee kaalam kontha mandi...

[CorruptionKing]

divorce anthe. chinapati nundi pempakam ala undi, ipudu ika maaraledu

[Anta Assamey]

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[prayaanam]

[quote name='CorruptionKing' timestamp='1379114612' post='1304247186']
divorce anthe. chinapati nundi pempakam ala undi, ipudu ika maaraledu
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andaru alaaney paruguthaaru kada maayyaa...ikkadunna boys lo chaala mandi kaneesam thinna plate kuda kadigeyvaaru kaadu...ikkadikochi chaduvukuneytappudu restrnt lo andari platelu kadagatledaa...

[faf]

misleading title..

[mittu]

okasari pampinchu valle daariloki vastharu

[JollyBoy]

malli oka sari kurcho petti class ivvu maama... if they dont change.. better part ways.. gud for both of u... u will be free.. they will learn .. take care of ur kid

[mettastar]

[quote name='JollyBoy' timestamp='1379115529' post='1304247215']
malli oka sari kurcho petti class ivvu maama... if they dont change.. better part ways.. gud for both of u... u will be free.. they will learn .. take care of ur kid
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bhayyooo idi ekkadi nunchi copy paste chesina story...

[Piscop]

India ki poi case pedtharu pakka.. [img]http://gifrific.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/michael-jordan-laugh.gif[/img]

[sigsegv]

good man it's time people go for divorces instead of putting up with drama queens ..

[puli raaja]

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