jalsarayudu love story starting nw .........all members cme here.............

[govardhan]

[quote author=bongule link=topic=51798.msg493858#msg493858 date=1269320386]
i dont think parents inka alochinstunnaru ani.....First they look is, whether he has very good background(financially and character wise..few also look into cast)...if they feel ok with that they later on how he is looking like etc....
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ofcourse aalochistaru mama parents alage...and i feel they should think in the same way as well...i support them fully....becozz the main point they consider is...vella love oka matter kaadhule ani...they must have seen many people say that they r deeply and madly in love with each other and later..get seperated and lived happily thereafter...so they just cant believe their children falling in love....and yes its childrens duty to tell their parents if their love is true ~"! ~"!

[bongule]

[quote author=BackbenchBoyy link=topic=51798.msg493885#msg493885 date=1269320547]
cast few enti mama !q# !q# !q# !q# !q# !q# !q# !q#
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kadu maama...okappudu ala undedi kaani..ippudu ee suicides and lechipovadalu ekkuva ayyaka...vallu kuda alochistunnaru....mothaiki koothurini vadulu kovatam kanna...compramise aithe better ani...

[govardhan]

[quote author=mba link=topic=51798.msg493897#msg493897 date=1269320640]
ee statement daachi pettukoni oka 20yrs tharuvatha chaduvu mama.. sare naa..
neeku picture correct ga kanipisthundhi  cheers12w
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correst cheppavu baa...ippudu teesukune decisions aavesam lo teesukuntamu...but fathers aalochinchi teesukovali kadha

[komaram puli]

[quote author=govardhan link=topic=51798.msg493873#msg493873 date=1269320487]
simple ga cheppali ante....meeru oka ammayi father laga aalochinchi choodandi...u will definetely think differently than what u do now.....pillalu decision teesukuntaru....malli future lo edanna teda vaste...aa roju maa decision ni enduku addukoledhu daddy ani tirigi adugutaru.....thats the responsibility parents have on children cheers12w
[/quote]maama arranged marriages lo thedalu ravatleda maama?? asalu oka father forcibly oka abbayi ni chupinchi ok cheppinchadame tappu antunna...evaru tappu cheste they shd suffer..ammayi tappu person ni select cheskunte she wil suffer...ade father tappu person ni select cheste why shd his daughter suffer??

[ravee2k2]

[quote author=keko__keka link=topic=51798.msg493826#msg493826 date=1269320042]
soodu poweru ....oka example itta............nuv 1950s lo puttav...... 20+ kuturu undi......nuv conservative mentaility...ok

nee kotturni....sound pampily......abbai looks and job bagunte tappa nuv sambadam vaipu ku veltava........

plus .......parents ki eppdu pillalu chinnaga ne anipistar.....i mean ...manam confident ga untam kani....vallu inka manam deciseion makers avuna kada ane dilemma lo untaru ................... cheers12w cheers12w


p.s. jalsa mama story ki sambadam lekunda adugutunna.....coz i dont want bring him into this ........
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nen matram na filala istame na istam antara full freedom... nen epudu putina na mentality inthe...

[bongule]

[quote author=govardhan link=topic=51798.msg493900#msg493900 date=1269320664]
ofcourse aalochistaru mama parents alage...and i feel they should think in the same way as well...i support them fully....becozz the main point they consider is...vella love oka matter kaadhule ani...they must have seen many people say that they r deeply and madly in love with each other and later..get seperated and lived happily thereafter...so they just cant believe their children falling in love....and yes its childrens duty to tell their parents if their love is true ~"! ~"!
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nenu ide cheppalanukunna baa...  cheers12w cheers12w cheers12w...but evvaru guddiga reject anedi cheyyaru....because diff cast ano leka some other thing ano...

[keko__keka]

[quote author=powerstar link=topic=51798.msg493859#msg493859 date=1269320404]
i dont agree vth u mama.. ye decision theeskuna correct ani nen ankonu shud take a decision according to their childrens interest valani kuda count lo ki teeskovali lekapothe bommarillu cinemala untadi...r8 i was thinking the same thing frm few dayz avnu mama epudu abaye settle ayi undala amayi ni felli seskovadaniki ade amayi settle ayi undi abbayini suskovachu ga epudu one side thinking enduk baa... amayi ni chinna chupu sudadam ndk manani valu entha settle ayi undalani val ankuntaro valu kuda anthe settle ayi undali den.. evaru ekuva kadhu evaru thakuva kadhu  #~` #~` #~`  
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nuv seppind right......kani ........ippatiki .......kuda kodalu ata variintki vastadi kani.......abbai atta variki podu kada ( most of them)

inka okati...............alludu vastunnadu ante...ela untadi .....situatiuon............kodalu vastundia ante ela untadi............i dont have to expalain these i guess........

hitwalltwice hitwalltwice hitwalltwice since our society.........male domonited ( unfortunately) .......kabatti.......inka ammayi valla patrents alochana alage untadi................adi tappu kani....kaniu oka 50 yrs oka rakam ga batikina vallani sudden ga .....mee thinking process tappu ante.........vallu no antaru......okavela yes anna.........it will take time to sync in...........

[ravee2k2]

[quote author=mba link=topic=51798.msg493897#msg493897 date=1269320640]
ee statement daachi pettukoni oka 20yrs tharuvatha chaduvu mama.. sare naa..
neeku picture correct ga kanipisthundhi  cheers12w
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20 yrs enti na thinking anthe eni yrs ayna i dont want to think like the ppl who marry their children according to their interests irrespective of their childrens..

[bongule]

[quote author=powerstar link=topic=51798.msg493919#msg493919 date=1269320824]
nen matram na filala istame na istam antara full freedom... nen epudu putina na mentality inthe...
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nee pillala generation vache sariki...ila formal ga inform cheyyadalu....pellilu undakapovachu...like in usa...ee roju pelli repu divorce...ane type ki vachestundemo.... dance1w dance1w dance1w dance1w dance1w dance1w

[komaram puli]

[font=Verdana][/font][size=14pt][font=Verdana]cool avvandi guys..elago 2020 kalla almost anni love marriages eh avutayi..manam entha anukunna waste..mana pillalu evarni chupiste vallaki icchi cheyalsinde...prema zindabad[/font][/size]

[keko__keka]

[quote author=govardhan link=topic=51798.msg493873#msg493873 date=1269320487]
simple ga cheppali ante....meeru oka ammayi father laga aalochinchi choodandi...u will definetely think differently than what u do now.....pillalu decision teesukuntaru....malli future lo edanna teda vaste...aa roju maa decision ni enduku addukoledhu daddy ani tirigi adugutaru.....thats the responsibility parents have on children cheers12w
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very well  put....... cheers12w cheers12w cheers12w cheers12w cheers12w

[govardhan]

[quote author=komaram puli link=topic=51798.msg493916#msg493916 date=1269320810]
maama arranged marriages lo thedalu ravatleda maama?? asalu oka father forcibly oka abbayi ni chupinchi ok cheppinchadame tappu antunna...evaru tappu cheste they shd suffer..ammayi tappu person ni select cheskunte she wil suffer...ade father tappu person ni select cheste why shd his daughter suffer??
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nenu cheppedi adhe mama...mana selection kante kuda vaalla selection ne nammutaru vaallu....ofcourse vaalla selections kuda appudappudu tappulu avvutayi(arranged marriages).....kani mana selctions lo inka ekkuva chances untayi tappulu jaragataniki(love marriages)....mana selection and parents selection kalisinappudu baguntundi....(love cum arranged marriage)

father forcibly oka ammayi/abbayi tho pelli cheyinchatam ante enti mama? adi chala rare cases lo jarugutundi......

basically okati cheppali ...ela ante...naa uddesam lo love ante...."daddy, veeditho i think i can live happily ani cheppatam" anthe.....soo its nothing more than that......and manam chese tappulaki manam efeel avvali ani cheptunnavu....adi anni relations lo correst emo kaani...parents vishayam lo kaadhu...evaru tappu chesinaa vaalle feel avvutaru..anduke vaallani andaru preminchedi cheers12w

[mba]

[quote author=powerstar link=topic=51798.msg493938#msg493938 date=1269320965]
20 yrs enti na thinking anthe eni yrs ayna i dont want to think like the ppl who marry their children according to their interests irrespective of their childrens..
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hmm andaru ala vundaru kadhaa.. love marriages kuda jaruguthunnayi kadhaa ippudu .. vaatinemantavu.. fathers andarini generalize chesthunnavu.. its not good mama..
there may be few who are really stubborn and wont accept.. you dont know kadhaa..
kaani most of them convince chese way lo convince chesthe oppinchachemo kadhaa..

always there is a proper way to approach parents in case of love marriages. adhi thelusukoni approach mostly success e avuthundhi...

[ravee2k2]

[quote author=keko__keka link=topic=51798.msg493924#msg493924 date=1269320865]
nuv seppind right......kani ........ippatiki .......kuda kodalu ata variintki vastadi kani.......abbai atta variki podu kada ( most of them)

inka okati...............alludu vastunnadu ante...ela untadi .....situatiuon............kodalu vastundia ante ela untadi............i dont have to expalain these i guess........

hitwalltwice hitwalltwice hitwalltwice since our society.........male domonited ( unfortunately) .......kabatti.......inka ammayi valla patrents alochana alage untadi................adi tappu kani....kaniu oka 50 yrs oka rakam ga batikina vallani sudden ga .....mee thinking process tappu ante.........vallu no antaru......okavela yes anna.........it will take time to sync in...........


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ade mama nen chepedi evaru pedha kadhu evaru chinna kadhu der shud b no differences... atha vala ilu ledu thoka ledu amayi abayi ekada undalankunte akada undali no problem.. anthe adi val idar kalsi theeskovalsna decision...

[keko__keka]

[quote author=mba link=topic=51798.msg493897#msg493897 date=1269320640]
ee statement daachi pettukoni oka 20yrs tharuvatha chaduvu mama.. sare naa..
neeku picture correct ga kanipisthundhi  cheers12w
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enu aa mukka raddam anukunna.......kani.........enduko......konchem high dose anukoni vedilesa

ipppdante ammaylu kevalam love lu...............appudu.........15 yrs...ke pregnvancy lu...aborton lu.......LIVE IN relation ship.....mms lu.............inka  hitwalltwice hitwalltwice  enni sudalo................nothing against girls........kani trends septunna

cheers12w cheers12w cheers12w