Saamanyudu Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 illu konu.... inti panullo busy vuntaru..... gardening Parents kooda santhoshistaru... bidda oaka yitivadayyadani..
jambalahaat Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 Parents vachindi meetho kalisi.. happy ga vunda danika...mee pillalaki chaakiri cheyyadanika...???? adi chakiri laa vallu feel avvaranukuntaa.... :)
narsayya Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 emi cheyyalemu.. repu neeku ide paristhithe.. if you don't develop your own hobbies and interests. I don't understand why parents go and stay for months in the US. a few days is more than enough, I think.
Saamanyudu Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 adi chakiri laa vallu feel avvaranukuntaa.... :) Modatlo bagane vuntundi....... it is not very easy to taking care of little kids after a long long gap. Practically it is difficult, of course no parent will accept this as burden, butconsider their situation/thoughts.. all the years they work hard to raise you and it is time for them to relax and enjoy their personal intrests. I am not saying taking care/ raising grand children is burden or punishment for grand parents, but still if any thing crossing limits will turn in to bad... sorry i am not intended to hurt any body's feelings.... just give a thought ....there are many ways you can keep parents busy and happy, satisfactory.. then burdening them with baby sittings....Once again sorry if I sound hurting to any one...
Yuvatha Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 pillalni kanali nenu chepina salaha naluguriki panchuthunav...muchatestundi ninnu chustunte
vadapav Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 telugu tv , walkable distance lo library or park, daggarlo indian families undela chusko... india ki oka phonne, us ki landline weekends ekkadikaina teskellu tappakunda appudappudu oka roju rendu rojlu work from home chey gym undela chusko apt lo pet ni penchuko.. walking ki teskelatam, lantivi chestaru...
Yuvatha Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 Modatlo bagane vuntundi....... it is not very easy to taking care of little kids after a long long gap. Practically it is difficult, of course no parent will accept this as burden, but consider their situation/thoughts.. all the years they work hard to raise you and it is time for them to relax and enjoy their personal intrests. I am not saying taking care/ raising grand children is burden or punishment for grand parents, but still if any thing crossing limits will turn in to bad... sorry i am not intended to hurt any body's feelings.... just give a thought ....there are many ways you can keep parents busy and happy, satisfactory.. then burdening them with baby sittings.... Once again sorry if I sound hurting to any one... i dont accept to this... ipudu mana parents age ki mana pillalni penchatam lone happy ga untaru...infact they just wait for it...mana pillalo manani chuskuni they go back to our days as small kids and feel so good and happy. burden anukune vallu chala takkuva untar mayya....thathalu/nannamalu/ammammalu wait chestu untaru mana pillalni valla chethullo penchalani
narsayya Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 Modatlo bagane vuntundi....... it is not very easy to taking care of little kids after a long long gap. Practically it is difficult, of course no parent will accept this as burden, but consider their situation/thoughts.. all the years they work hard to raise you and it is time for them to relax and enjoy their personal intrests. I am not saying taking care/ raising grand children is burden or punishment for grand parents, but still if any thing crossing limits will turn in to bad... sorry i am not intended to hurt any body's feelings.... just give a thought ....there are many ways you can keep parents busy and happy, satisfactory.. then burdening them with baby sittings.... Once again sorry if I sound hurting to any one... well said. if you want to help your parents, help them find something to do or leave them alone to do their stuff and visit them once in a while or keep tabs on them. draggin them to the US, to bore them out of their minds is a bad idea.
narsayya Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 i dont accept to this... ipudu mana parents age ki mana pillalni penchatam lone happy ga untaru...infact they just wait for it...mana pillalo manani chuskuni they go back to our days as small kids and feel so good and happy. burden anukune vallu chala takkuva untar mayya....thathalu/nannamalu/ammammalu wait chestu untaru mana pillalni valla chethullo penchalani personally, I think its a bad idea to outsource parenting. not every transfer of power/responsibilities are smooth. I have a cousin who constantly finds fault with her mom for neglecting her kid, who she leaves with her. She compares her mother to her mom-in-law and hurts her. ofcourse my attha is also too casual and free spirited to get bogged down by a kid.
Saamanyudu Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 personally, I think its a bad idea to outsource parenting. not every transfer of power/responsibilities are smooth. I have a cousin who constantly finds fault with her mom for neglecting her kid, who she leaves with her. She compares her mother to her mom-in-law and hurts her. ofcourse my attha is also too casual and free spirited to get bogged down by a kid. I have many cases, where kids are left with grand parents and both wife & husband work in US. Parents cannot express their trouble with parenting grand children and cannot lead/enjoy their own personal life after retirement. So I said share your responsibilities with your parents don't transfer. As parents taken full responsibility of raising you to this stage, take ownership of your kids' responsibility. Your parents play a 2nd roll after you. they will support you but don't try to shift your parenting roll to your parents.
ILAQAT_MUFLIYA Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 adi chakiri laa vallu feel avvaranukuntaa.... :) nen ee reply eyyaledeee anukunna evaru vay na musugu paan vi nenu chepina salaha naluguriki panchuthunav...muchatestundi ninnu chustunte TY mayya
Yuvatha Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 personally, I think its a bad idea to outsource parenting. not every transfer of power/responsibilities are smooth. I have a cousin who constantly finds fault with her mom for neglecting her kid, who she leaves with her. She compares her mother to her mom-in-law and hurts her. ofcourse my attha is also too casual and free spirited to get bogged down by a kid. that depends bhayya...maree old age lo unna parents meeda veyalem le burden, at the same time mana meeda kuda untundi..vallu chese daniki manam appreciate cheyali..adi manaki nachakapothe venakki techukovali.,anthe kani i dont blame it on parents(valu manaki prema ela pamcharo, antha kante ekkuva mana pillala meeda untundi ani na abhiprayam).. nen ee reply eyyaledeee anukunna evaru vay na musugu paan vi TY mayya welcome
tiger_satti Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 I have many cases, where kids are left with grand parents and both wife & husband work in US. Parents cannot express their trouble with parenting grand children and cannot lead/enjoy their own personal life after retirement. So I said share your responsibilities with your parents don't transfer. As parents taken full responsibility of raising you to this stage, take ownership of your kids' responsibility. Your parents play a 2nd roll after you. they will support you but don't try to shift your parenting roll to your parents. Well said ...
k2s Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 By Order of Preference follow the below: 1. Don't keep any special schedule, let them decide their own schedule - Most imp. 2. Spend as much time as you can with them. 2. help them finding books or other their interesting topics on net for them. 3. Have evening walk with them daily and take them to near by parks like places. 4. Teach/help them how to use skype to chat with people back in india. 5. Call them from you office, whenever you get time and ask about their lunch etc... 6. If grand children are there they can be engaged by them. these are some ways you can keep them happy and busy.... ()>> gp
Yuvatha Posted October 25, 2013 Report Posted October 25, 2013 I have many cases, where kids are left with grand parents and both wife & husband work in US. Parents cannot express their trouble with parenting grand children and cannot lead/enjoy their own personal life after retirement. So I said share your responsibilities with your parents don't transfer. As parents taken full responsibility of raising you to this stage, take ownership of your kids' responsibility. Your parents play a 2nd roll after you. they will support you but don't try to shift your parenting roll to your parents. Well said ... Accepted..na meaning lo motham parents deggara odileyatam kaadu..US lo ochina parents ki bore kottakunda undalante ento chepanu bhayyoo....to me i will rise my kids..afterall manam kuda chuskovali kada valu peruguthunapudu :) jobs kosam parents meeda vadilese uddesham tho cheppindi kaadu adi
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